Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Does anyone really blame her for putting her career first? If I had a girl say, "Stay with me or go do your career," I'd be out of that relationship fast. I would *never* sacrifice my career for a woman.
Originally posted by: Slappy00
Hero is right, a lot of good girls have already been picked over
Does anyone really blame her for putting her career first? If I had a girl say, "Stay with me or go do your career," I'd be out of that relationship fast. I would *never* sacrifice my career for a woman.
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Actually his chances of finding a mate whose best suited for him is probably better than it was when he was 19. A lot of those women he missed out when he was 19 are still around, just more mature now and ready to be in a commited relationshipOriginally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
What really sucks is that you're now 27 and the pool of quality available women is gonna be a LOT slimmed down from when you were 19.
And you know this how?My point is, that you've probably squandered your window of opportunity as far as real love goes. Maybe not, but probably.
Finally some advice from you that's worthwhile.[/quote]If there is someone out there she'll probably find you and it'll be when you don't expect it.
My opinion: Walk away, cut ALL contact. She's already written you off. I was in a somewhat similar situation, and let me just say that you're better off walking away now. Forever.
Originally posted by: AUMM
whatever you do, do NOT hang around as a backup for her....go out and try to meet someone else
Easy, ignore it. Odds are she might be out celebrating with another guy anyways.Originally posted by: Slappy00
Oh crap I forgot to mention that her birthday is coming up on the 21st (Aug) what the hell should i do,
send her a dozen black roses with a bomb insideOriginally posted by: Slappy00
Oh crap I forgot to mention that her birthday is coming up on the 21st (Aug) what the hell should i do,
Originally posted by: Slappy00
Oh crap I forgot to mention that her birthday is coming up on the 21st (Aug) what the hell should i do,
Ignore it. You aren't dating anymore and she clearly wants to move on. You'll save time and money.Originally posted by: Slappy00
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I forgot to mention that her birthday is coming up on the 21st (Aug) what the hell should i do?
I'd skip it and send her a nice wedding gift. Being an usher at a wedding is not that big of a deal.AND her sister (which i mentioned before, sees me as her big brother that she never had) wants me to usher for her wedding (September) (she told me that SHE invited me to the wedding and I am HER guest, but she understands if I would want to pass).
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Actually his chances of finding a mate whose best suited for him is probably better than it was when he was 19. A lot of those women he missed out when he was 19 are still around, just more mature now and ready to be in a commited relationshipOriginally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
What really sucks is that you're now 27 and the pool of quality available women is gonna be a LOT slimmed down from when you were 19.
And you know this how?My point is, that you've probably squandered your window of opportunity as far as real love goes. Maybe not, but probably.
Finally some advice from you that's worthwhile.[/quote]If there is someone out there she'll probably find you and it'll be when you don't expect it.
Sorry, Slappy, but you should have planned on the marriage after grad school or during. I have freinds who did that and are still married. And I have friends who dragged out the relationship with just the promise of "marriage someday" and they are no longer together. Why? Commitment; not just the owrds but the deed.
You haven't done so since the 20th century.
Because if you answered you always thought there would be time, then you didn't really want her.