Hmmm what about the "I am my cat's servant" poll option?
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In all seriousness, though, people who really find themselves in this position are lousy, clueless masters.
While it's true that a) Cat's are not reflexively obedient on the level of dogs by a long shot and b) Just as with children, you can find yourself a seriously difficult/non-compliant "problem child" from the get-go, still . . .
I have always established, even with my cats, who exactly is in charge.
I have set boundaries and enforced them, and, while cats will always maintain a degree of independence, I have, I guess, been lucky even with my cats in that they have
pretty much respected the boundaries I have set for them.
Cats are more independent than dogs but a sane one with whom you have developed a relationship is also
reasonable, I am here to testify!
The rules for raising pets, be they cats or dogs, are pretty much the same as the rules for parenting:
1. Time. You have to spend time with your smaller ones in order to develop a genuine, organic relationship with them.
2. Clear boundaries and CONSISTENCY -- Don't want certain behaviors from your kids, dogs, even cats? Set clear, FIRM boundaries
and then never, ever, ever deviate from them. Again, unless you have a true deviant on your hands, the message eventually gets absorbed!
Now, there are huge differences between cats and dogs.
I have always trained my dogs to the extent that not only would they NEVER beg at the dinner table or attempt to steal food -- I could even leave human food out on a counter and leave and they would NOT cross that boundary.
BUT with a cat if you leave human food out and then go away, well . . .
All that said:
Demetri Martin: [
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This is very autobiographical. This is the cuteness of a girl versus how interested I am in hearing about how intuitive her cat is. You see, the cuter the girl is, the more I'm willing to hear about the cat. "Oh really?" "Yeah, he's very intuitive." But you'll notice, at a certain point, I don't care how cute you are. I don't wanna hear about your fucking cat anymore. I hate your cat. When you leave the room, I try to get it.