child of wonder
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I don't think you did anything wrong. Dad1 needs to tell his kid to follow your rules no matter what if he expects to play on your property. That's all their is to it.
You are not wrong...the message has to come through somehow. If this sort of thing isn't nipped in the bud the kid will be a nightmare in his teens.
You have every right to send kid#1 home. If he doesn't respond to you the first two requests, raising your voice is ok IMO.
If the kids dad doesn't like it, let him know he's welcome to come assist supervising the 8 year olds...
My only regret was not specifically suggesting this exact thing. He did ask me if I yelled at the other boy too though, and I told him no, his mom pulled him inside immediately and I didn't have to deal with him. Hopefully he got the message.
That whole "it takes a villiage" thing applies. I call kids out on their crap and expect others to do the same to my kids if they are acting up.
You should have shot him on site. You don't want stupid to grow up to breed more stupid.
My only regret was not specifically suggesting this exact thing. He did ask me if I yelled at the other boy too though, and I told him no, his mom pulled him inside immediately and I didn't have to deal with him. Hopefully he got the message.
You should have shot him on site [sic]. You don't want stupid to grow up to breed more stupid.
Yelling to get your point across shows a lack of communication skills. Do you yell at your coworkers/subordinates too?
When I was a kid a neighbor lady yelled at me. Another kid attacked me so I beat him up. Since I won the lady yelled at me. So I called her a bitch and told her to mind her own business. Turns out that adults talk to each other and have phones and shit so by the time I walked the two hundred yards home my parents will well aware of the situation from the bitch's perspective.