dave_the_nerd
Lifer
- Feb 25, 2011
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It wasn't spyware. In case it was not evident, my transfriend who I bid my goodbye to in WoW had reported me to Blizzard immediately after our conversation and Blizzard took it from there.Fuckin' spyware... :^P
Glad you're still around Sonikku. You're interesting, and I enjoy your posts. As Welsh said, you have a lot to offer. You got your space here. You just need to find your space in the world. I think it'll come, but it'll require patience. It took a lot of courage and trust to write your post here. Thanks for the trust :^)
They did put me on antidepressants. They also mandated me to meet with my endocrinologist who gives me my hormones, my general practice doctor and a psychiatrist in Carthage. They assigned me a caseworker as well to help micromanage everything.You have to find some hope of some kind. If that means going off into the unknown, then that's what you have to do. There are places in this country starved for labor. And while the oil fields of North Dakota might not be the best choice for you, there are others like what Dixy pointed out.
I know you said you can't afford to move but it really depends on how badly you want to do it. You can probably get assistance until you can find a job but even if you can't, there are shelters you can go to. Sure, it's a desperate thing to do but you seem like you qualify.
If you're at the point of wanting to take your own life, then why not take some other risks that won't end in your death and might give you the hope you need.
I understand dealing with depression. I've never felt it as intensely as you have but a long slow grind can be almost as bad. But I keep trying different medications and hoping.
I'm surprised they let you out without some sort of pharmacological help. And if they did give you medication, be faithful about taking it. It can take up to 6 weeks before you feel the effects. And if they didn't give you any meds, then get some. Look at it this way, they probably aren't going to make you feel a lot worse and may end up making you feel better.
Finally, make full use of your support system. Talk about how you feel to your support groups. Check out new groups. One that I like is DBSA
Just putting your thoughts and feelings into words can give you new insights. But more important, you get some much needed emotional support.
I am getting professional help. Though the one I met with last week (and am meeting again tomorrow) flatly admitted he doesn't understand what it is like. Still, I keep my mind open and humor him.You need to see a psychiatrist outpatient on the double. Insurance should cover it. The hospital should have referred you to one.
You're right you do need help. As far as no professionals can understand, you're wrong. How many have you met? How do you know what the few you've met can understand? You're severely limited on both those counts. In addition to that you're in no shape to make any life changing decisions right now including writing off mental health professionals so don't.
The reason you erroneously think none can understand is because subconsciously you're aware of the hard work you have ahead of you to overcome this problem you're facing and you want to avoid it because that's far easier than dealing with it.
Now imagine if you could meet your future self. What if your future self were to say that all that hard work to overcome your problem was worth it after all?
My hope for years was to get into IT because I'm a techie. But I can't afford to move, no car and no school locally even has classes for it. I was looking into being an RN instead because there was schooling for that locally, but the funding has proven difficult.I read the whole thing and while I don't fully understand your exact situation, I too contemplated suicide when I was a late teenager. I have a mild case of bi-polar so I know what those thoughts are like.
However, suicide is never the answer. All it does is hurt loved ones and friends with a pain that never ends.
With that said, finding a career can be a time consuming thing. First thing to do is discover what you like to do most or what is the skill you possess. Then see if that is achievable. Since you like tech have you considered IT? Lots of courses are available in most community colleges.
Let us know more about what kind of career you are interested in. There is a wealth of information on AT from all of us members.
I'm sorry if I missed that. I appreciate your concern and your posts. Thank you.You've decided to live for your mother's sake, that's a positive step. How to keep it going ? Well, help may be closer than you think. I remember several occasions over the last year or two, where your posts said "I'm in a bad way today", and " I'm in a bad space" .Nobody here paid you any attention but I did. I remember replying once with 4/5 sentences offering support and hope. I forget exactly the words. Knowing your mood, I expected a reply but you did not.
I'm sorry to hear about your hospitalization Larry. While I really would like to accept some parts for my rig that I have been unable to maintain for years, I would feel kind of bad using a thread about my nearly committing suicide as a way to angle for computer parts... Though now that I've decided to live, I do surely regret turning Crono's i7 down. ><Oh, and if you need a new (budget) gaming rig, I've got loads of G4560 / 8GB / SSD / budget GPU rigs in-stock, ready to ship. I'lll sell you one for $1. PM me.
Edit: Ok, right now, "loads" == three of them, but I've got some parts to build three more.
Don't give up on that part. The great thing about IT is that 99.9% of the information related to the career field exists on the platform which was developed from it; the internet. Find a place that is willing to take an entry level tech (even if it's garbage like a call-in tech support or geeksquad or something) and learn yourself up. Raw experience and knowledge can get you very lucrative jobs, schooling is not required for this field.My hope for years was to get into IT because I'm a techie.
My hope for years was to get into IT because I'm a techie. But I can't afford to move, no car and no school locally even has classes for it. I was looking into being an RN instead because there was schooling for that locally, but the funding has proven difficult.
There are lots of programs to pay for nursing school. For example - https://bhw.hrsa.gov/loansscholarships/nursecorps/scholarshipMy hope for years was to get into IT because I'm a techie. But I can't afford to move, no car and no school locally even has classes for it. I was looking into being an RN instead because there was schooling for that locally, but the funding has proven difficult.
being bi-polar, I am very well acquainted with depression.I don't have anything helpful to say, so here's a link to the noob's primer on depression.
http://hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.com/2013/05/depression-part-two.html?m=0
Y'all should look it over before trying too hard to be helpful.