If we want to understand the incel problem, we need to start with their parents (especially moms).
If we want to understand the incel problem, we need to start with their parents (especially moms).
Let me have this delusion damnit.Yeah, it's not as if soldiers ever commit rape. Especially conscripts. They are famously well behaved and respectful towards women.
Well I've been reading about the Involuntary Cerebrate and how some folks have suggested that their problems could be solved by requiring sex workers to have sex with them. What I found to be really scary is that I come close to ending up as one.
I'm the guy who could not get a date in high school and my early 20's if his life depended on it. Due to this, I had violent fantasies of raping young women to punish them for refusing to have anything to with me. This start while high school and I am ashamed to say this but there have been several times where I have been temped to act on them.
Keep in mind I'm not a violent person and I have no actual desires to hurt people at all. Basically I more or less grew up and realize that women neither owe me relationships or sex. Or for matter, no women deserves to be raped. So what is preventing Incels from simply growing up and realizing that that their problem is them?
One possible way to help is suitable therapy, however they have to want to change first.
Thoughts?
I mean the answer is easy they need a gf lol
When I younger I thought that all gay men and ugly lesbians should be forcibly moved to San Frans and the better looking lesbians be required to serve men, up to and including making out in front of them on demand.There are lots of gay guys that can't get dates too and it's not fair. Incels should get women, sure, but they need to serve these poor gay guys as sex slaves first. Then, OK, depending on how well they do.
Being awkward made them lonely. Being lonely made them hateful.
Do you know what helped you break away from this mindset?When I younger I thought that all gay men and ugly lesbians should be forcibly moved to San Frans and the better looking lesbians be required to serve men, up to and including making out in front of them on demand.
I basically grew up? I have a great more empathy now then back then. Of course I also realized how would I like if if a bunch of women made me and another dude make out in front of them.Do you know what helped you break away from this mindset?
Honestly, this thread does provide perspective on your fixation with barely legal girls.
Eh I think these guys have a lot more problems than just getting laid. One thing that I never understood is why incel gamers hate women getting into gaming. I was really socially awkward back in high school and shit but meeting women on MMO's as I was starting college made it a lot easier for me to open up and talk to women in real life.
Eh I think these guys have a lot more problems than just getting laid. One thing that I never understood is why incel gamers hate women getting into gaming. I was really socially awkward back in high school and shit but meeting women on MMO's as I was starting college made it a lot easier for me to open up and talk to women in real life.
Incels need to lower their expectations, they're not going to get a hot looking girl just because they want one. Go for the girls at their own level and they may get some where.
If we want to understand the incel problem, we need to start with their parents (especially moms).
The real problem here is that there are just as many awkward and lonely women, but they don't meet the standards of the incels. It is about entitlement more than anything else. They feel entitled not just to a girlfriend, but to a specific girlfriend.
Being awkward made them lonely. Being lonely made them hateful. Being hateful made them awkward. It's a vicious cycle if they cannot learn to shrug their shoulders and live with a momentary respite of bitter disappointment. Some may have social anxiety or other handicaps in social situations and ZERO belief that their lot in life could ever improve.
Well I've been reading about the Involuntary Cerebrate
They are not accidental, I have deep thoughts all the time. I'm considering how to solve or reduce the Incel issue before this becomes a much larger problem.Someone who accidently has deep thoughts?
We can barely convince schools to have meaningful sex education instead of abstinence only, I think dating classes are a bit of a reach.They are not accidental, I have deep thoughts all the time. I'm considering how to solve or reduce the Incel issue before this becomes a much larger problem.
Perhaps have actual dating classes in Middle and High School?
I think this will only be a problem for those Far-Right Christians who actually believe dating is a sin and young adults should court instead. After of course the young man asks for the girl's father for permission.We can barely convince schools to have meaningful sex education instead of abstinence only, I think dating classes are a bit of a reach.