So your concession is "no Tea Party people allowed"?
Again, I really don't think you've thought your bargaining positions through. As stated earlier, automatic sequester cuts are going into effect unless an agreement is reached to the contrary. You and Eskimospy seem to think that Republicans' sole objective is changes to entitlements, which you'll trade for tax increases. I disagree that entitlement reform would necessarily be the primary focus of the GOP in negotiations, and I'd argue may not even be a big concern for them at all. But go on thinking that, it's the same progressive thinking that convinced yourselves that Sequestration would never happen because the GOP would never accept the defense spending cuts.
I think we can all admit at this point that your ideas as to how Republicans in DC are thinking is flawed at best. Remember all your bragging about how Republicans had everything they wanted and didn't mind the government shutdown/debt ceiling just a few days before their complete surrender? Good thing you didn't take that bet, huh.
I don't think you've read much into the 2014 sequestration cuts; they are vastly more heavily weighted towards defense cuts, which Democrats generally like. Cuts to defense spending in the 2014 sequestration are about $34 billion (5.5% of military spending) Cuts to non-defense discretionary spending are only $9 billion, which is about 1.5% of non-military spending. I am quite certain that the GOP would like to trade those defense cuts for entitlement reforms, but I think they will find that they have little leverage in that situation.
If the GOP would like to accept $4 in defense cuts for every $1 in domestic spending I think you'll find Democrats are generally amenable to that, no matter how foolish it might be from an economic perspective. If the GOP would like to legislate more responsibly or get concessions on entitlements, the price for that will be higher taxes. Pretty simple.