Well, About a Girl is without a doubt going to be a divisive episode. I foresee that a lot of people are going to love it, and a lot of people are going to hate it. But such is almost always the case when dealing with a "heavy" episode, never mind the fact that The Orville is still new and is walking a fine line between comedy and drama.
One thing is for sure: the show definitely put on its big boy pants for this one. It's the most dramatic episode, and it's a downer ending at that. But I feel it's also the strongest episode to date, as it had a very clear focus and the muted humor was interspersed well with the drama.
I do think this episode got a bit heavy-handed with its gender moralizing, and while that's not necessarily a bad thing, it's very difficult to do right. Even Star Trek could struggle with the same problem. And while I'm not enough of a critic to be able to pick apart just where the episode didn't work, I do think it could have been done better. If we're still talking about the show in a few years' time, it may end up being a show-defining episode, but I suspect it won't make any top-ten lists. Still, I'm glad they tackled it as they did. And if nothing else, while it wasn't perfect I think most people can agree it did a better job than Trek's last effort on the subject, which was Enterprise's Cogenitor.
Overall, it's the most Star Trek-like episode of the series so far. And while this series still needs to get out from under Trek's skirt if it's going to make a name for itself in the long-run, for now I'm happy just to have a show that is willing to stage such a heavy, dramatic episode.