You and the fans need to learn the difference between expressing a problem with what a person said, and over the top behavior.
To put it another way:
OK, you sub-human reverse evolution insectoid 4-fingered blob of toilet grime, if you don't learn to post better, I'll have ninjas come and torture you! Hope you 'understand'.
Sometimes - not quite saying it's you - some parents seem to use kids as human shields to justify their own bad behavior.
'Ya, sure, it may seem like criminally unrestrained rage, but it was about my kid.'
I would say it is not a good idea to insult someone's child or spouse. SandEagle was clearly trolling... I've been back on AT for all of 5 minutes and it is obvious he is one of the biggest trolls here.