So the girl i spent close to $2000 decides to break it off with me.. 2k in 4 months.. I hate women...

[Danman]

Well, I think you learned your lesson man. Just look at this as a very hard lesson and move on. We all do dude, and one day you will find someone so much better for yourself.

Swallowing it down hurts.

 

[welst10]

This thread makes me feel like a king in dating.

 

[Gibson486]

Take it as a lesson learned. Never spend that much on a woman, especially after only 4 months....

dry your eyes mate....there's plenty fish in the sea....

 

[welst10]

All right, I am gonna be ncie here and give you some advices.

1. do not think spending alot of money on her is the key.
2. if you haven't kissed her by 3rd date, move on to next girl. You two obviously have no chemistry and no chance.

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: welst10
This thread makes me feel like a king in dating.

This thread would make skywalker66 feel like the king in dating!!!

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: welst10
All right, I am gonna be ncie here and give you some advices.

1. do not think spending alot of money on her is the key.
2. if you haven't kissed her by 3rd date, move on to next girl. You two obviously have no chemistry and no chance.

You would think that this would be BLATANTLY obvious...but I guess not.

 

[Shelly21]

I'm sorry, try a non-asian woman next time. I can assure you, that she'll probably won't be as quiet.


Now, I don't see this one as a bitch, because you are the one who's imagining this relationship in your head (understandable, your first time. And with her being quiet, she probably has a very hard time trying to figure out how to tell you no. You're the one who's buying everything, so that part is your fault. You're lucky she didn't string you along and take you for everything before dumping you.

Lunch time for me, I'll post more later.

 

[welst10]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: welst10
All right, I am gonna be ncie here and give you some advices.

1. do not think spending alot of money on her is the key.
2. if you haven't kissed her by 3rd date, move on to next girl. You two obviously have no chemistry and no chance.

You would think that this would be BLATANTLY obvious...but I guess not.

My rule is to get laid by 3rd date otherwise move on. But for WayneTeK, I am giving a lowered standard.

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: welst10

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: welst10
All right, I am gonna be ncie here and give you some advices.

1. do not think spending alot of money on her is the key.
2. if you haven't kissed her by 3rd date, move on to next girl. You two obviously have no chemistry and no chance.

You would think that this would be BLATANTLY obvious...but I guess not.

My rule is to get laid by 3rd date otherwise move on. But for WayneTeK, I am giving a lowered standard.

:laugh:

 

[MikeyIs4Dcats]

weenie.

 

[GasX]

You need to change your username to Doormat

 

[DrPizza]

Waynetek.... I feel for you.
Been there, done that.
Worse yet, her mom liked me and wanted her to end up permanently with me... that pushed her away even more. But, I was completely infatuated with her.

Here's how you get over it:
Have fun.
Date others.
Plenty of others. Try for a new girlfriend each week - nothing steady.
Maybe you'll run across someone that the chemistry really mixes well... maybe not.. but, you'll be enjoying yourself.

Most importantly: make sure this girl finds out how easy you're finding it to date others and move on from her.

1 of 2 things can happen: You'll find happiness with someone else and discover that the world IS full of people just as good as her
Or... she'll come back, begging for a 2nd chance.

(that's what happened to me... we just celebrated our 15th anniversary 2 weeks ago.

 

[richardycc]

you lost because you were too nice 'n easy.

 

[PanzerIV]

I am not going to bash you because you've had enough of that here. Hell, at least you asked her out and dated her briefly unlike another infamous poster we all know and don't love.

She saw you as a friend and that is all. She's not sexually attracted to you which is quite evident in her email and actions. She knows she had a good thing in you but you aren't the type she can see herself having kids with and frolicking on the beach. It's not gonna happen. You made a mistake and spent a lot of money you shouldn't have but what's done is done.

You don't have to be a total ass in the future with women but do not worship the ground they walk on, nor go overboard on the spending. Act like you have some experience even if you don't and take things slow. That's another thing that killed things with the ex. She's beyond your level. She's been out before and undoubtedly gets asked out all of the time. She has experience and she's not ready to settle down and told you as much in the email. You weren't her type.

