So a cute 18 yo female wants to be roommates

[JasonSix78]

Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
So, this girl started chatting with me via yahoo personals. We've been chatting for a while, and we both came to the topic of needing to get an apartment. I need a roommate, she needs a roommate.

She lives 2 hours away from me, but is moving to my city for school. We really get along, and I havent even begun to commit to anything.

We are supposed to meet soon, go to the city zoo and such to see if we get along.

I dunno, she is moving here right when I need to get an apartment, her parents are going to help her pay, etc. None of my friends are dependable roommates. Her parents actually like the idea of her staying with someone a little bit older and more mature.

Bottom line is, im thinking, IM 25, and it would be awesome to have a freshly turned 18 cute roommate........ And I make enough that if I had to, I could cover rent and such......


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If she wasn't 18 I'd say that is one of my ex-girlfriends. She freakin' looks exactly like her. You sure she's only 18? Where do you live, (state)?

-Jason

 

[TechBoyJK]

Originally posted by: JasonSix78

Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
So, this girl started chatting with me via yahoo personals. We've been chatting for a while, and we both came to the topic of needing to get an apartment. I need a roommate, she needs a roommate.

She lives 2 hours away from me, but is moving to my city for school. We really get along, and I havent even begun to commit to anything.

We are supposed to meet soon, go to the city zoo and such to see if we get along.

I dunno, she is moving here right when I need to get an apartment, her parents are going to help her pay, etc. None of my friends are dependable roommates. Her parents actually like the idea of her staying with someone a little bit older and more mature.

Bottom line is, im thinking, IM 25, and it would be awesome to have a freshly turned 18 cute roommate........ And I make enough that if I had to, I could cover rent and such......


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If she wasn't 18 I'd say that is one of my ex-girlfriends. She freakin' looks exactly like her. You sure she's only 18? Where do you live, (state)?

-Jason

yea she just turned 18. Shes from MO, im from IL

-Jason

 

[amdhunter]

I havent read anything but the first post and just hit reply, so if this has been said before, so be it.

I dont think its a good idea since you posted on ATOT for an opinion, and your blatant use of the word "cute." I don't know why, but I get this super immature vibe from you.

If you let that girl move in, I don't think you will be able to handle yourself appropriately, and will probably end up in jail for trying to make a move on her. Especially when she brings other guys to your apartment.

I would honestly try to nail her first (since she is only 18 and immature) before committing to anything. 18 year old girls cannot be trusted for anything else than a good lay.

 

[Yaotl]

Originally posted by: amdhunter
I havent read anything but the first post and just hit reply, so if this has been said before, so be it.

I dont think its a good idea since you posted on ATOT for an opinion, and your blatant use of the word "cute." I don't know why, but I get this super immature vibe from you.

If you let that girl move in, I don't think you will be able to handle yourself appropriately, and will probably end up in jail for trying to make a move on her. Especially when she brings other guys to your apartment.

I would honestly try to nail her first (since she is only 18 and immature) before committing to anything. 18 year old girls cannot be trusted for anything else than a good lay.

Unless he can just use her as a conduit to other 18 yos. That would be tricky in and of itself, but it might work.

 

[WhoBeDaPlaya]

ROTFLMAO! This thread is so sad it's hilarious. Thanks for making a slow Friday morning go faster

 

[amdhunter]

Originally posted by: Yaotl

Originally posted by: amdhunter
I havent read anything but the first post and just hit reply, so if this has been said before, so be it.

I dont think its a good idea since you posted on ATOT for an opinion, and your blatant use of the word "cute." I don't know why, but I get this super immature vibe from you.

If you let that girl move in, I don't think you will be able to handle yourself appropriately, and will probably end up in jail for trying to make a move on her. Especially when she brings other guys to your apartment.

I would honestly try to nail her first (since she is only 18 and immature) before committing to anything. 18 year old girls cannot be trusted for anything else than a good lay.

Unless he can just use her as a conduit to other 18 yos. That would be tricky in and of itself, but it might work.

