So im at my first OBGYN appointment

[Don Karnage]

With my fiance after finding out im going to be a father last week and even tho im in my 30s im still Alittle overwhelmed with so many different thoughts. Am I going to be a good father, am I going to be able to handle this for the next 18 years and be a good provider. I never imagined it would be this strenuous haha.

 

[ichy]

Were you two engaged before she got preggers or is "fiance" a euphemism you're using because it sounds classier than "babymomma?"

 

[vi edit]

This part is easy. Just wait till her water breaks or she goes into labor. That's when the fun begins.

 

[dank69]

Enjoy the ride you poor bastard.

 

[Don Karnage]

Were you two engaged before she got preggers or is "fiance" a euphemism you're using because it sounds classier than "babymomma?"

Been together for a year and a half. Been engaged for 6 months.

 

[Printer Bandit]

quick, get married before she starts to show.

 

[ichy]

Ah ok, glad for your sake to hear this isn't a shotgun wedding.

 

[nickbits]

Good luck

 

[etrigan420]

1-866-99-maury

 

[zinfamous]

So you're only planning to be a parent for 18 years? You gonna recycle the kid after 18 years and make a new one?

:hmm:

and congrats!

 

[Don Karnage]

quick, get married before she starts to show.

Were still thinking about next summer for our wedding. We already live together. Were not in a rush to get married.

 

[Krazy4Real]

good luck... you'll need it.

 

[ichy]

good luck... you'll need it.

Remember kids, be careful with birth control!

 

[Puppies04]

Ah ok, glad for your sake to hear this isn't a shotgun wedding.

By "shotgun wedding" you mean her dad pointing a shotgun at Don while asking if he is going to make an honest woman of her and marry her right?

P.s Don, see you in 18 years when you can afford to build a decent rig again .

Seriously though, gratz

 

[dank69]

...
P.s Don, see you in 18 years when you can afford to build a decent rig again .

...

Not if he wants his kid to go to college. Or heaven help him if he has a girl and she wants to get married.

 

[HydroSqueegee]

good luck! the questions and self doubt never stop. i have 3 kids between 7 down to 10months old. it gets easier and more difficult with time. every day is a new challenge. and 1 kid is a piece of cake. i almost envy my friends with one kid. almost.

 

[dquan97]

good luck! the questions and self doubt never stop. i have 3 kids between 7 down to 10months old. it gets easier and more difficult with time. every day is a new challenge. and 1 kid is a piece of cake. i almost envy my friends with one kid. almost.

Agreed, 1 kid is easy...too easy sometimes. I have 4 between 6 and 3mos.

 

[pelov]

You haven't mentioned if this was planned or not.

or

 

[Texashiker]

This part is easy. Just wait till her water breaks or she goes into labor. That's when the fun begins.

Just wait until the kids reach 15, 16, 17,,, that is when the "fun" starts.

 

[slsmnaz]

the pregnancy is easy. It's everything after that will test you (my first is now 7mo but there is a lot of on-the-job learning going on)

 

[OlafSicky]

Were still thinking about next summer for our wedding. We already live together. Were not in a rush to get married.

The Me ME ME generation. It's about the baby now! Do you really want it to be a bastard when it's bornD:

 

[OutHouse]

the second you hear YOUR baby cry for the first time you know this shit is real and your life just changed forever.

 

[OutHouse]

Were still thinking about next summer for our wedding. We already live together. Were not in a rush to get married.

you got a child on the way. im thinking if you are serious about marriage you move the date up to like next month.

 

[vi edit]

the second you hear YOUR baby cry for the first time you know this shit is real and your life just changed forever.

That's one set of emotions. The other one hard to describe is when your wife/babymamma and baby are getting wheeled out of the hospital, putting the munchkin in the car seat and driving home the first time. Then getting home and realizing...I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO WITH THIS THING!!!!!!!!!!!

First one is a lifechanger. Our second one has been like 1/10th the anxiety and drama of the first.

 

[mnewsham]

you got a child on the way. im thinking if you are serious about marriage you move the date up to like next month.

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