So my girlfriend is going to see her ex tonight.... *UPDATE 3*

[Injury]

That's dumb as hell. The guy is apparently a total creep and if she's worth it, he's going to go after her again. Tell her you hate the idea that they are going to be hanging out together. You don't tell her what she can and can't do, but you do tell her how you feel about it.

 

[Queasy]

Originally posted by: ReelC00L

Originally posted by: Queasy
If she spent a night crying because he fondled her, why is she going to see him again?

Because he changed and things have changed and he is a different person now... (sarcastic) and the unspoken "I still love him"

I have a feeling this will end badly either way. He's either going to deal with his gf freaking out over confronting her about why would she see an ex that fondled her or he's going to be freaking out over the gf and the ex spending a night together.

 

[m4ch0dude]

Originally posted by: isasir
The fact that she wants to see him again even though he made moves on her while she was dating you is a bad sign, IMO. You should put your foot down and state this and say that while you trust her, she should respect that you don't trust him, as evidenced by what he did that last time, so you don't want her to see him.

Yeah, and if she still really wants to see him that bad, then dump her. I'd never put up with that kind of sh!t man.

 

[PingSpike]

This relationship is already over. I recommend divesting yourself from it immediately.

 

[bobbybe01]

Originally posted by: tec699

My gf isnt the problem, shes really nice and caring, she would never do anything with someone else, the other guy is a fvcking lying as$hole..

That's what they all say son. The next thing you know is they are doing the bump and grind on the hood of his car with her short mini skirt jacked up past her booty! Do you really want to deal with that? I say you dump her and hang out on the forums full time. It's like family here!

Holy crap tec, do you write for Penthouse?

 

[WarDemon666]

Honestly, I am not controlling AT ALL. She can do what ever she wants, she told me she feels at ease with me, and can do what ever she wants..

I chose a wrong word, im not allowing, but i mean, she said all i have to say is I dont want him to come over and thats that..

Of course she still has some feelings for him, hes her ex, they are still friends deep down I guess.. But I still tihnk hes a dumb ass, cause when they were going out he dumped her about 5 times, and she cried for over 5 months over him, maybe thats why...

Im 19, as is she

 

[Slikkster]

heheh Electric Amish thinks you're controlling. I think you're a sap. Get some self-respect, dude. What are you, in high school? Geez, I guess that is possible. But still, come on, man.

If she really cared about you, she wouldn't even be seeing this guy. How naive to think that it wouldn't be a potential problem. Why cause friction in relationships for no reason?
And this other guy has already demonstrated that he's:

a: unfaithful
b: untruthful

Why would she see anyone like that, socially or otherwise?

 

[tec699]

Originally posted by: bobbybe01

Originally posted by: tec699

My gf isnt the problem, shes really nice and caring, she would never do anything with someone else, the other guy is a fvcking lying as$hole..

That's what they all say son. The next thing you know is they are doing the bump and grind on the hood of his car with her short mini skirt jacked up past her booty! Do you really want to deal with that? I say you dump her and hang out on the forums full time. It's like family here!

Holy crap tec, do you write for Penthouse?

I've read an article or two.

 

[Siva]

Originally posted by: pulse8

Originally posted by: WarDemon666
I hate the bastard. I let him see my GF a few times after we started going out, just because I am so kind hearted and wanted my gf to be happy, and most of all, free....

Sounds like she's a crazy b!tch and you're a controlling ass so I can't understand why it's not working out. :roll:

Yeah I'm sorry, but that's an fed up situation every which way you look at it.

 

[Reel]

Originally posted by: Queasy

Originally posted by: ReelC00L

Originally posted by: Queasy
If she spent a night crying because he fondled her, why is she going to see him again?

Because he changed and things have changed and he is a different person now... (sarcastic) and the unspoken "I still love him"

I have a feeling this will end badly either way. He's either going to deal with his gf freaking out over confronting her about why would she see an ex that fondled her or he's going to be freaking out over the gf and the ex spending a night together.

Agreed. Nothing good is likely to come out of this. I have had far too much experience in this arena in the last year or so. If they are still hung up on the ex, you have to cut them loose.

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
topic title: So my girlfriend is going to have sex with her ex tonight....

 

[WarDemon666]

Originally posted by: Slikkster
heheh Electric Amish thinks you're controlling. I think you're a sap. Get some self-respect, dude. What are you, in high school? Geez, I guess that is possible. But still, come on, man.

If she really cared about you, she wouldn't even be seeing this guy. How naive to think that it wouldn't be a potential problem. Why cause friction in relationships for no reason?
And this other guy has already demonstrated that he's:

a: unfaithful
b: untruthful

Why would she see anyone like that, socially or otherwise?

Someone she can go to when she has to talk about something,, after me, I think hes one of the other guy persons that are closest...

To be honest, Ive went out with my ex, and when I came back she was crying in the bath tub, naked (hottttt) cause she was worried... That was a while back, now we really trust each other, but, its still weird having her go out with her ex...

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: Injury
That's dumb as hell. The guy is apparently a total creep and if she's worth it, he's going to go after her again. Tell her you hate the idea that they are going to be hanging out together. You don't tell her what she can and can't do, but you do tell her how you feel about it.

