A while back she tried blocking him from her life, twice actually, but it never worked. She doesnt know why. She says its because of the way he makes her feel. He makes her feel desireable, and she likes that. Of course I do the same, but she says its nice to have someone else feel this way, that doesnt see you when you get up etc( i think shes beautiful even in the morning with her hair all messed up! ) So she says she is going to try and find out why she wants to see him so much, and were going to try and overcome this problem.. Its not the first time this issue has come up..
(Legend:
Bold means Bullsh!t-meter needle is taxed; Highlight means Masculinity-meter is motionless.)
Wow. Sorry I'm late to the party, but here it is:
I think that chick deserves an Oscar nomination, at least more than Will Smith did for "Ali". There's no way they didn't hook up. Those were guilt tears, I've caused them several times (see next paragraph). Personally I don't think she's fcking the outlaw biker yet. I DO think she's closing her eyes and fcking him mentally instead of OP. The above quote, occuring after he allegedly accosted her proves either A) she's too weak a person to simply admit her lingering attraction to and subsequent wrongdoing with Ex; B) Ex is more of a man to her than OP will ever be; C) OP so desparately wants to believe her that he's blind to the obvious; D) all of the above. If you want to truly get to the bottom of things, grow a pair and confront her firmly, and don't accept "I don't know" as an answer.
Before my current gf, I went thru a phase where I orchestrated all my dealings with the fairer sex so I was "the other guy". It always worked to a tee and it's much easier than you think, mainly thanks to females of low moral fiber like this gf, and boyfriends without backbones like wardemon (I always did my homework, bided my time, and went in for the kill once I confirmed the current bf was a pussy and she was weak-willed). Having written the book on that strategy, I also now have the added benefit of knowing exactly if some shady sh!t was occurring in my own relationship and would have no hesitations around acting accordingly. And by that, I mean finding him and splitting his head open, firing her ass, then asking questions later. Double-standards sure are a bitch, aren't they
A final note to wardemon: I'm also mildly amused by how you're suddenly acting all hardcore with an attitude, when you were the one to start this pussy ass YAGT in the first place. Having suffered thru reading the whole thread, you ultimately deserve this fate that you're courting. Keep telling yourself nothing's happening; just be sure to check her for cock-on-the-breath after every "friendly visit", and expect a newfound stash of wet-naps in her purse.