It's time you guys leave, FFMCObalt alone, okay? If he's on a high horse, that's his life and freakin' business. If your theory is true, then either he won't ever find a good woman or his relationship won't last. That's his damn biz., but I assure you that your theory is completely false. Neither I nor my siblings would take this sh** from any man. I appreciate someone like FFMCobalt. This doesn't make him a perfect match, for there are several other things I seek in a man, but i t sure makes him still in the game over some dick head out there who would do that. Don't be diving into his personal life, for you guys aren't some psychologist . . . or state it with your credentials if you are. If someone chooses to stay on the so-called high-horse, so be it. It is his misery or happiness, not yours.
Oh yeah, Silverpig, just 'cuz a bunch of people are geeks and don't have the looks or other non-geeky aspect doesn't mean all are. I sure as hell am a very curious person who would dive into all fields, from tech to history to math to geography to philosophy to law. I assure you, I'm one hot chick . . . no, I don't claim to be what I am not. You'll see me dressy and all. Don't ask me for pic 'cuz again I don't give my pics to folks on the 'net, and most importantly, I did not sign some contract here stating I must do that. Sue me to court and then you can have it.
Someone also suggested that women who had a problem with it were *one option* controling. That is bull . . . I would say she is stupid if she's complaining and still sticking with him. I would have two options: either do the same to him (or even go into the profession myself) or I would jilt him. I figure it would be childish and lowering my standard to do the former, so I would jilt him. Whoever says women have no power or choices is joking.
If it is mutually agreed between the two that he could attend such clubs, then good for the couples . . . or that both would attend it, it's all good. But I am simply not going to take it. Again, if you want to be my companion, I don't mind but don't be calling me your whatever crap. . . . Do whatever trash you want to before you get with me. What law says you must see strippers? Gosh! I'm shocked our forefathers survived not seeing strippers.
Anyway, enough of this. It's getting a lot too personal and that's just plain wrong. So please drop it. To each his own. If you can find someone out there to convert, it's your biz but you aren't converting me.