The Last Straw or Know when to say when.

Bluefront

Golden Member
Apr 20, 2002
1,466
0
0
Sorry no sex in this story, just another rip-off.

If you guys know how to work on cars, there is a 100% certainty eventually you will work on your GF's car. Now for sure there is some advantage here....you fix their car, maybe you can fix more important things....But you've got to know where to draw the line, and it can be a hard line to draw.

This girl was about 21, closest to a #10 I ever knew. She was living with her mother and 15 year old brother, cross town from me (thirty miles at least). She had this older big-block her last BF gave her. It ran ok and I had already told her I knew nothing about chevy's. She was taking it to local garages for work. About six months into our relationship, the car really acted up. It refused to start in the mornings 2-3 times a week. She had to walk to work, or call a taxi. Nobody could fix it. So I got involved.

It's winter, very cold. Strange thing here when she got home from work in the afternoon, it always started. I thought it had something to do with the temps...tried everything. Still wouldn't start sometimes in the morning. If she stayed overnight at my place it always started in the morning. WTF
I was beginning to think she was making up a story here, but her mother assured me it was true. Now she's wanting me to help her buy another car...NO WAY.

Well she finally figures it out all by herself....her little brother has figured out how to get in and start the car. He's been getting up early, removing the distributor rotor, letting his sister walk to work. Then he skips school, drives the car all day with his buddies. He forgot to fill the tank one time, she noticed. I could have killed the little POS.

About three months later, she calls me one afternoon. Seems her little brother, now 16, is driving the car with her permission. He has hit something, big hole in gastank. She wants me to fix it. I gather up my courage and say....If your brother is old enough to drive your car and wreck it, he's also old enough to get it fixed.
I'm not fixing it this time.......long silence, then click. I never spoke to or saw that woman again.

Moral...draw the line when it comes to women. But be aware it can be costly. Some women will treat you like a mechanic. If you can't fix their car, they're out of there.
 

rgwalt

Diamond Member
Apr 22, 2000
7,393
0
0
Interesting advice, and good advice.

Good job handling the situation too.

Ryan
 

Cyberian

Diamond Member
Jun 17, 2000
9,999
1
0
Man, you must be about 103 years old to have had so much trouble with women.
 

erikistired

Diamond Member
Sep 27, 2000
9,739
0
0
it's the weekly installment of "bluefront hates the female gender unless they are giving him pleasure and then he hates them immediately afterward"
 

olds

Elite Member
Mar 3, 2000
50,061
720
126
Originally posted by: fisher
it's the weekly installment of "bluefront hates the female gender unless they are giving him pleasure and then he hates them immediately afterward"
That's because he perfers men.

 

Bluefront

Golden Member
Apr 20, 2002
1,466
0
0
Nah.....Spent most of my youth chasing women, spending money, trying to get laid. Lot of good women, plenty of bad women. If I told the good stuff, no one would believe it. Some people here don't even believe the bad stuff.
 

Dually

Golden Member
Dec 20, 2000
1,628
0
0
I totally agree with Bluefront on this one.

Some guys have this notion that it is their job as a man to fix, buy, and pretty much do whatever a woman wants. They will deny it for a long time but if you listen to their relationship is is exactly that way. If the woman involved is your wife then your responsibilities are a lot higher of course.

If you are a young guy in the teens or early to mid twenties it is not your job to take care of your girlfriend to that level. your job is to make sure you get an education and have a future, whatever that may entail. Sex isn't worth as much money as you may be paying in that age group. The women in a lot of cases are just using the guys for money and a lot of it and I mean a lot.

It isn't Bluefront's job to buy her a new car, it is her job or her families job if they want to love their daughter and in this case it is her brother's job. The fact that she left him because he didn't get her a new car means she was using or trying to use him on a major level.
 

gotsmack

Diamond Member
Mar 4, 2001
5,768
0
71
lucky for me that I know squat about cars and even less about women. atleast i know how to turn on the car.
 

Bluefront

Golden Member
Apr 20, 2002
1,466
0
0
Dually got it right on. Man can waste a lot of money on women. Worth it? Now that's a hard one. No easy answer. Use your top head when trying to figure it out.....

