Support for gay marriage may be leveling off

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MrPickins

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You do not like child molesters or people who abuse the welfare system. Ok, I respect that.

The respect is not mutual. I do not like gays and all of a sudden I am a bad person?

Again, you equate child molesters and people who commit fraud with homosexuals.

That in and of itself makes you a bad person.
 

fskimospy

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Bull crap.

You know exactly what I am referring to.

We all have certain things we do not like. But yet people throw rocks at me for not liking gays? Bull crap again.

You do not like child molesters or people who abuse the welfare system. Ok, I respect that.

The respect is not mutual. I do not like gays and all of a sudden I am a bad person?

In case you were wondering yes, posts like this make you a bad person.
 
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You do not like child molesters or people who abuse the welfare system. Ok, I respect that.

The respect is not mutual. I do not like gays and all of a sudden I am a bad person?

Well, both of the things that I was against are disliked by a great majority of the population (including you) and are considered criminal acts. The thing that you dislike is neither a criminal act nor disliked by a majority of the population. But I don't even mind that you dislike gay people; that's your right as an American. What I don't like is that your arguments attempting to justify your bigotry are just terrible; they're misrepresentations of other people's positions, they're strawmen, and they're utterly illogical. I'm not opposed to people having their own prejudices; I'm opposed to people trying to use those prejudices to justify bad public policy when they can't form a single rational argument to justify that policy. I am similarly offended when someone's "respect" for my opinion is to explicitly state that my position is immoral. That's not respect, you thundering nincompoop, that's explicitly stating that anyone who holds that opinion is a bad person. It's like you don't know what words mean.
 

Texashiker

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I do not dislike conservatives. I dislike bad people like yourself however.

You dislike anyone who disagrees with you.


I'm not opposed to people having their own prejudices; I'm opposed to people trying to use those prejudices to justify bad public policy when they can't form a single rational argument to justify that policy.

I can respect that.


Ok, you're literally saying that disliking child molesters and fraudsters is the same as disliking homosexuals.

It's not.

Everyone has something they do not like.
 

nehalem256

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I don't give a shit buddy. I couldn't care less. Clearly you're stuck on this whole involvement thing because you feel it's some talking point to support your argument for denying gays to marry.

No I am stuck on it because you insisted on claiming a falsehood to support same-sex marriage.

Basically if you don't understand the very basics of what marriage is, namely about having society/government involved in your life, perhaps you shouldn't be arguing about marriage?
 

JulesMaximus

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No I am stuck on it because you insisted on claiming a falsehood to support same-sex marriage.

Basically if you don't understand the very basics of what marriage is, namely about having society/government involved in your life, perhaps you shouldn't be arguing about marriage?

How the fuck is government more involved in my life because I'm married or because a gay couple gets married?
 

nehalem256

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How the fuck is government more involved in my life because I'm married or because a gay couple gets married?

How is the government not more involved in your relationship if you are married?

Try leaving your wife vs. gf and then tell me which relationship the government is more involved in
 

z1ggy

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No I am stuck on it because you insisted on claiming a falsehood to support same-sex marriage.

Basically if you don't understand the very basics of what marriage is, namely about having society/government involved in your life, perhaps you shouldn't be arguing about marriage?

Nah, you're stuck on it because you can't actually come up with any real talking points based in the constitutional law. All your remarks are just grasping at anything at which you think you can poke holes in, instead of coming up with actual case law, examples or any other legit factual based evidence that shows gay couples should not in any way shape or form be allowed the same marriage rights as hetero folks.

Some opinion article doesn't count. If you sight the disposition of a judge from a case in which a gay marriage ban was upheld, then I would listen. Otherwise, all your doing is just blabbing away and providing a weak argument full of opinion.

Even then, it almost doesn't matter anymore. The majority of this country already has laws granting gay folks the right to marry or have cases in litigation.
 
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JulesMaximus

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How is the government not more involved in your relationship if you are married?

Try leaving your wife vs. gf and then tell me which relationship the government is more involved in

True that... armed with that knowledge though I'd think you would be all for complicating the lives of gay couples by letting the government get all involved in their relationships. :biggrin:
 

nehalem256

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Nah, you're stuck on it because you can't actually come up with any real talking points based in the constitutional law.

I am stuck on it because I believe that one of the fundamental reasons that same-sex marriage advocates support same-sex marriage is because they don't understand what marriage is.

So pointing out an obvious failure of understanding pretty clearly advances that point.

All your remarks are just grasping at anything at which you think you can poke holes in, instead of coming up with actual case law, examples or any other legit factual based evidence that shows gay couples should not in any way shape or form be allowed the same marriage rights as hetero folks.

Actual case law?
With respect to the claim of an equal-protection violation, the Court found that childless marriages presented no more than a theoretical imperfection in the state's rationale for limiting marriage to different-sex couples. It found the plaintiffs' reliance on the U.S. Supreme Court's recent decision in Loving v. Virginia, finding an anti-miscegenation law unconsititional, failed to provide a parallel: "in commonsense and in a constitutional sense, there is a clear distinction between a marital restriction based merely upon race and one based upon the fundamental difference in sex.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baker_v._Nelson

There you go

Some opinion article doesn't count. If you sight the disposition of a judge from a case in which a gay marriage ban was upheld, then I would listen. Otherwise, all your doing is just blabbing away and providing a weak argument full of opinion.

I doubt you will listen to that either.
 

