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Originally posted by: Stumps
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Stumps
Well where do I start with this one?
I am a complete failure...I was unable to help my Fiancee and my little princess Emily.
After struggling the past few weeks to get my Fiancee help for her rapidly declining mental health now she has been commited for Psychiatric evaluation with a probable outcome of permanently being put in a mental facility.
My lovely little daughter has been taken away and placed in to foster care until the custody of her can temporarly awarded to my parents.
what the hell went wrong?, what did I do to fail them both so miserably.
the Department of Child Services were so concerned about Emily's welfare that it only took them 3 hrs to process the removal of Emily once the complaint had been filed.
Following the inital complaint to the police which prompted all of this the police were concerned for my safety and immediatly took Michelle for evaluation at the local hosipital.
Now I am by myself, confused and depressed...
This is 100% real, I have the removal order sitting in front of me at the moment.
hey, nothing is permanent, especially where post-natal depression is concerned
it is very common for new mothers to "go off the rails" after having their child..
my own mother was very badly depressed after her first child (my older brother) - she was actually hospitalised for depression, the doctors were worried she might hurt herself, so she was essentially "lcoked up"
the sister of one of my friends also had very bad post-partum depression. Altho now she is being treated, taking antidepressants, and is doing well.
I don't think you can blame yourself for something like this. It's really more of a biological thing. Pregnancy places a massive stress on the mother's body, it's hardly surprising that many mothers experience depression and mental health problems after giving birth. But it is very treatable.
After speaking to the specialists that are assesing her, they really do doubt that she will be able to function normally...she has no real concept of reality now.
They need to restart her meds or revaulate her current regime and start her on different drugs,there are a ton of them out there.