First of all, I don't know how you think 50mm on crop sensor = 85mm in FX equivalent. We were talking E-mount right? 50x1.5 = 75mm. Same on Nikon and Pentax. Even on Canon it's still 50x1.6 = 80mm. Not 85mm. I don't know how this "50mm on DX is great for portraits" thing came about, but I can guess: 50mms were common in the film era and the same companies churned them out at the start of the digital era too.
Why 50mm? Film cameras often came with cheap 50mm kit lenses that weren't that great wide open but got nice and sharp if you stopped down a little. It's generally easiest to make a lens that is roughly the flange distance and 50mm is close to the flange distance of some old SLRs. So 50 = cheap and easy and effective in the film era.
When we moved to digital, FX sensors were waaaaaay more costly to produce, so we had APS-C/DX sized sensors as a compromise to make DSLRs more affordable to the masses. But companies kept churning out 50mms due to the flange distance and historical quirk thing, even though the effective focal length was no longer that good... it wasn't 50mm-FX FOV, it was 75mm-FX FOV which is in a no-man's land in-between the general-purpose 50mm-FX FOV and the 85+mm-FOV for portraits.
Thankfully, 35mms became more available, such as the excellent Nikon DX-only 35mm f/1.8 lens that is actually not that bad wide open unlike the old film-era 50mms. I don't shoot MFT anymore, but I am somewhat still in DX-format though. So when I say I prefer 35mm that means I prefer the FOV that FX 50mms give you.
Using a 50mm on a APS-C/DX body like NEX, Canon Rebel, and Nikon DX doesn't make a lot of sense to me... it's like a compromise that doesn't really need to be made considering that we have better alternatives now that are made specifically for crop-body DSLRs, like the new DX-format Nikon 35mm and 85mm lenses. 50mm on DX is in no-man's land. It is 75-80mm in film-equivalent which is like a short telephoto but not quite at the 85mm+ equivalent range that is preferred for portraits. Worse, many 50mm lenses give mediocre bokeh. That's not what you want for portraits, usually.
Further, even 85mm (in FX terms) is a little bit short for portraits imho (I know many people would disagree but hear me out). You get a more pleasing effect with longer focal lengths, and it is not too unusual for pro portrait photographers to use 105mm-and-longer lenses, even 70-200mm f/2.8 zoom lenses. This gives you the advantage of more depth compression and less perspective distortion which many people find more pleasing. In fact, I often prefer using long zooms at longer distances from the subject and smaller apertures, than faster glass at larger apertures closer up, precisely for the compression and lesser perspective distortion.
I acknowledge that reasonable minds can disagree but I really do not see the point of making 50mm lenses for DX-sensors and think Sony wasted time and resources with the E-mount 50mm lens... it's just not a good compromise. They should have made a 35mm f/1.8 lens (to give you that classic 50mm-on-FX FOV good for general purpose shooting and street shooting and such) and a 75mm f/1.8 lens (to give you a ~112mm-on-FX FOV which for the reasons I stated above, work better for portraits). Well I guess 1-for-2 isn't that bad but the price for the Sony 35mm sucks. Maybe it'd be cheaper and lighter without the (imho) unnecessary OSS.
I guess that's a long way of saying that 50mm on crop DSLRs isn't that great.. it's a short telephoto that isn't ideal for portraits (especially the ones that give mediocre-or-worse bokeh), but is too narrow for general purpose use.
What I said about how many combos gave 1-2 stops regardless of company, was just that: many. Sorry for my poor wording which may have made it sound like I was saying that ALL combos gave 1-2 stops for ALL companies. Nevertheless, just because you haven't seen the French comparison doesn't mean it does not exist. Trust me, it exists. The French comparison study found that the vast majority if stabilization claims were exaggerated. If a company says 3-4 stops, expect more like 2-3 stops. If they say 3 stops, expect more like 1.5-2.5 stops. Etc. There were some standouts where claimed was actually not far off tested, but I can't remember which ones. There were also many cases where the claim was 3 stops and you actually only got like 1-2 stops. "Many" means several cases or more--it does not mean "the majority" or "most." That is what I meant by what I wrote--that there were more than a few cases where the French study found that you get 1-2 stops of stabilization despite advertisements of 3+ stops!
