Solution to cheating?

[mammador]

I don't condone cheating ever.

But shouldn't society give up "monogamy"?

If people cannot commit, then why enforce commmitment as a goal? :thumbsup:

You already had 2 threads on this closed for trolling in L&R. In this case, the third time isn't the charm.
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[Printer Bandit]

Everyone "cheats".

Just thinking is cheating

 

[Mixolydian]

how can you be in a serious relationship if you're not committed?

 

[IronWing]

But shouldn't society give up "monogamy"?

<Looks at divorce rate> I think society already did.

 

[raildogg]

Everyone "cheats".

Just thinking is cheating

Yes my friend. We all have disgusting thoughts all the time - that is also cheating. We might look pure on the outside, yet on the inside, we're just as crooked as anyone else. We just don't have the guts to act it out.

 

[Mixolydian]

Yes my friend. We all have disgusting thoughts all the time - that is also cheating. We might look pure on the outside, yet on the inside, we're just as crooked as anyone else. We just don't have the guts to act it out.

It shows that (some) people still have somewhat of a working moral compass, though.

 

[raildogg]

It shows that (some) people still have somewhat of a working moral compass, though.

Their fears of getting caught and personal ambitions towards other goals might be stronger than a particular lust or whatever other desire might be. Throw in alcohol and those fears grow weaker though.

 

[zanejohnson]

yes any relationship i ever have again will have to be considered "open."


not gonna deny myself or anyone else of there carnal "needs."

 

[raildogg]

yes any relationship i ever have again will have to be considered "open."


not gonna deny myself or anyone else of there carnal "needs."

Then is that even a relationship?

 

[Mixolydian]

Then is that even a relationship?

No, it's just sex.

 

[mammador]

Everyone "cheats".

Just thinking is cheating

So if cheating is normal, why seek to limit it?

 

[Baked]

Girls don't say it, but they love cheaters because they want the drama of fighting over the same man with other girls. Then they get all psycho when their man chooses the other girl.

 

[mammador]

It shows that (some) people still have somewhat of a working moral compass, though.

morals don't even exist.

 

[Mixolydian]

morals don't even exist.

see this is where you go into your psycho crap again.

 

[SagaLore]

I don't condone cheating ever.

You're full of fecal matter.

 

[mammador]

Girls don't say it, but they love cheaters because they want the drama of fighting over the same man with other girls. Then they get all psycho when their man chooses the other girl.

If people wish to cheat, who cares?

 

[mammador]

You're full of fecal matter.

And? People contradict.

 

[Nintendesert]

Keep lowering the bar America!

 

[Mixolydian]

Keep lowering the bar America!

Yes, because only Americans cheat...

 

[Nintendesert]

Yes, because only Americans cheat...

Americans are the devil.

 

[zanejohnson]

Then is that even a relationship?

yes, love, and monogamy, are completely different (in my universe)

 

[Greenman]

Cheat, don't cheat, it doesn't matter because you're sub-human. You can't comprehend what an ethical code is, so you assume it's a construct designed to limit your own personal gratification.

You're an idiot.

 

[edro]

We just don't have the guts to act it out.

It takes "guts" to cheat? How immature.

I don't cheat on my wife because I love her.
I don't think I would even enjoy sex with another woman, as there would be no emotional connection.

 

[BoomerD]

 

[raildogg]

It takes "guts" to cheat? How immature.

I don't cheat on my wife because I love her.
I don't think I would even enjoy sex with another woman, as there would be no emotional connection.

No, some people's fear of getting caught or some other personal ambition is far more stronger than their urge to with with someone, thus they don't do it. Deep down, if they realize it, they would if there were no repercussions.

Humans are only a bunch of costume wearers, me included. Deep down, we, myself included, carry all sorts of these terrible thoughts and feelings though we rarely act them out due to one reason or another. So, maybe we, myself included, need to work on changing our interiors rather than focusing on things as cheating, morality or whatever. After all, if we change ourselves inside, then everything else will fall in place.

Sorry if my words were hurtful.