That's a plan, but I take it this dudes already infatuated with this chick, which will really hurt him in the end.

 

[WhoBeDaPlaya]

Originally posted by: you dont leave me much room!

Oooh... does that mean we get to see another video of hopping on the good foot and doing the bad thing through night vision goggles?

 

[Hottie]

Originally posted by: amdhunter
I havent read anything but the first post and just hit reply, so if this has been said before, so be it.

I dont think its a good idea since you posted on ATOT for an opinion, and your blatant use of the word "cute." I don't know why, but I get this super immature vibe from you.

If you let that girl move in, I don't think you will be able to handle yourself appropriately, and will probably end up in jail for trying to make a move on her. Especially when she brings other guys to your apartment.

I would honestly try to nail her first (since she is only 18 and immature) before committing to anything. 18 year old girls cannot be trusted for anything else than a good lay.

I am going to say the same thing.

 

[Glavinsolo]

Depends on your intentions:

Dating her when she moves into town = Don't live with her.
Being her friend when she moves into town = Get to know her.
After she is considered trustworthy (Internet convo's don't count, actions are needed to be witnessed) = Move in with her and be the older brother type. It will be more rewarding in the end.

Everyone telling you that you should "hit" it is below the age of 25. You are 25 and should be thinking of other things, like women your age.

But then again I don't know you.

 

[amdhunter]

Originally posted by: Glavinsolo
Depends on your intentions:

Dating her when she moves into town = Don't live with her.
Being her friend when she moves into town = Get to know her.
After she is considered trustworthy (Internet convo's don't count, actions are needed to be witnessed) = Move in with her and be the older brother type. It will be more rewarding in the end.

Everyone telling you that you should "hit" it is below the age of 25. You are 25 and should be thinking of other things, like women your age.

But then again I don't know you.

I am 30 and I don't see nothing wrong with telling him to "hit it." What does age have to do with anything? She is 18 and considered legally responsible for her actions.

If she is old enough to take responsibility with living with a 25 year old man at 18, she is old enough to be taken advantage of by said man.

 

[DragonMasterAlex]

Originally posted by: amdhunter
I havent read anything but the first post and just hit reply, so if this has been said before, so be it.

I dont think its a good idea since you posted on ATOT for an opinion, and your blatant use of the word "cute." I don't know why, but I get this super immature vibe from you.

If you let that girl move in, I don't think you will be able to handle yourself appropriately, and will probably end up in jail for trying to make a move on her. Especially when she brings other guys to your apartment.

I would honestly try to nail her first (since she is only 18 and immature) before committing to anything. 18 year old girls cannot be trusted for anything else than a good lay.

I disagree. Very few 18 year old girls know enough to be a good lay. At best they're a *fun* lay

Jason

 

[RedCOMET]

If it sounds to good to be true and is to good to be true, there might be a catch.

Your guys will be roomies, but in the end not fvck buddies. and if that does happen, things can go south from there pretty quickly.

good luck.

 

[tigersty1e]

Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
So, this girl started chatting with me via yahoo personals. We've been chatting for a while, and we both came to the topic of needing to get an apartment. I need a roommate, she needs a roommate.

She lives 2 hours away from me, but is moving to my city for school. We really get along, and I havent even begun to commit to anything.

We are supposed to meet soon, go to the city zoo and such to see if we get along.

I dunno, she is moving here right when I need to get an apartment, her parents are going to help her pay, etc. None of my friends are dependable roommates. Her parents actually like the idea of her staying with someone a little bit older and more mature.

Bottom line is, im thinking, IM 25, and it would be awesome to have a freshly turned 18 cute roommate........ And I make enough that if I had to, I could cover rent and such......


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You've got to be kidding me about covering her rent if you had to. Don't be a sucker.

 

[amdhunter]

Originally posted by: tigersty1e

Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
So, this girl started chatting with me via yahoo personals. We've been chatting for a while, and we both came to the topic of needing to get an apartment. I need a roommate, she needs a roommate.

