@Pohemi420 - I do not understand you. I am letting you guys know that I feel something and you are telling me that it is in my head. That makes no sense. If someone hits you you are going to feel it.
Well OP, my impression is that even you are struggling to make sense over what you are experiencing. I am guessing that you haven't found anyone else who is having similar mysterious attacks. You have to recognize that what you are describing doesn't line up with the way we think the world works. Faced with the choice of choosing which view of the world is correct (i.e yours or ours), we're likely to chose ours rather than yours. And therefore, our suggestions will be about ways that you might change how you view the world.
Yes, I will feel it if someone hits me. I will also expect to find a bruise to confirm that I was actually hit. I wonder if you any of this probing/torturing/heating has ever left you with any physical marks or damage? IMHO there should be if these attacks are physically real.
I know you do not want to hear that this is "all in your head", but if you step back and think about it you will realize that everything we feel/experience is actually in our heads -- brought there my our senses and our nervous system. Our head is where it all gets assembled and we build some sort of picture of what's happening out there in the real world. Our picture of the world can get pretty weird if our senses are bringing corrupted information into our heads. I do not think you should rule that out as a possibility.
Good luck resolving this problem.