Btw, this, "she gets scanned and they find a baby in her uterus" is just so warmly put, Dad! You don't even say whether you had a son or a daughter. People refer to their cars in more personal terms.
Did the institution offer any estimates on the dose the fetus received? I would request that information from the Radiation Safety Officer if you don't have it. In addition, I would strongly recommend that you have the radiation therapy treatment plan sent to another radiation oncologist for a second opinion. Have copies of the port films (or any other imaging they used) and treatment records sent as well. Although the baby may appear fine now, at the minimum it may have an elevated risk for developing cancer. I would discuss with the second radiation oncologist if they recommend any screening based on the estimated dose that the fetus actually received.
I don't know what's worse, the fact that this baby is fucked for life from the get-go or the fact that the mother is dumb enough to not get an abortion? It's threads like these that constantly remind me of how vitally important it is to put on a raincoat, cause women are fucking crazy-stupid.
She and I have a good relationship. She already said she wouldn't do that.
Plus, she knows that I'm going to make more money if I finish my degree.
Unless bush outlawed it, I don't see how 6 months isn't still doable for abortion.. Shit, you should have had the abortion anyway considering that you didn't even want a kid.I mentioned that abortion was not an option because baby was already 6 months old.
Please spare your judgments. The baby mama is a wonderful and responsible person that would do anything for her baby. Also, the baby isn't "fucked." The doctors are even amazed at how miraculously healthy and perfect he is.
Congrats on letting the idiotic attacks roll off. People may disagree with choices etc but the course of events is what it is. I need my coffee before continuing. Why this is going to be 'epic' is a bizarre reaction to me - what on earth could be epic or amusing about such a story? Some people are just impulsive assholes and/or idiots.
lol.
more like punched her in the stomach several times or throw her down a set of stairs.. How the fuck do you NOT know you're 6 months pregnant? Maybe the bitch wants to be the next sarah palin? I'm fully disgusted by people who put their own wants over the needs of others, especially something that has absolutely no control over its destiny like a fetus. If she wants to kill it, fine, but to damage it in this way and to continue on with the pregnancy is purely her being selfish.You should've pulled out,
methinks the lady is fat if she did not notice that she is 6 months pregnant.
This fake trolling thread has turned out great.
Mods must be sleeping.
<snip>This fake trolling thread has turned out great.
Yes.
Other comments aside - Out of curiosity I just spoke to a colleague. A gynecologist who has done an oncology rotation and has experience in breast cancer research.
Her response either gross medical malpractice and an unbelievably bad / criminal hospital or BULLSHIT. And she came down on this being a BULLSHIT story. That or the OP has really messed up dates, diagnosis, etc and is lacking in all details.
Any stomach cancer would involve looking in the belly and abdominal area for signs of spreading. First, upon admission, any woman of child bearing age would be given a pregnancy test. SOP. Esp. with abdominal issues.
The surgeons would look for signs of metastasis. This is a very deadly cancer. When it hurts it is often too late.
Chemo and/or radiation would not start again without a pregnancy test.
A 6 month old fetus would therefore not be overlooked next to impossible.
And if the hospital was so negligent to not give a pregnancy test they would not have the staff to do such a complicated surgery. The stomach is removed etc. and it is a very long and complicated process. It is hard to believe they can be so negligent and skilled at the same time.
Perhaps the OPs information is off or he doesnt have all the details but as it stands this does not pass the professional / educated sniff test.
Back to you OP. As it stands you are looking like a troll.
What say you?
more like punched her in the stomach several times or throw her down a set of stairs..