Yeah, tell her you feel like your arm might punch her in the face if you doesn't do exactly what you say!

 

[WarDemon666]

Originally posted by: ReelC00L

Originally posted by: Queasy

Originally posted by: ReelC00L

Originally posted by: Queasy
If she spent a night crying because he fondled her, why is she going to see him again?

Because he changed and things have changed and he is a different person now... (sarcastic) and the unspoken "I still love him"

I have a feeling this will end badly either way. He's either going to deal with his gf freaking out over confronting her about why would she see an ex that fondled her or he's going to be freaking out over the gf and the ex spending a night together.

Agreed. Nothing good is likely to come out of this. I have had far too much experience in this arena in the last year or so. If they are still hung up on the ex, you have to cut them loose.

We both love each other, shes the nicest person ive met in my entire life, she thinks the same, nothing can break us apart!

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: Injury
That's dumb as hell. The guy is apparently a total creep and if she's worth it, he's going to go after her again. Tell her you hate the idea that they are going to be hanging out together. You don't tell her what she can and can't do, but you do tell her how you feel about it.

Yeah, tell her you feel like your arm might punch her in the face if you doesn't do exactly what you say!

that was idiotic

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: WarDemon666

Originally posted by: ReelC00L

Originally posted by: Queasy

Originally posted by: ReelC00L

Originally posted by: Queasy
If she spent a night crying because he fondled her, why is she going to see him again?

Because he changed and things have changed and he is a different person now... (sarcastic) and the unspoken "I still love him"

I have a feeling this will end badly either way. He's either going to deal with his gf freaking out over confronting her about why would she see an ex that fondled her or he's going to be freaking out over the gf and the ex spending a night together.

Agreed. Nothing good is likely to come out of this. I have had far too much experience in this arena in the last year or so. If they are still hung up on the ex, you have to cut them loose.

We both love each other, shes the nicest person ive met in my entire life, she thinks the same, nothing can break us apart!

nothing? you are FOS!

 

[TravisT]

that dude is asking for a butt whooping. He deserves it. And no, i would not let my gf go around the guy again, and he better hope he doesn't catch me seeing him around her.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: Injury
That's dumb as hell. The guy is apparently a total creep and if she's worth it, he's going to go after her again. Tell her you hate the idea that they are going to be hanging out together. You don't tell her what she can and can't do, but you do tell her how you feel about it.

Yeah, tell her you feel like your arm might punch her in the face if you doesn't do exactly what you say!

that was idiotic

I'm sorry, did my joke not please the wise sage that is mosh?

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: Injury
That's dumb as hell. The guy is apparently a total creep and if she's worth it, he's going to go after her again. Tell her you hate the idea that they are going to be hanging out together. You don't tell her what she can and can't do, but you do tell her how you feel about it.

Yeah, tell her you feel like your arm might punch her in the face if you doesn't do exactly what you say!

that was idiotic

I'm sorry, did my joke not please the wise sage that is mosh?

yeh, violence against women doesn't set well with me.

 

[m4ch0dude]

What else do you want to hear? Trust me, her hanging out with the ex is gonna end up badly, everybody here already told you, so DONT DO IT MAN.

 

[AccruedExpenditure]

Dood... you're hella dumb. Listen to the advice of people above... what do you think they're going to be talking about/doing? Let me give you a hint... it's NOTabout US Foreign Policy...

Let me be candid:
Any time I've hung out with any of my ex'es the least we've done is kissed/made out, the most... well yeah... look most guys don't give a fvck (i know I don't)... especially if he's her last BF... you need to put your foot down or the next YAGT we're going to see from you is "My G/F Cheated on me with her EX"

 

[skrilla]

The relationship is already over. You put up with more BS than you should. Get rid of her. There is no way in hell my GF would be hanging out with her X.

Before you get rid of her, call up your X girlfriend and start "hanging out" or start going out with a new girl "just as friends" on 1 on 1 encounters, see how she likes it.

 

[jdub1107]

We both love each other, shes the nicest person ive met in my entire life, she thinks the same, nothing can break us apart!

Not even her doing another guy? Who in there right mind would see someone after they've assaulted them?? With the crying, she obviously didn't like what happened last time. Why would she put herself in that situation again? Either she still has feelings for him or is just plain dumb. Either way, its bad. Think about it. You're the only one that has something to lose out of this.

 

[Budmantom]

Originally posted by: WarDemon666

Originally posted by: ReelC00L

Originally posted by: Queasy

Originally posted by: ReelC00L

Originally posted by: Queasy
If she spent a night crying because he fondled her, why is she going to see him again?

Because he changed and things have changed and he is a different person now... (sarcastic) and the unspoken "I still love him"

I have a feeling this will end badly either way. He's either going to deal with his gf freaking out over confronting her about why would she see an ex that fondled her or he's going to be freaking out over the gf and the ex spending a night together.

Agreed. Nothing good is likely to come out of this. I have had far too much experience in this arena in the last year or so. If they are still hung up on the ex, you have to cut them loose.

We both love each other, shes the nicest person ive met in my entire life, she thinks the same, nothing can break us apart!

And your 19 and your girlfriend is going to "hang out" with her ex.

Something will break you up and it will soon....


Tom

 

[shilala]

Send the skank packing. She's not worth one more second of your time.