So the girl i spent close to $2000 decides to break it off with me.. 2k in 4 months.. I hate women...

[cchen]

Sorry dude that sucks. but grow some balls and get over it. happens to everyone.

 

[Rainsford]

You can't make chemistry happen, if it's not there for both of you, no amount of anything is going to help.

That being said...I think you went a little overboard, I've learned from painful experience that being really super nice all the time is an invitation to get your heart broken. Not saying you need to be a jerk (honestly I want to injure the "girls only like assholes" crowd), just act like a normal person. But don't pretend to be this super nice guy all the time, because honestly, NOBODY likes that.

 

[User1001]

Originally posted by: Tweak155

Originally posted by: Yossarian
don't forget THIS classic

sounds like same girl

EDIT: This was only 3 months ago when he made that post

THe parody was even funnier

 

[isekii]

so did you even get to DO her ?

 

[Rogue]

"i also love how she has this cute grin when she misses a shot after playing pool"

That quote by itself makes me suspicious of this relationship. Beyond that, women like a challenge. Women also love competition and very much like to feel that they are the winner. You are giving yourself away (and your money for that matter). My wife's fondest memories of the start of our relationship are the things I did to keep her wanting more. On our first date, I kissed her hand. Next date, I kissed her neck. It drove her absolutely nuts. It also helps to have "female friends" around where your love interest can see them, it drives an interested woman absolutely nuts because women always think that they are better for you than "the other bitch." Heed my advice, lift and shift fire and change your approach accordingly.

 

[Mik3y]

i'm guessin she wants a raise. give her the offer of 3k in another 4 months and she'll gladly come back.

 

[Ryan]

I wouldn't spend that much on anybody I date - that's just stupid.

 

[Gulzakar]

love = stupid...

but thats the way it works.

If love was logical, everyone here would be getting laid.

just write it off as a loss...it's going to happen time and time again...just spend less next time

 

[WayneTeK]

now that i think about it, i think i was too nice... maybe i should've been a bit more of a jerk?

 

[Mo0o]

2k in 4 months? Sounds like you were a little dumb

 

[SynthDude2001]

Originally posted by: Mo0o
2k in 4 months? Sounds like you were extremely dumb

fixed

 

[venk]

WayneTek, you are my hero. Please, post your expolits about girls more often. They are, by far, the best posts on this message board. :beer:

 

[Chompman]

At least post some pics so they can photochop her for you

 

[Balt]

I think at least subconsciously you must have known there was no chemistry and that it wasn't going to work out. Why else would you have spent $2000 on her? That's the most desperate thing I've ever heard.

 

[ultimatebob]

Originally posted by: venk
WayneTek, you are my hero. Please, post your expolits about girls more often. They are, by far, the best posts on this message board.

Oh, I don't know about that... skywalker's YAGT's are usually pretty good, as was that guy who met a girl on Yahoo Personals and thought that he was going to marry her after the first date.

 

[Mo0o]

I think him and skywalker are on equal grounds in terms of retardedness w/ girls.

 

[rezinn]

From reading your post it sounds like she was a pretty good girl, but you're kind of a loser for spending all your money on her and wasting all of your time trying to make her happy. Need I say, grow some balls?

You were with her for four months and didn't kiss her. Uh hum, and you wonder why she couldn't see herself being romantically involved with you?

My advice for the future is don't automatically spend all your money and time on some girl just because you like her. If you become friends and you want to ask her out, go ahead. But then if you don't get anywhere in a few dates or a couple weeks, you're probably not right for eachother. So be friends and stop wasting your time.

 

[Pepsi90919]

i kissed my g/f after seeing her for about 30 seconds in real life and spending $0 on her

 

[rezinn]

"You can't respect somebody that licks your boots, it just doesn't work."

I just was watching Ferris Bueller's Day Off and thought it was appropriate.

 

[tantos]

YOU HAVE TO BE THE MOST PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN...you spent over 2K over her? holy cow..ever hear of learning some life skills and actually winning a woman over through your personality and charms.
Maybe you are friendless and have no one to tell you this but I will, grow the hell up. You might as well donated those 2K to a charity. I want to see a pic of you and this girl. You can't be worse than what I imagine you to be.

 

[HermDogg]

Originally posted by: Aimster
wow what a bi t ch. My first girlfriend did that to me. I did everything for her. I quit jobs just to spend time with her. I skipped classes to spend more time with her. I spent every dime on her and even took her to work and picked her back up. Hell I even bought tampons for her. She cheated on me 2x and I was foolish and took her back. I was depressed for months.

I look back now and I laugh about it. I learned as we all do. I've been hurt after her too, but not as much because I keep learning. Now I'm in a happy relationship where I know what I'm doing. I love my girlfriend now, but if she left I made it so I won't be as depressed. I'll continue to live life and she can be part of my life. I won't have it where she is my life. Love yourself first then others. I think that is your problem.

If I was you I would ignore her. The more you show interest in a girl that has acted this way the more she will have control. Stop talking to her.

Jeebus farking christ. You're almost as bad as the OP. Blind devotion does NOT work. Trust me, I blew that one. STOP thinking that women want you to be little puppy dogs. YOU ARE A MAN. Start acting like one.

 

[thomsbrain]

dude, wake up. A) she doesn't like you. B) spending 2K on a girl you've never even kissed is called "coming on too strong" and might have a lot to do with why she doesn't like you. i think a lot of girls think if you have to beg and throw money around to get her, you must not be much of a catch (although some want to think THEY are a catch, so this can go either way.)

either way, she's gone, it ain't gonna happen, she doesn't like you.

 

[YellowRose]

Looks like you failed to jump start her hormones. I also understand why. You equate money spent as love.

 

[bleeb]

Originally posted by: BaboonGuy

she's sooo special to me. i love everything about her

Take a step back, you really don't.

 

[Aimster]

Originally posted by: HermDogg

Originally posted by: Aimster
wow what a bi t ch. My first girlfriend did that to me. I did everything for her. I quit jobs just to spend time with her. I skipped classes to spend more time with her. I spent every dime on her and even took her to work and picked her back up. Hell I even bought tampons for her. She cheated on me 2x and I was foolish and took her back. I was depressed for months.

I look back now and I laugh about it. I learned as we all do. I've been hurt after her too, but not as much because I keep learning. Now I'm in a happy relationship where I know what I'm doing. I love my girlfriend now, but if she left I made it so I won't be as depressed. I'll continue to live life and she can be part of my life. I won't have it where she is my life. Love yourself first then others. I think that is your problem.

If I was you I would ignore her. The more you show interest in a girl that has acted this way the more she will have control. Stop talking to her.

Jeebus farking christ. You're almost as bad as the OP. Blind devotion does NOT work. Trust me, I blew that one. STOP thinking that women want you to be little puppy dogs. YOU ARE A MAN. Start acting like one.

My first girlfriend was not when I was a man....I couldn't even vote or see a rated R movie.