I hate the bastard. I let him see my GF a few times after we started going out, just because I am so kind hearted and wanted my gf to be happy, and most of all, free....
But theres this one time, the bastard went and started grabbing her ass, tried touching her tit's.... She told him to leave right away, and cried all night, I got home after work at 12:00, she was waiting for me at the door, practically crying, and told me what happened. I was ready to go back to his house and beat the living sh!t out of him. She told me not to, and that she would never talk to him again cause hes a dumb as$, and she hates him...
Its been about 5 months + now, and they have been talking for a while... They were going to go to the movies together (the last time I saw them at the movies (i knew her b4 going out with her) they were making out the whole time and didnt see the movie) but this time my gf has to stay home to babysit, so hes coming here, and they are "supposed to play games"..
I now have to go to my parents house ( dial up, and I have to fix 3 computers this weekend... )
I trust her, but I dont trust him.
What should I do? she told me if I dont want I can tell her, and she wont let him come, but I want her to be free!! Is it worth it?
What would you guys do?
*UPDATE* see post further down I dont wanna copy paste
*UPDATE 2* see the other post further down... jk.
We talked everything over, for over 3 hours. She read this whole thread, and we came to one conclusion: we both love each other, and I stated that the only reason I CARE that she sees him is because I hate the guy. I hate how hes a liar, and untrustworthy. His gf doesnt know about any of this. I suggested to my gf that I talked to him, and told him how I felt. She said it was a good idea. She said she is going to stop seeing him for now, but what happens if she has the urge to see him again? A while back she tried blocking him from her life, twice actually, but it never worked. She doesnt know why. She says its because of the way he makes her feel. He makes her feel desireable, and she likes that. Of course I do the same, but she says its nice to have someone else feel this way, that doesnt see you when you get up etc( i think shes beautiful even in the morning with her hair all messed up! ) So she says she is going to try and find out why she wants to see him so much, and were going to try and overcome this problem.. Its not the first time this issue has come up.. There are other guys she hangs out with, that she danced with etc, and I couldnt care less if they saw each other again.... I trust her with other people... Its just him I dont trust. Hes an unworthy bastard...
Well, everything was said, now I just have to wait to see what happens next... We wont break up, at least I dont think we will. She knows exactly how I feel now, and I know how she feels. After reading, and remembering the things he has done to her, she told me she doesnt know why she still sees him. She knows hes an asshole etc, but she just says its nice for him to think im desirable, it makes me feel good... I guess I can understand her, If you have a girlfriend, and other girls keep coming up to you, thinking you're one hot piece of ass, it makes u feel good no?
Anyways, ill keep you posted to see what happens when she talks to the ex boyfriend..
BTW, she told him that I was going to be here, and he said "well, i can't come anyways,, im sick.. Stupid cold..." or something of that manner,, so we had the night to talk...It felt good to talk about how we feel, at least now we both know how I feel when she sees that guy..
Ill keep you posted, ATOT family...
Update3: You really want it? Find it.
But theres this one time, the bastard went and started grabbing her ass, tried touching her tit's.... She told him to leave right away, and cried all night, I got home after work at 12:00, she was waiting for me at the door, practically crying, and told me what happened. I was ready to go back to his house and beat the living sh!t out of him. She told me not to, and that she would never talk to him again cause hes a dumb as$, and she hates him...
Its been about 5 months + now, and they have been talking for a while... They were going to go to the movies together (the last time I saw them at the movies (i knew her b4 going out with her) they were making out the whole time and didnt see the movie) but this time my gf has to stay home to babysit, so hes coming here, and they are "supposed to play games"..
I now have to go to my parents house ( dial up, and I have to fix 3 computers this weekend... )
I trust her, but I dont trust him.
What should I do? she told me if I dont want I can tell her, and she wont let him come, but I want her to be free!! Is it worth it?
What would you guys do?
*UPDATE* see post further down I dont wanna copy paste
*UPDATE 2* see the other post further down... jk.
We talked everything over, for over 3 hours. She read this whole thread, and we came to one conclusion: we both love each other, and I stated that the only reason I CARE that she sees him is because I hate the guy. I hate how hes a liar, and untrustworthy. His gf doesnt know about any of this. I suggested to my gf that I talked to him, and told him how I felt. She said it was a good idea. She said she is going to stop seeing him for now, but what happens if she has the urge to see him again? A while back she tried blocking him from her life, twice actually, but it never worked. She doesnt know why. She says its because of the way he makes her feel. He makes her feel desireable, and she likes that. Of course I do the same, but she says its nice to have someone else feel this way, that doesnt see you when you get up etc( i think shes beautiful even in the morning with her hair all messed up! ) So she says she is going to try and find out why she wants to see him so much, and were going to try and overcome this problem.. Its not the first time this issue has come up.. There are other guys she hangs out with, that she danced with etc, and I couldnt care less if they saw each other again.... I trust her with other people... Its just him I dont trust. Hes an unworthy bastard...
Well, everything was said, now I just have to wait to see what happens next... We wont break up, at least I dont think we will. She knows exactly how I feel now, and I know how she feels. After reading, and remembering the things he has done to her, she told me she doesnt know why she still sees him. She knows hes an asshole etc, but she just says its nice for him to think im desirable, it makes me feel good... I guess I can understand her, If you have a girlfriend, and other girls keep coming up to you, thinking you're one hot piece of ass, it makes u feel good no?
Anyways, ill keep you posted to see what happens when she talks to the ex boyfriend..
BTW, she told him that I was going to be here, and he said "well, i can't come anyways,, im sick.. Stupid cold..." or something of that manner,, so we had the night to talk...It felt good to talk about how we feel, at least now we both know how I feel when she sees that guy..
Ill keep you posted, ATOT family...
Update3: You really want it? Find it.