MrPickins

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I am stuck on it because I believe that one of the fundamental reasons that same-sex marriage advocates support same-sex marriage is because they don't understand what marriage is.

I've been married for more than a decade. I think I have a better understanding of what it is than you do.


(Have you even been in a long term relationship, much less married?)
 

Veliko

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I am stuck on it because I believe that one of the fundamental reasons that same-sex marriage advocates support same-sex marriage is because they don't understand what marriage is.

Marriage is an ancient societal union that has existed across all kinds of cultures.

So pointing out an obvious failure of understanding pretty clearly advances that point.

Quite.



Actual case law? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baker_v._Nelson

There you go

I doubt you will listen to that either.

Your own source states.

With respect to the claim of an equal-protection violation, the Court found that childless marriages presented no more than a theoretical imperfection in the state's rationale for limiting marriage to different-sex couples
 

fskimospy

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I've been married for more than a decade. I think I have a better understanding of what it is than you do.

(Have you even been in a long term relationship, much less married?)

His arguments have devolved to "half the country and all the courts don't understand what marriage is but I swear I do". There's no point in even addressing something that childish and irrational.

I think at one point after a debate in which he argued that the police should be able to arrest women and forcibly abort their children he claimed to have a girlfriend. Let's just say that I'm... skeptical.
 

MrPickins

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MrPickins

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His arguments have devolved to "half the country and all the courts don't understand what marriage is but I swear I do". There's no point in even addressing something that childish and irrational.

This is true, but I have to do something while code is compiling

I think at one point after a debate in which he argued that the police should be able to arrest women and forcibly abort their children he claimed to have a girlfriend. Let's just say that I'm... skeptical.

:biggrin:

That's an understatement.
 

z1ggy

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I am stuck on it because I believe that one of the fundamental reasons that same-sex marriage advocates support same-sex marriage is because they don't understand what marriage is.

So pointing out an obvious failure of understanding pretty clearly advances that point.



Actual case law? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baker_v._Nelson

There you go



I doubt you will listen to that either.

Lol, your "evidence" is from 1971, when zero states recognized same sex unions or marriages.

As others have stated, how'd that end up working out??
In May 2013, Minnesota legalized same-sex marriage and it took effect on August 1, 2013.

Bet that really ticks you off?

Tell me, what is the definition of marriage then? It's weird because, the DOMA which was made to allow states to deny same-sex couples the right to marriage granted in other states, was deemed unconstitutional, on the basis that it being "between a man and woman".
Section 3. Definition of marriage (ruled unconstitutional by the Supreme Court)In determining the meaning of any Act of Congress, or of any ruling, regulation, or interpretation of the various administrative bureaus and agencies of the United States, the word 'marriage' means only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife, and the word 'spouse' refers only to a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or a wife.

So, it seems like the modern definition in the eyes of the court is not exclusive to a man and woman.
 
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werepossum

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Gay marry me? :wub:

Seriously though well said. Cuts right to the core of the issue that far too many seem to pass right over.
Well - I'll have to ask my wife.

Thanks.

if you can get your toaster to consent, I don't believe there's anyone who'd stand in the way of your marriage.
Well - I don't wanna support the little butter warmers if it doesn't work out . . .

How is the government not more involved in your relationship if you are married?

Try leaving your wife vs. gf and then tell me which relationship the government is more involved in
I get your point, but HIS point is that government is neither more nor less involved in YOUR life if gays can marry each other. You are unaffected.

In fact, one can make an argument (admittedly weak) that government is potentially less involved in your life if gays can marry each other. How many people marry hetero, then later decide they prefer same sex? If same sex relationships bore no special societal stigma, surely some of these people would explore this before screwing up some unsuspecting hetero partner's life. Forcing square pegs into round holes doesn't damage just the peg, you know.

EDIT: As far as what is the proper definition of marriage, it's a societal institution; its definition is whatever society deems it to be at that particular moment in time. G-d's preferred definition is inherently unknown as there are several definitions, all purporting to represent G-d's will. But as we are by design a secular Christian nation, G-d's preferred definition is between each couple and G-d, NOT between G-d and government.

EDIT TOO: In fact, I'd expound on that last to say that one of our biggest societal failings is to not mind our own damned business. To quote Old Crow Medicine Show - obviously the definitive authority on this subject - "if it don't concern you let it alone". If you ain't gay, gay marriage don't concern you.
 
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nehalem256

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In fact, one can make an argument (admittedly weak) that government is potentially less involved in your life if gays can marry each other. How many people marry hetero, then later decide they prefer same sex? If same sex relationships bore no special societal stigma, surely some of these people would explore this before screwing up some unsuspecting hetero partner's life. Forcing square pegs into round holes doesn't damage just the peg, you know.

Obviously you missed the fact that gay people are "born that way" and therefore know from an early age they are gay.

So clearly the answer would be zero.

Besides if there was "no special societal stigma" to gay sex why not bang your high school buddies. If you really think about it a hole is a hole, so gay sex is really just an advanced fleshlight.
 

nehalem256

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EDIT: As far as what is the proper definition of marriage, it's a societal institution; its definition is whatever society deems it to be at that particular moment in time. G-d's preferred definition is inherently unknown as there are several definitions, all purporting to represent G-d's will. But as we are by design a secular Christian nation, G-d's preferred definition is between each couple and G-d, NOT between G-d and government.

(asterisk) Unless that definition involves marrying a toaster. Because that would be flat out impossible
 
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