That is IT... i admit... women are horrible.

[Lola]

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I cannot believe I am even admitting this, but I am so annoyed.
This morning, I went to a local coffee/bakery place for work. As i walked in, a very nice man held the door for me as he was leaving. He also held the door for the woman in front of me.

Now, she ordered her double frap half caf no sugar soy latte and waited for it, then i ordered my items as well. Her coffee and my stuff came up at about the same time and i was literally ONE step behind her as we walked out the door. She saw how much i was carrying, yet she pushed open the door and let it slam in my face as she walked out.
That irks me more than anything. She was a total bitch, just concerned about herself.

This is what I have noticed: Most women are B!TCHES. It is true. They are horrible and inconsiderate.
Why is this? is it the way were are programed? Has soceity taught us that we are supposed to be better than everyone else... other women included?

Because this annoys me so much, I have made it a point to be the exact opposite as this witch of a woman was today.

Has anyone else every noticed that most women are like this?

PS... I do not feel horrible at all that i am ragging on "my own kind".

Lolawiz, I respectfully disagree.

It is wrong to generalize bad behavior to one sex or the other. Because you experienced a gentleman opening the door and then an apparently self-focused female not doing the same thing doesn't mean it is a valid generalization.

I work with 40 some odd women.... elementary school teachers... and it is one of the most helpful, caring group you could imagine. I wouldn't say that because the sample of the population I am exposed to that all women are more caring than men...

Perspective and circumstance are funny things.

This is not the first, second, third, fourth or even fifth time this has happened... I merely was angry that this happens so often, and personally, I have realized it happens most with women. simple as that.

 

[topslop1]

Originally posted by: Descartes
You need to move to the south I find that women are overall much more pleasant in the south.

I'm going to college somewhere abouts in Florida. I think that subliminally, a good part of that choice is linked to the fact that I'm tired of New England girls with rich mommies and daddies that believe that they are the next coming of Jesus.

 

[Isla]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I cannot believe I am even admitting this, but I am so annoyed.
This morning, I went to a local coffee/bakery place for work. As i walked in, a very nice man held the door for me as he was leaving. He also held the door for the woman in front of me.

Now, she ordered her double frap half caf no sugar soy latte and waited for it, then i ordered my items as well. Her coffee and my stuff came up at about the same time and i was literally ONE step behind her as we walked out the door. She saw how much i was carrying, yet she pushed open the door and let it slam in my face as she walked out.
That irks me more than anything. She was a total bitch, just concerned about herself.

This is what I have noticed: Most women are B!TCHES. It is true. They are horrible and inconsiderate.
Why is this? is it the way were are programed? Has soceity taught us that we are supposed to be better than everyone else... other women included?

Because this annoys me so much, I have made it a point to be the exact opposite as this witch of a woman was today.

Has anyone else every noticed that most women are like this?

PS... I do not feel horrible at all that i am ragging on "my own kind".

Lolawiz, I respectfully disagree.

It is wrong to generalize bad behavior to one sex or the other. Because you experienced a gentleman opening the door and then an apparently self-focused female not doing the same thing doesn't mean it is a valid generalization.

I work with 40 some odd women.... elementary school teachers... and it is one of the most helpful, caring group you could imagine. I wouldn't say that because the sample of the population I am exposed to that all women are more caring than men...

Perspective and circumstance are funny things.

This is not the first, second, third, fourth or even fifth time this has happened... I merely was angry that this happens so often, and personally, I have realized it happens most with women. simple as that.

Well, try this experiment.

Spend one week conscientiously and consistently being nice to everyone you come across, even when you don't feel well, are stressed out, or are in a hurry. Focus on what you can do to ease the burdens of others. I am willing to bet that before you know it, you will start noticing kind and helpful women more than the 'bitches'. They will stand out to you more after a while... kindnesses can be very easy to overlook, while ugliness generally makes a stronger impression (this has been documented, especially in relationships). After a while, you might even start having compassion for the 'bitches', because maybe, just maybe, they have more problems that you can imagine.

 

[AdamK47]

Why is this thread still growing? Haven't we already established that women are horrible?

 

[kamikaze27]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I cannot believe I am even admitting this, but I am so annoyed.
This morning, I went to a local coffee/bakery place for work. As i walked in, a very nice man held the door for me as he was leaving. He also held the door for the woman in front of me.

Now, she ordered her double frap half caf no sugar soy latte and waited for it, then i ordered my items as well. Her coffee and my stuff came up at about the same time and i was literally ONE step behind her as we walked out the door. She saw how much i was carrying, yet she pushed open the door and let it slam in my face as she walked out.
That irks me more than anything. She was a total bitch, just concerned about herself.

This is what I have noticed: Most women are B!TCHES. It is true. They are horrible and inconsiderate.
Why is this? is it the way were are programed? Has soceity taught us that we are supposed to be better than everyone else... other women included?

