I think you meant GtA but I think we're in agreement. Jets should not be running around landing on the battlefield flying around at 200kts with unlimited ammo and flares. Jets belong up high and shouldn't even be able to see individual soldiers, except rarely. Maybe an A-10 would be somewhat different in this regard, but not by much. Listening to real A-10 pilots they carry binocs with them so they can actually see buildings on the ground from where they're at, forget men. For damn sure F/A-18's shouldn't be doing what they're able to do in game.
If that means the jet guys only get to shoot other jet guys down, shoot other helis down, and go after tanks, AA, buildings, and maybe drop laser guided (designated by Recon or elements with a laser designator) bombs, dumb bombs, and just blindly strafe, so be it. If they don't like that, then don't fly the jet. And same sentiment for the helis.
Chuck