She lives 2 hours away from me, but is moving to my city for school. We really get along, and I havent even begun to commit to anything.

We are supposed to meet soon, go to the city zoo and such to see if we get along.

I dunno, she is moving here right when I need to get an apartment, her parents are going to help her pay, etc. None of my friends are dependable roommates. Her parents actually like the idea of her staying with someone a little bit older and more mature.

Bottom line is, im thinking, IM 25, and it would be awesome to have a freshly turned 18 cute roommate........ And I make enough that if I had to, I could cover rent and such......


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You've got to be kidding me about covering her rent if you had to. Don't be a sucker.

Oh damn, I missed that part. All I have to say is, LOL.

 

[Concillian]

Originally posted by: tigersty1e
You've got to be kidding me about covering her rent if you had to. Don't be a sucker.

You've got to be kidding me that you didn't just re-hash something that has already been clarified about half a dozen times in this thread.

Since the ADD-prone of OT seem to need the clarification every 10 posts, I'll add yet another clarification... he meant he could afford rent on his own in the case he needed to boot her.

 

[Turnpike]

I didnt read through all these posts but I highly, highly, HIGHLY recommend not living with her. If you're a craddle robber, thats your perogative... just don't live with her man.

 

[Excelsior]

So..update?

 

[TheNinja]

If there's one thing I know about cute girls, it's that where there is one, more will be sure to follow. So living with one can't be all bad especially when they through their slumber parties, paint their toenails while wearing pajamas, and talk about movie and tv stars like Kirk Cameron and David Hasselhoff.

 

[alkemyst]

even though this is a farce (model / glamour shot pics for a roomie :confused...

Girls like the security a guy roomie brings at times, however; chances are she ain't looking for teh sex.

It does happen, but it's usually 6months - 1year into it when you know your ROOMIE ain't gonna bail when you bring home another chick/guy the next day and knock two pictures off the wall.

Personally I have never had a roomie, when I did get 'one' she was already a long g/f or fiancee. I have considered going back to living alone, if you go out and have even half a game (game meaning entertaining, not into playing them) and can listen....chances are there won't be many nights your bed is empty unless you choose it to be.

My biggest claim to getting women to do whatever is to let them know right up front when you get to the point you are going out back that this is just a fun deal, no drama, no strings attached, whatever happens happens, etc, but there is no way I am looking for a relationship where I see anyone everyday or every week even.

A lot of chicks have gone for it, and we end up having a lot of fun, some nights more than others.

Bottomline is you don't need to get a chick to be your roomie for this and if you are really doing it, you wouldn't want that.

 

[redDragon128]

Originally posted by: alkemyst
even though this is a farce (model / glamour shot pics for a roomie :confused...

Girls like the security a guy roomie brings at times, however; chances are she ain't looking for teh sex.

It does happen, but it's usually 6months - 1year into it when you know your ROOMIE ain't gonna bail when you bring home another chick/guy the next day and knock two pictures off the wall.

Personally I have never had a roomie, when I did get 'one' she was already a long g/f or fiancee. I have considered going back to living alone, if you go out and have even half a game (game meaning entertaining, not into playing them) and can listen....chances are there won't be many nights your bed is empty unless you choose it to be.

My biggest claim to getting women to do whatever is to let them know right up front when you get to the point you are going out back that this is just a fun deal, no drama, no strings attached, whatever happens happens, etc, but there is no way I am looking for a relationship where I see anyone everyday or every week even.

A lot of chicks have gone for it, and we end up having a lot of fun, some nights more than others.

Bottomline is you don't need to get a chick to be your roomie for this and if you are really doing it, you wouldn't want that.

