So,
A good friend of mine, an ex girlfriend, Lindsay, bought some beer for another underage girl that I know, and the underage girl got drunk, drove, and hit somebody head on. She survived with an array of broken bones and probable brain damage. The driver of the car that got hit was 84 years old, and was apparently dead on impact. The girl that killed the other driver, was my "friend" Megan's best friend or whatever. Megan was introduced to me by Lindsay during a time when Lindsay really liked me. After a few years, of which I spent alot of time with Lindsay and saw very little of Megan, I gave up on Lindsay as a serious girlfriend, someone to marry. Lindsay and I still spoke, were on good terms for a while, she even had a decent boyfriend. Anyways, I ended up running into her friend Megan after all of this, and basically fell in love with her.
Anyways, if Lindsay plays her cards right, can she avoid jail time on this? She's an otherwise good girl that did something stupid and irresponsible. She didn't buy the girl alcohol with malicious intent or anything.....
It sucks too cause me and Lindsay as friends were on the rocks, so I feel kind of awkward calling Lindsay now to talk to her. I know she's going to have to pay a price for this, but, I don't want her to go nuts or anything. I've been through some testy stuff lately too (imagine your golf club smashing some little kid in the head and having to carry him in a bloody mess to his mom, not fun.....). I really feel like I should call her, but the last time she talked to me she got pretty snotty, but that was the only time she's ever been upset enough with me to not want to talk to me. Well, I tried talking to her recently(during the time I was trying to hook up with Megan) and she seemed uber bitter and said something crappy to me, and I basically told her I lost interest in her as a serious girlfriend because she just wanted to party and didn't want to do anything with her life. She seemed really hurt by it. BTW, that call happened on Valentine's day, I called her on a whim for a favor and totally forgot it was Valentines day. Anyways, she got bitter ike the whole time she really loved me and she knew I wanted Megan instead but here I was calling her on valentines day. I dunno, complicated I guess. Basically, In my humblest perspective, not trying to be like, I'm a pimp, girls love me, but I think this one does or did and maybe, just maybe she, after what I said, felt bad for loosing me, only for me to to then end up falling for one of her good friends that she introduced to me...
And now Megan hates Lindsay because "she" caused the accident and messed up her best friend. Megan does party but doesnt drink alot and is really against drunk driving. And thats why I like Megan so much is because she's responsible, smart, much more than Lindsay is.
But right now I feel like I want to talk, almost desperately to Lindsay cause she's the one thats in real trouble, besides of course the dead driver and the injured girl, but I care about her and it makes me hurt to think about what might be going through her head right now. But then again I don't ever I should even bother talking to Lindsay with all the other drama. I know she has family and friends, but I wander if she's just avoiding everyone and going nuts. I'm a little weird like that sometimes. If I get to stressed or depressed I'll just close up and not talk to anybody. And she's been like that before, and with this, I dunno, maybe I think she's kinda week and this might crack her.
I don't know whether to get involved or not. I want to, but then again, I feel like its not my place to. I'm totally perplexed.
And honestly, I just met the drunk driver, whos name is Lindsay too, I met her about a month ago at one of my best friend's house. We really hit it off, but then just through conversation I found out that her, Lindsay, and Megan were like their own little group or whatever. I had basically just been rejected, pretty hard core, by Megan, as i was under alot of stress and really got myself thinking she was "the one" So, anyways, so the drunk driver, who was kind of a ditz, seemed like a decent, sweet girl, and I also feel bad knowing she has on her shoulders manslaughter or whatever, and she's probably crippled.
And this is all on the first night of me going and hanging out with my friends after being laid up for a weeks for a hernia surgery.
Please don't flame this post. Its late, I'm tired, but I can't sleep thinking about this.
Thanks.
A good friend of mine, an ex girlfriend, Lindsay, bought some beer for another underage girl that I know, and the underage girl got drunk, drove, and hit somebody head on. She survived with an array of broken bones and probable brain damage. The driver of the car that got hit was 84 years old, and was apparently dead on impact. The girl that killed the other driver, was my "friend" Megan's best friend or whatever. Megan was introduced to me by Lindsay during a time when Lindsay really liked me. After a few years, of which I spent alot of time with Lindsay and saw very little of Megan, I gave up on Lindsay as a serious girlfriend, someone to marry. Lindsay and I still spoke, were on good terms for a while, she even had a decent boyfriend. Anyways, I ended up running into her friend Megan after all of this, and basically fell in love with her.
Anyways, if Lindsay plays her cards right, can she avoid jail time on this? She's an otherwise good girl that did something stupid and irresponsible. She didn't buy the girl alcohol with malicious intent or anything.....
It sucks too cause me and Lindsay as friends were on the rocks, so I feel kind of awkward calling Lindsay now to talk to her. I know she's going to have to pay a price for this, but, I don't want her to go nuts or anything. I've been through some testy stuff lately too (imagine your golf club smashing some little kid in the head and having to carry him in a bloody mess to his mom, not fun.....). I really feel like I should call her, but the last time she talked to me she got pretty snotty, but that was the only time she's ever been upset enough with me to not want to talk to me. Well, I tried talking to her recently(during the time I was trying to hook up with Megan) and she seemed uber bitter and said something crappy to me, and I basically told her I lost interest in her as a serious girlfriend because she just wanted to party and didn't want to do anything with her life. She seemed really hurt by it. BTW, that call happened on Valentine's day, I called her on a whim for a favor and totally forgot it was Valentines day. Anyways, she got bitter ike the whole time she really loved me and she knew I wanted Megan instead but here I was calling her on valentines day. I dunno, complicated I guess. Basically, In my humblest perspective, not trying to be like, I'm a pimp, girls love me, but I think this one does or did and maybe, just maybe she, after what I said, felt bad for loosing me, only for me to to then end up falling for one of her good friends that she introduced to me...
And now Megan hates Lindsay because "she" caused the accident and messed up her best friend. Megan does party but doesnt drink alot and is really against drunk driving. And thats why I like Megan so much is because she's responsible, smart, much more than Lindsay is.
But right now I feel like I want to talk, almost desperately to Lindsay cause she's the one thats in real trouble, besides of course the dead driver and the injured girl, but I care about her and it makes me hurt to think about what might be going through her head right now. But then again I don't ever I should even bother talking to Lindsay with all the other drama. I know she has family and friends, but I wander if she's just avoiding everyone and going nuts. I'm a little weird like that sometimes. If I get to stressed or depressed I'll just close up and not talk to anybody. And she's been like that before, and with this, I dunno, maybe I think she's kinda week and this might crack her.
I don't know whether to get involved or not. I want to, but then again, I feel like its not my place to. I'm totally perplexed.
And honestly, I just met the drunk driver, whos name is Lindsay too, I met her about a month ago at one of my best friend's house. We really hit it off, but then just through conversation I found out that her, Lindsay, and Megan were like their own little group or whatever. I had basically just been rejected, pretty hard core, by Megan, as i was under alot of stress and really got myself thinking she was "the one" So, anyways, so the drunk driver, who was kind of a ditz, seemed like a decent, sweet girl, and I also feel bad knowing she has on her shoulders manslaughter or whatever, and she's probably crippled.
And this is all on the first night of me going and hanging out with my friends after being laid up for a weeks for a hernia surgery.
Please don't flame this post. Its late, I'm tired, but I can't sleep thinking about this.
Thanks.