The Killer nanny was acting crazy for 2-3 months prior, why did they not fire her?

Hugo Drax

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Interesting news regarding this horrific double murder of the two kids. Apparently the Nanny was already having issues before the murders, she was acting weird, looking gaunt and aged rapidly.

Why would you not heed such warnings and fire the person on the spot instead of continuing to leave your kids unattended with this lady who was showing signs of going "Jack Torrance" on them. The whole thing makes no sense this could have been avoided if they paid close attention to a situation that was spinning out of control.


http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/manhattan/icy_descent_of_tot_butcher_BBdx379bYcYmIYxl9rL3KK

The deranged nanny who allegedly butchered two adorable young children entrusted to her care was unraveling in recent months — suffering from mental, physical and financial issues, neighbors and police sources said yesterday.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Cb3ik6zP2I


 
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Mxylplyx

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Are we now reaching the blame the victim part of this story? I'm sure if you had a nanny that was like part of the family, that your kids trusted as a third parent, you would fire them at the first sign something was amiss in their life, right?
 

skimple

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Sounds like they were trying to help her out. Perhaps showing compassion for another human being? I know, that's not something that happens here on ATOT
 

sixone

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It's a hell of a lot easier to Monday-morning-QB this kind of situation, than it is to see it coming.

My heart breaks for both families.
 

madoka

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It's a hell of a lot easier to Monday-morning-QB this kind of situation, than it is to see it coming.

+1

What if firing her sets her off and she kills the kids. Then the OP would probably be on here complaining about how they should have done things differently.
 

CPA

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Are we now reaching the blame the victim part of this story? I'm sure if you had a nanny that was like part of the family, that your kids trusted as a third parent, you would fire them at the first sign something was amiss in their life, right?

this. as usual, there seems to be a segment of the population that will blame the parents....for anything.
 

alkemyst

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No one assumes that their nanny while deteriorating will become an axe murderer. They were more than likely sympathetic and coming she'd recover.
 

techs

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Usually all we hear is what nice people those serial killers were before they went on a murderous rampage.
 

Perknose

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Usually all we hear is what nice people those serial killers were before they went on a murderous rampage.

Always bring Bush into these discussions, tut tut.
 

Hugo Drax

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Sounds like they were trying to help her out. Perhaps showing compassion for another human being? I know, that's not something that happens here on ATOT

Fuck that, her kids are #1 priority, When someone is coming off the hinges you do not want to leave them alone with the kids. The whole story is odd. I think much more interesting details will eventually get out. The poor kids were the victims, they had no choice in the matter, it was the Parents job to make sure they were protected.
 

zinfamous

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Fuck that, her kids are #1 priority, When someone is coming off the hinges you do not want to leave them alone with the kids. The whole story is odd. I think much more interesting details will eventually get out. The poor kids were the victims, they had no choice in the matter, it was the Parents job to make sure they were protected.

so, what you're saying is, you don't think the parents have suffered enough?
 

Sust

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What happened here is and will continue being unquestionably awful, heart-breaking, and bitter for all parties involved.
I think the thing to take away from all of this is for all of us to better learn our state's involuntary civil commitment process. Obviously people shouldnt abuse this process and should really learn the true meaning of "imminent danger to self and/or others", but when properly channeled by informed citizens it can be a very meaningful way of getting treatment to people who are too far along in their disease process/decompensation to realize it.

More and more, I wonder if a growing number of not just the higher-profile(e.g. VA tech, Aurora, and Gabrielle Giffords) but also "quieter" tragedies are slipping through the cracks as all levels of govt cut back on mental health funding. The laws that were meant to help/protect us will simply continue to splinter and crack as financial foundations erode.
 

GagHalfrunt

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The whole thing makes no sense this could have been avoided if they paid close attention to a situation that was spinning out of control.

Sounds like they had a nanny because they didn't want to pay a whole lot of attention.
 
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