I think I'll have to agree with you. She's not looking for sex. She's gonna bring other guys home in fact. And you're gonna have to deal with that. 18 yr old girls aren't looking for 30 yr old guys. Usually that is. And even though I say she's not good looking, she's not bad and good enough to have guys chasing after her. If you room with her this is gonna end bad. She'll move out. You're left with an apartment that's too expensive and feel like crap for ever rooming with her. I've seen it happen to buddies.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: redDragon128
I think I'll have to agree with you. She's not looking for sex. She's gonna bring other guys home in fact. And you're gonna have to deal with that. 18 yr old girls aren't looking for 30 yr old guys. Usually that is. And even though I say she's not good looking, she's not bad and good enough to have guys chasing after her. If you room with her this is gonna end bad. She'll move out. You're left with an apartment that's too expensive and feel like crap for ever rooming with her. I've seen it happen to buddies.

an 18 y0 chick has no idea at anything most of the time, she is so looking for the next big deal she misses everything...however this 18 today (I am 34) is now happening about 15/16...you have 13 year old girls wearing bracelets telling you how far they will 'go' on the dates. I suspect the next 'newsworthy' story is 'the bish was wearing an "I FVCK" bracelet, I did it...now she says it's rape....'

I originally dated older women...as a freshman in highschool I dated juniors and senior chicks. Beyond high school later 20/30 somethings. I think some of the best were 26 -36. Ironically I married an almost 5 year younger chick.

I think 23 (it's an arbitary number, I have been with an 18 yo at 29ish that was a great time) is the least I try to go for since I have been any age.

 

[TechBoyJK]

well, all i have to say is, i had a blast today. she just left. we didnt discuss the idea of being roommates one bit until we were laying in bed. I said, "still wanna be roommates?" and she responded with (predicted earlier in this thread), "Yea, and I think we can save some money if we go with a single bedroom."

She said she really likes me but wont fvck someone unless she loves them. She gave me enough to keep me interested, and cut me off before I thought she was a ho.

Before I go into details that will most certainly be called shens on, I have a pic to post. I'll post it after I come home tonight. Im going out for a bit.

 

[skisteven1]

Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
well, all i have to say is, i had a blast today. she just left. we didnt discuss the idea of being roommates one bit until we were laying in bed. I said, "still wanna be roommates?" and she responded with (predicted earlier in this thread), "Yea, and I think we can save some money if we go with a single bedroom."

She said she really likes me but wont fvck someone unless she loves them. She gave me enough to keep me interested, and cut me off before I thought she was a ho.

Before I go into details that will most certainly be called shens on, I have a pic to post. I'll post it after I come home tonight. Im going out for a bit.

if you're doin her, DO NOT LIVE WITH HER! That's an all around bad idea... Skipping the whole roomate thing, how long you think this relationship might last with an 18yr old girl? You really think she knows what she's getting herself into? ESPECIALLY if she's just moving out from her parents place. She's dumb and naive (probably).

Anyway -- so what happens when it turns sour 6 mos from now? Esp. if you go with the single bedroom ;-). Now one idea might be to get singles in the same complex or something... THAT has possibilities ;-)

oh, and if you don't nail her, I will. :-D

 

[BigJ]

How much time have you *actually* spent with her in person? If this is only the 3rd or 4th time you've hung out with her and you're already going to move in together, I think that might be even more hasty then Tomato getting engaged after 1.5 months.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
well, all i have to say is, i had a blast today. she just left. we didnt discuss the idea of being roommates one bit until we were laying in bed. I said, "still wanna be roommates?" and she responded with (predicted earlier in this thread), "Yea, and I think we can save some money if we go with a single bedroom."

She said she really likes me but wont fvck someone unless she loves them. She gave me enough to keep me interested, and cut me off before I thought she was a ho.

Before I go into details that will most certainly be called shens on, I have a pic to post. I'll post it after I come home tonight. Im going out for a bit.

dude just stop...

so you future roomie just plopped into bed in all of a day and then you guided this conversation....she wants to save cash...an 18 year old worth anything can be given money, a lot of it.

Her telling you lack of the X is she thinks you are the geek. Just you thinking she's a ho without any attachment to her proves it. I want a ho sometimes.