Zenmervolt
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Originally posted by: jonks
Originally posted by: Zenmervolt
Originally posted by: jonks
No offense, but we only have your side of the story. For all we know, you threw the kid in the car, rolled the windows down a little and told the little snot to "sweat the devil" out of her. If the cops showed up 20 minutes after you put the kid in the car and you were still there yelling at her, well, that's a long time to be "reprimanding."
Because walking away and leaving the child unattended in the car would have been a much better idea. :roll:
He wasn't "still yelling at her", he was letting her have her tantrum in a safe place that didn't interfere with other people's ability to enjoy the pool while staying nearby to make sure nothing happened to her.
Well I'm glad you were there to confirm his story. All I said was we're taking him at his word, and looking at the vitriol aimed at the tattler we're assuming it wasn't warranted.
What if someone posted the following:
I was at a pool this weekend and saw some guy go apeshit on his 3 year old. He hauled her out of the pool by her arm, carried her dangling by the arm to his car where he put her in the backseat and rolled down the windows a couple inches (it was 90 and sunny out) and told her to think about what she'd done. He then stood outside the car yelling at her through the window for 10 minutes. I would have said something about how the interior of the car could get into the 100s but the guy was standing there yelling at a 3 year old baking inside a car. Someone actually called the cops just to make sure the kid didn't die.
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Based solely on the OP it seems no police involvement was warranted, but people often aren't the best observers of their own behavior especially when frustrated, nor are they necessarily perfectly honest when posting in internet forums. So to wish death and destruction upon someone who honestly felt a 3 year old was in some danger, took a precaution by calling the police just to be safe, with the worst case scenario being nothing illegal was going on and the cops would take a peek and let the guy go, vs taking the risk that the kid dies and no one does anything or reports it to anyone when it could have been prevented, seems like going a little overboard to me.
When someone goes into a lawyers office and starts telling their story, the lawyer has to be skeptical and can't accept every word they say as the god's honest. People have a tendency to paint themselves in the best light, so take that into consideration before deciding who was in the right when you've only heard one person's version of the story.
Every story has 3 sides: mine, yours, and the truth.
Except that, were the OP's story incorrect, the police would not have simply left after questioning without any other action. Since the OP is not posting from a holding cell, his version must be sufficiently close to the pure truth that it can be accepted as accurate.
ZV