Because this annoys me so much, I have made it a point to be the exact opposite as this witch of a woman was today.

Has anyone else every noticed that most women are like this?

PS... I do not feel horrible at all that i am ragging on "my own kind".

Perhaps she just got ditched for someone that looks quite similar to you. There is a reason for everything, supposing you never will know for sure... give her a good reason.

 

[Fraggable]

This isn't about women only, it's about people having no common courtesy, like holding the door for someone right behind you. People (at least in Cincinnati) don't have any common courtesy anymore, so they aren't aware that there is someone right behind them that will get smacked with the door. They're too self-centered to realize that.

If I was walking out a door and there was a woman behind me, I would make sure it didn't hit her. I may not stand there and wait for her to get all the way out the door - I would expect them to be aware that the door is going to close if I let go. The same goes for a guy, I don't care who it is, I'm not going to smack them with the door. Now, there are certain demographics that I would be severely tempted NOT to hold the door for, such as any person who wears clothes baggy enough not to be able to move their arms or legs and has gold chains around their neck and is mumbling profanity into a cell phone.

The issue is that people - not just women - are too self-centered to realize that you're there. I doubt she did this while fully aware that you were going to get hit.

 

[imported_inspire]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I cannot believe I am even admitting this, but I am so annoyed.
This morning, I went to a local coffee/bakery place for work. As i walked in, a very nice man held the door for me as he was leaving. He also held the door for the woman in front of me.

Now, she ordered her double frap half caf no sugar soy latte and waited for it, then i ordered my items as well. Her coffee and my stuff came up at about the same time and i was literally ONE step behind her as we walked out the door. She saw how much i was carrying, yet she pushed open the door and let it slam in my face as she walked out.
That irks me more than anything. She was a total bitch, just concerned about herself.

This is what I have noticed: Most women are B!TCHES. It is true. They are horrible and inconsiderate.
Why is this? is it the way were are programed? Has soceity taught us that we are supposed to be better than everyone else... other women included?

Because this annoys me so much, I have made it a point to be the exact opposite as this witch of a woman was today.

Has anyone else every noticed that most women are like this?

PS... I do not feel horrible at all that i am ragging on "my own kind".

She probably got jealous that the guy held the door for you, too.

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Truthfully, the guy probably wouldn't have held the door for a pair of guys coming in, but since you were chicks......


I hold the door to be chivalrous....that means kids, old people, women. Holding the door for a guy is like being his prison bitch....he can get it his damn self.

 

[Blazin Trav]

Originally posted by: montypythizzle

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Men see women as potential mates.

Women see women as potential competition.

- M4H

why must you be a genius?

If you read ANYTHING on women or knew anything about them, you would know that. It's pretty much common sense.

 

[rasczak]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I cannot believe I am even admitting this, but I am so annoyed.
This morning, I went to a local coffee/bakery place for work. As i walked in, a very nice man held the door for me as he was leaving. He also held the door for the woman in front of me.

Now, she ordered her double frap half caf no sugar soy latte and waited for it, then i ordered my items as well. Her coffee and my stuff came up at about the same time and i was literally ONE step behind her as we walked out the door. She saw how much i was carrying, yet she pushed open the door and let it slam in my face as she walked out.
That irks me more than anything. She was a total bitch, just concerned about herself.

This is what I have noticed: Most women are B!TCHES. It is true. They are horrible and inconsiderate.
Why is this? is it the way were are programed? Has soceity taught us that we are supposed to be better than everyone else... other women included?

Because this annoys me so much, I have made it a point to be the exact opposite as this witch of a woman was today.

Has anyone else every noticed that most women are like this?

PS... I do not feel horrible at all that i am ragging on "my own kind".

all women are cows. moooooo

hehe seriously thoguh, most women ahving grown up in our society have a feeling of entitlement. kind stupid if you ask me. they b!tch and moan about things not being equal, then b!tch and moan about things being too equal. in all honesty it just seems to me that they are reflecting what goes on in the personal/mental states.

this makes me feel as if most women are schizophrenic.

as for your miss cow b!tch from the coffee shop? she was probably just jealous of your rack and the fact that the dude probably didn't open the door for her but she just happened to be going in in the coffe shop at the same time.

 

[Jenova314]

Marry a Japanese woman... I did.

She's constantly amazed at how rude and presumptuous the typical Americanized woman is. Having said that, we hold the door for each other, depending on who's carrying more, or simply who's closer to the door, at the time.

I observed that people in the Bay Area are generally less friendly than those in other areas (I've lived in St. Louis (birth place), New Jersey, Ohio, Wyoming). First generation middle-aged and older Asians are particularly rude, even by American standards. It's part of their culture to mind themselves, so they can't really be blamed.

But I digress! My two closest female friends are similarly annoyed at how much drama and bitchiness (sp?) American girls can conjure up in a split second. Has anybody else experienced this?

