well after all that I decided to wait it out.. the cost for the 64GB is $950 and the reality hit me - in 2 months it will cost $700 or less, I havent seen the HTC ONE yet in real life either so that might be an option - and most of all, I cant accept it if the Korean model ends up having weird 80 character only messaging or some extra antenna and stuff.. who knows it might be like the current SGS3, where LTE comes to the good model anyway..
I just want to watch the NBA Gametime App on a bigger screen, the one thing I will miss the most, is iMessage. It uses no battery like the aftermarket apps, and everyone I know is on it, we have a massive NBA banter session each day, my girl, family (except mum she got a PadFone 2) is on it.. but other than that im ok to lose a bit of raw function for the bigger screen, cause I actually use it a lot. (edit: too much!)