Sure you can make the fair statement that I have not professionally tested the Sony 50mm on a NEX camera. But given all of my experience with other systems and how virtually every review site finds that IS claims are often exaggerated, I think it is reasonable for me to express skepticism about Sony's 3-4 stop claim. In fact, YOU were the one to bring up SLRgear and touted their testing procedure. I cited their study as showing how they tested it as ~2.5 stops real-life advantage which if anything supports my point: that IS claims are often exaggerated and the Sony 50mm is no exception; that's about a 1-stop difference.
These IS exaggerations are par for course and seemingly every camera company exaggerates. I used Pany's 100-300mm on MFT before and it gave maybe 1.5 stops advantage at best (I tested it as best as I could, but I do not have reproducible results or pro-grade testing techniques.) The cheaper kit zooms on things like CaNikon DSLRs also don't live up to their rated specs. Etc. Companies consistently over-spec their stabilization ratings to the point where I feel like it's deliberate and due to marketing department pressure.
Since you cited to SLRgear, I suggest that you go through all of their lens tests with various companies... click on their IS tests and you will see the same pattern I have personally experienced: real life results rarely (if ever) live up to IS claims made by lens and camera makers. (This is true of IBIS too.) Sony's E-mount 50mm is not the first or last lens that falls short of marketing claims.
Over time we won't have these discussions once Sony's E-mount gets more lenses available and you won't have to buy the ONLY lens available in that focal length anymore. We're already starting to see that, e.g., with the sharp Sigma 30mm f/2.8 lens. Too bad it isn't f/1.8 but still, it fills in a gap that Sony left below 50mm. (Yeah I know about Sony's 35mm but look at the price, then look at the Sigma 30mm's $99 price at B&H right now! Even stuff like the Nikon 35mm f/1.8 costs less than HALF of what Sony is asking for their E-mount 35mm, and no, I don't really miss VR on my Nikon 35mm for reasons I already went into... for non-moving subjects I can use other lenses anyway, and for both moving and non-moving subjects in dark indoors environments I can use flash including a small bounce flash, which is sometimes a better way to deal with low light than image stabilization anyway, even for non-moving subjects... btw a tripod is better than any image stabilization system by far) Doubtlessly an E-mount lens somewhere in the 60-85mm range at f/2.8 or faster is forthcoming as well.
RE: NEX, what is stopping me from seriously considering NEX at this moment in time is the fact that there are no good telephotos on the roadmap, let alone for sale. And I don't want to go without AF when it comes to telephotos... I want something that is fast-focusing for action shots, something like the Nikkor 70-300mm f/4-5.6 would be good enough, yet Sony has NOTHING native longer than 210mm... not even on their roadmap. So unless there is some surprise lens from a third party coming out soon, you'd have to wait till what, 2015 or even later, for such a lens to come out. That's unacceptable to me.
50mm is actually pretty standard for portraits on a 1.5 crop (85mm equivalent on full frame), but I can see how four third users with their bigger ~2.0 crop might not like the 100mm equivalent. Regardless, personal preference here, just like size and price.
I have no idea about that French site you keep referring to, but it seems you're judging equipment you do not even have, review sites give only so much. SLRGear is a very reliable source but even their rating of optical stabilization is subjective. Nevertheless, as you can see, they found the E-mount 50mm lens to have 2.5 stop advantage, which is lower than Sony's claim but still better than your claim that "real-life tests it's more like 1-2 stops for many lenses from ANY company". In my experience of NEX-5N, I actually observed 3 stops of difference, hence why I asked you what was *your* real-world experience with optical stabilization. Anyway, even if another system has just 2 stops advantage, that is a significant difference of making a shot at ISO 1600 vs ISO 400. Just an example, but of course, for each their own.