Edit: Sorry to bring nationality in to the picture, but nobody else seemed to have noticed that the problem may be localized.

 

[DAGTA]

Originally posted by: Jenova314
Marry a Japanese woman... I did.

She's constantly amazed at how rude and presumptuous the typical Americanized woman is. Having said that, we hold the door for each other, depending on who's carrying more, or simply who's closer to the door, at the time.

I observed that people in the Bay Area are generally less friendly than those in other areas (I've lived in St. Louis (birth place), New Jersey, Ohio, Wyoming). First generation middle-aged and older Asians are particularly rude, even by American standards. It's part of their culture to mind themselves, so they can't really be blamed.

But I digress! My two closest female friends are similarly annoyed at how much drama and bitchiness (sp?) American girls can conjure up in a split second. Has anybody else experienced this?

Edit: Sorry to bring nationality in to the picture, but nobody else seemed to have noticed that the problem may be localized.

Plenty of men have noticed.

http://www.nomarriage.com/

I don't agree with everything on that site, but it's fairly accurate when comparing American 'Princesses' to women elsewhere in the world.

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: Jenova314
Marry a Japanese woman... I did.

She's constantly amazed at how rude and presumptuous the typical Americanized woman is. Having said that, we hold the door for each other, depending on who's carrying more, or simply who's closer to the door, at the time.

I observed that people in the Bay Area are generally less friendly than those in other areas (I've lived in St. Louis (birth place), New Jersey, Ohio, Wyoming). First generation middle-aged and older Asians are particularly rude, even by American standards. It's part of their culture to mind themselves, so they can't really be blamed.

But I digress! My two closest female friends are similarly annoyed at how much drama and bitchiness (sp?) American girls can conjure up in a split second. Has anybody else experienced this?

Edit: Sorry to bring nationality in to the picture, but nobody else seemed to have noticed that the problem may be localized.

Well, ya, Bay Area chicks are obligated to sneer at you for opening the door for them. How dare you try to force your Draconian male-dominated traditions on them. What, you don't think they can get it themselves? So they're the weaker sex still, huh? Pig!

 

[tooltime]

i think anyone can misbehave

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Truthfully, the guy probably wouldn't have held the door for a pair of guys coming in, but since you were chicks......


I hold the door to be chivalrous....that means kids, old people, women. Holding the door for a guy is like being his prison bitch....he can get it his damn self.

WTH??

I hold the door for everyone even guys. Not a big deal.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: Jenova314
Marry a Japanese woman... I did.

She's constantly amazed at how rude and presumptuous the typical Americanized woman is. Having said that, we hold the door for each other, depending on who's carrying more, or simply who's closer to the door, at the time.

I observed that people in the Bay Area are generally less friendly than those in other areas (I've lived in St. Louis (birth place), New Jersey, Ohio, Wyoming). First generation middle-aged and older Asians are particularly rude, even by American standards. It's part of their culture to mind themselves, so they can't really be blamed.

But I digress! My two closest female friends are similarly annoyed at how much drama and bitchiness (sp?) American girls can conjure up in a split second. Has anybody else experienced this?

Edit: Sorry to bring nationality in to the picture, but nobody else seemed to have noticed that the problem may be localized.

It is pretty true in a lot of cases, but not everyone is like that. You just have to be a lot more choosey with who you pursue.

 

[fLum0x]

This really pisses me off also. My biggest thing about females is that they want the rights and the ability to do anything a man can do. Ofcourse, I am not against this because I think they can handle it. Nevertheless, if they want my respect, they should hold doors, buy dinner occasionally and do all the things that "traditional men" do out of common courtesy. I am big on those things with my girl and she occasionally does those things for me also. Don't get me wrong, i am not going to make her slave over me, but doing things for each other is the idea :x

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Men see women as potential mates.

Women see women as potential competition.

- M4H

yeppers.

Hopefully, the bitch in question had a Karma refund later that day

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: zinfamous

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Men see women as potential mates.

Women see women as potential competition.

- M4H

yeppers.

Hopefully, the bitch in question had a Karma refund later that day

i disagree with M4H's statement on how women see women. i don't get jealous of other women or view them as competition. i have enough confidence in myself that that doesn't cross my mind.

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: zinfamous

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Men see women as potential mates.

Women see women as potential competition.

- M4H

yeppers.

Hopefully, the bitch in question had a Karma refund later that day

i disagree with M4H's statement on how women see women. i don't get jealous of other women or view them as competition. i have enough confidence in myself that that doesn't cross my mind.

You are one example; and not indicative of the the lady friends that I know. I know that there are certainly women like you out there, but most of them that I encounter admit to the truth of M4H's observation.

 

[interchange]

Women are only courteous to and help out (e.g. hold the door for) an attractive man. That said, I usually don't have a problem with it. The only segment I seem to get generally bitchiness from is self-absorbed teenage girls.