Look at this as a learning experience. Take some time to think things over and get through your depression. Then start gaining the courage to ask a few more girls out but spend moderately. After one or two dates with different women which will hopefully go well you won't even miss her anymore.

Good luck!

 

[Rufio]

damn man. u are poor now

 

[marcello]

4 months, 2k, no kiss? That's where you went wrong. I don't know how old you are, and I didn't read all the posts, but man......you should have been knee deep in p*ssy after that long.

"Sometimes you gotta take the p*ssy, like Pepe"

 

[Electric Amish]

You're a dumbass for spending that much.

 

[purbeast0]

Originally posted by: marcello
4 months, 2k, no kiss? That's where you went wrong. I don't know how old you are, and I didn't read all the posts, but man......you should have been knee deep in p*ssy after that long.

"Sometimes you gotta take the p*ssy, like Pepe"

he's 22, and so is she ... :roll:

 

[amdguy]

http://www.sosuave.com/romance/david/art60.htm

READ THAT AND MEMORIZE IT!!!! IT WILL DO YOU SOME GOOD

and next time yes, stay away from TWnese girls. ASK ANY chinese members or your asian friends here, you'll know how taiwanese girls are like.

geeze if i have 2K i'll spend it on my computer instead of on a ungrateful pig

it does not matter if ever spent money on a girl before, what you are doing is a money loosing business.

 

[bluehorizon]

Originally posted by: WayneTeK

Originally posted by: bozack
sorry to say it but it kind of seems like you were used...

This line especially highlights it for me:

I already knew, before you told me, that you
would do anything for me, which made staying with you even more
appealing. It amazed me that someone can actually like me that much
and I liked that (not that I'd ever had the intention of telling you
to do stuff for me).

Sucks but women, or at least the ones I have known would rather have someone who isn't all "into" them and the saying about the a-holes getting the women is generally true unfortunately...sorry man

i honeslty don't know why a-holes get all the girls and win... why do nice guys finish last? so unfair.

Nice guys don't finish last. Desperate guys finish last. You're desperate, therefore you lost your chance.

She doesn't think you're attractive. Period. Not only does she find you physically unattractive, but your obvious desparity is incredible unappealing. Women like to be chased. No women wants a guy who will not stand up for himself, who lacks a spine or who will always agree/conceed with/to her. Women like a man who is his own person. Judging by what you posted, you lack all of that. You have only yourself to blame. It is not her, it's you. Suck it up like a man and stop bitching on a public forum.

 

[bluehorizon]

Originally posted by: WayneTeK

Originally posted by: viking66
better now than later.. just think in a year how much it would have been.. or even worst a devorce with children would have kept on costing.. look on the bright side.. all those other women in the world are out there for the picken and you dont half to answer to anybody..

i guess this is a bright way to look at it, but it's hard..... i like HER for who she is and other women just dont' measure up to what i like about her....

You have absolutely no life experience. How would you possibly know that no other girl would measure up to her? You sound like you're 16, not 22 man. A little naive, don't you think?

 

[HamSupLo]

listen to what these fellas say about Taiwanese girls, proceed with caution.

 

[maziwanka]

Originally posted by: bluehorizon
Nice guys don't finish last. Desperate guys finish last. You're desperate, therefore you lost your chance.

She doesn't think you're attractive. Period. Not only does she find you physically unattractive, but your obvious desparity is incredible unappealing. Women like to be chased. No women wants a guy who will not stand up for himself, who lacks a spine or who will always agree/conceed with/to her. Women like a man who is his own person. Judging by what you posted, you lack all of that. You have only yourself to blame. It is not her, it's you. Suck it up like a man and stop bitching on a public forum.

boo yah

 

[rezinn]

Originally posted by: amdguy
http://www.sosuave.com/romance/david/art60.htm

READ THAT AND MEMORIZE IT!!!! IT WILL DO YOU SOME GOOD

Yuck why does that need to be so long. I read a little and it seems pretty good, but just get the gist of it or you'll be reading it for the next 4 months

 

[Ranger X]

Consider it a lesson learned. Never spend that much on a woman, unless she's your wife.