So my girlfriend is going to see her ex tonight.... *UPDATE 3*

[columbiaflier]

Originally posted by: BaNzaiDags
wow.. even if she's not cheating... WTF is that about, hanging with EX.

i don't care how much you think she loves you and you love her...
that's not only disrespectful but givev me a break... there is not reason for her to behanging out with ex,

unless they have a tie... like same parents.. or a kid together.. haha

but forreal... this is trouble

Yeah really. He keeps trying to rationalize it though and make excuses for her so he can tell himself everything is okay and she won't cheat on him.

 

[MustangSVT]

down the line, she WILL cheat on you.

Now, knowing that, it is up to you.

Good luck..

 

[TheNiceGuy]

Options
1) you're a troll.
2) You should dump her, she's bad.
3) You should have an 'open' relationship - you can now mess around with other girls.
4) This is the second most likely after option #1. You have some low self esteem, and she thinks she can use this (probably subconciously). Where you go from here is totaly up to you. Personaly, I would start an agressive self-improvement campaign. If this is difficult, use your anger as fuel, just for now. Do whatever it takes. Lift weights, jog, get a new job, go to college, read Tony Robbins... Whatever! Everything will fall into place after that.
-TNG

 

[jiwq]

well he is about to give his SO one of the presents suggested in his other thread. she will swoon and be back in his arms in no time!

 

[columbiaflier]

Originally posted by: jiwq
well he is about to give his SO one of the presents suggested in his other thread. she will swoon and be back in his arms in no time!

She'll probably take the gift and give it to her ex and tell the guy that she got it for him. :laugh:

 

[Yo Ma Ma]

Originally posted by: alm4rr
this thread is funny

It really is.

 

[hytek369]

interesting

 

[InterpolAgent]

Is this boy in DENIAL or what?! I'd hate to say this but I can't wait until this blows up in his face. Hey Ray (as in BLIND as a bat) or whatever your name is, when you get about 99% of the people telling you what's going on, take the d@mn advice. Your girl isn't miss perfect, honest, and loyal. My bet is she's f*cked him already. We here know what we're talking about. Save yourself some face and get out before you'll suffer some of the most heart-wrenching pain you've ever felt, Mr. "I trust her." That's got "SUCKER" written all over you. I do wish you the best though....."sigh."

 

[imported_Mags]

Originally posted by: lavaheadache
I think we should zip tie his balls and then *snip*

No need, his GF did that to him a long time ago...

 

[Sentinel]

I would probably beat the fvck out of him. I wouldn't let my gf go on dates with her ex, that is fvcked up...:disgust:

 

[iwearnosox]

News flash: he's banging your girlfriend.

 

[SagaLore]

Originally posted by: iwearnosox
News flash: he's banging your girlfriend in da butt.

:Q

 

[o9z]

did read the other replies, but you said "I hate the bastard. I let him see my GF a few times after we started going out, just because I am so kind hearted and wanted my gf to be happy"

Atleast someone in the relationship wants to make the other happy. If she cares enough about you, she will understand your point of view and not see the other guy. By not seeing the other guy, she is not any less "free".

 

[Stark]

Originally posted by: Yo_Ma-Ma

Originally posted by: alm4rr
this thread is funny

It really is.

poor 666 gets reminded of his impending relationship doom every time he visits the forum. this thread needs to stay active until his "YAGT: she dumped me" thread that should be coming any day now...

 

[columbiaflier]

WarDemon is too much of a chump to come back and check in on his own thread. Maybe he realizes he looks like a pansy.

 

[meltdown75]

Originally posted by: columbiaflier
WarDemon is to much of a chump to come back and check in on his own thread. Maybe he realizes he looks like a pansy.

yeah... every time it gets bumped, I check to see who has responded in hopes of seeing WarDemon666's name and it's never there . Looks like this thread is alllll ours now.

 

[jiwq]

this thread seriously needs some updating, so we'll keep reminding him by keeping it at the first page.

 

[91TTZ]

I've already stated my position many times but I think I need to reiterate that she's banging that dude. She likes the way he makes her feel in bed. She also likes having a loyal eunuch around to serve as her cuddlebitch.

 

[Reckoner]

Love can do crazy things to a man's psyche.

 

[Alaxan]

Maybe a day late and dollar short, but if your g/f is keeping this troll around. It is more than likely testing you. She wants to either a.) see how you will react to the whole ordeal and trully wants some free space or b.) she really thinks of you as a walking door mat. Either way I am pretty certain she will lose respect for you for either being too soft, or she will wind up down the road sleeping with the ex. Take a stand, let her know you hate the guy and she should not see him. If she does, walk out. It is the only way she will respect you at all.

 

[WarDemon666]

Originally posted by: meltdown75

Originally posted by: columbiaflier
WarDemon is to much of a chump to come back and check in on his own thread. Maybe he realizes he looks like a pansy.

yeah... every time it gets bumped, I check to see who has responded in hopes of seeing WarDemon666's name and it's never there . Looks like this thread is alllll ours now.

I already stated that I wasnt going to reply to this thread, but since you people wont ever give up...heres what happened:

Shes never going to talk to him again, she removed/blocked him from IM, email, etc.. She realised our relationship isnt worth the trouble he could cause. She just didnt realise it at first..

You people didnt interpret anything properly..

Im fvcking glad I acted the way I did. I asked for advice, that doesnt mean I have to follow it.

 

[Reckoner]

If you weren't planning on listening to the overwhelming majority, then why ask?

 

[WarDemon666]

Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
If you weren't planning on listening to the overwhelming majority, then why ask?

well, I wasnt expecting 450+ posts...

"What would you guys do?"

I wanted to see what the majority would do, but I never said I'd listen to em, I just wanted to know.

 

[imported_Mike]

You're a fvckwad

 

[judasmachine]

just tell her that all love is conditional. it's ludicrous to think otherwise. would you love someone who forgot you existed everytime you weren't standing in front of them, or a dog that bite you, or a parent that well you know....

there are limits to what a person can take.