Originally posted by: herkulease
hey is this the same girl you spent tons of money on before you held her hand?
been waiting to her update on that.
Originally posted by: Balt
I think at least subconsciously you must have known there was no chemistry and that it wasn't going to work out. Why else would you have spent $2000 on her? That's the most desperate thing I've ever heard.
Originally posted by: HermDogg
Exactly what did you drop 2 grand on mr. waynetek man-person?
Originally posted by: Pepsi90919
i kissed my g/f after seeing her for about 30 seconds in real life and spending $0 on her
Originally posted by: lavagirl669
Originally posted by: Whisper
"It's not you, it's me." Basically, it is you, but it's not your fault, and it's not something you can change. The bottom line is that she felt as though you two weren't compatible romantically(she didn't feel a "spark" with you); however, she knew you were a great person, and felt guilty letting you go.
But some people just aren't meant to be together. I've always been a firm believer that chemistry isn't something that can grow on two people over time; it's either there in the beginning or it's not. If it isn't, it's not anyone's fault, that's just how things work out.
Besides, if you're keeping track of how much money you spend on someone, then something isn't right to begin with.
this is very true....
I think the chemistry just wasn't there, but she is being sincere with you
about everything.
Evaluating how much money you spent doesn't look good. It was your
decision to spend it, and thus shows even more how much
you are obviously in love with her and care for her and wanted this to
work out.
To be honest, it doesn't sound like it will work out, and instead of being bitter
about it, just move on.
Love sucks, and chemistry can't be made to happen.
You learn from these things and become an even better person from it.
You may be very cautious next time around with someone new, but thats normal.
You'll find the right one...she obviously is not the one.
Good luck with it....
Originally posted by: FuZoR
omg please say this is some parady...
Originally posted by: bozack
sorry to say it but it kind of seems like you were used...
This line especially highlights it for me:
I already knew, before you told me, that you
would do anything for me, which made staying with you even more
appealing. It amazed me that someone can actually like me that much
and I liked that (not that I'd ever had the intention of telling you
to do stuff for me).
Sucks but women, or at least the ones I have known would rather have someone who isn't all "into" them and the saying about the a-holes getting the women is generally true unfortunately...sorry man
Originally posted by: iversonyin
damn, thats the cost of 5 6800GTs. evne its off topic we have to get back to the anand culture
lmao
good luck with your next one, i hope you make more then 2G a month becasue this is hard blow on ur wallet
Originally posted by: trmiv
How old are you, how old is she?
Originally posted by: LongAce
From what I see, she's never had a boyfriend before and most likely she's scared to have one or to get in an emotional relationship. I really think she's confused because the feelings she has, she might not have ever felt before this making run away. Give it time but not too much time. She needs to get her head settled and she'll figure things out.
Originally posted by: WayneTeK
Originally posted by: JoeKing
is she asian by chance?
Taiwanese.
Originally posted by: JoeKing
Originally posted by: WayneTeK
Originally posted by: JoeKing
is she asian by chance?
Taiwanese.
Sorry to tell you this, but this is a common occurance with asian women. Being asian myself and seeing it happen many times I've personally decided to stay away from asian women because of this. Live and learn, face that you were strung along. And if you've got the asian kink, realize there are still a few billion of us out there.
Originally posted by: viking66
better now than later.. just think in a year how much it would have been.. or even worst a devorce with children would have kept on costing.. look on the bright side.. all those other women in the world are out there for the picken and you dont half to answer to anybody..
Doesn't matter. That whole "Tao of Steve" thing is a myth. If a girl's not attracted to you it makes no difference how you act. If you're nice, you get used; if you're not nice, you just disappear. OTOH, if a girl thinks you're hot, you can be a complete asshole and she'll find some way to romanticize it - that's where that whole "thrill of the chase" BS comes from. I've always been convinced that women care about looks a lot more than they claim to - and that letter pretty much screams "I tried to like you but you're just not good-looking enough for me.".Originally posted by: moshquerade
#1 - You were too nice.... sickening sweetOriginally posted by: WayneTeK
EDIT#2: I think i was more attached than anything else...?
EDIT#1: Ultimately, i hope she regrets her decision one day.... I hope so........ and then thinks back to the good times we had and how i treated her right.
#2 - She had you by the balls so bad that there was absolutley NO thrill of the chase
Originally posted by: WayneTeK
Originally posted by: LongAce
From what I see, she's never had a boyfriend before and most likely she's scared to have one or to get in an emotional relationship. I really think she's confused because the feelings she has, she might not have ever felt before this making run away. Give it time but not too much time. She needs to get her head settled and she'll figure things out.
so you're telling me there IS a possibility???