As far as turning on a women.....next time you're around one, casually mention you work on cars (even if you don't). Be surprised how much more popular you become. Heh...
 

Orsorum

Lifer
Dec 26, 2001
27,631
5
81
Way to stand up for yourself. Wish I'd had guts like that when I was younger... oh well. Guess it's something most of us develop as we grow older.
 

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
44,303
15
81
Wow, this girl was basically bartering her relationship with you (and sex) for fixing the car, and when you refused to do that (rightfully), she left you without another word.. That's a true whore if there ever was one.
 

ZaneNBK

Golden Member
Sep 14, 2000
1,674
0
76
How do you think she got the vehicle from her ex-bf in the first place? Um, she's a 10 (according to you) and men give her cars (POS or not, it's a functioning vehicle). Sounds like another hot woman using her body to leech her way through life.
 

Bluefront

Golden Member
Apr 20, 2002
1,466
0
0
Well of course. Not so unusual at all. The thing here is she was a knock-out. How often do you think you'll have the chance to date a #10? Not very often. When you do hook up with one of these women, most men, me included, will put up with a whole lot more crap than if she was just average. There's still limits, however. She exceeded mine...when I couldn't take anymore, she split. Glad I never let her move in like she wanted, although I thought about it. At the time I just couldn't see a future with this woman. I think I was right.
 

Bluefront

Golden Member
Apr 20, 2002
1,466
0
0
You know moonie...it's quite obvious neither me nor you nor anyone else posting these sorts of true-life stories can prove they're a real story. So I guess you'll have to take them on faith, or can prove them false. I do have to wonder about the people who doubt. When I was young, I had none of these real stories to tell...as I got older they came more and more frequently. I always assumed things like happened to me, happened to everybody...if you participate in life, that is. Sure it's dangerous out there, and it takes a lot of skill to avoid being burned....but that's what makes life fun. Sit at home, moonie, you'll never get burned...but you'll never have any fun either.
 

geno

Lifer
Dec 26, 1999
25,074
4
0
Some women will treat you like a mechanic.
Hell yes! My mother expected me to fix the stereo system in our old Dodge Shadow (when I was like 10), she said "the rear speakers died on me, why can't you fix it?". I'm thinking "well, if I try to look at it, and screw it up even further, she'll be twice as pissed"... Flash forward 6 years, I buy the car off of her for cheap as my first car. I replace the stereo...guess what I find for rear speakers? NOTHING!! The radio had 2 front speakers and that was it (car had no options except for A/C) !!!


Women :disgust:


 
Jan 18, 2001
14,465
1
0
Guys, learn this early in life and you will save yourself a lot of disappointment. As men, your role in life (at least when women are concerned) is relegated to either Fetching or Toting. Its the truth. Accept it and you will find joy in it. Deny it and you will find misery and suffering.
 
sale-70-410-exam    | Exam-200-125-pdf    | we-sale-70-410-exam    | hot-sale-70-410-exam    | Latest-exam-700-603-Dumps    | Dumps-98-363-exams-date    | Certs-200-125-date    | Dumps-300-075-exams-date    | hot-sale-book-C8010-726-book    | Hot-Sale-200-310-Exam    | Exam-Description-200-310-dumps?    | hot-sale-book-200-125-book    | Latest-Updated-300-209-Exam    | Dumps-210-260-exams-date    | Download-200-125-Exam-PDF    | Exam-Description-300-101-dumps    | Certs-300-101-date    | Hot-Sale-300-075-Exam    | Latest-exam-200-125-Dumps    | Exam-Description-200-125-dumps    | Latest-Updated-300-075-Exam    | hot-sale-book-210-260-book    | Dumps-200-901-exams-date    | Certs-200-901-date    | Latest-exam-1Z0-062-Dumps    | Hot-Sale-1Z0-062-Exam    | Certs-CSSLP-date    | 100%-Pass-70-383-Exams    | Latest-JN0-360-real-exam-questions    | 100%-Pass-4A0-100-Real-Exam-Questions    | Dumps-300-135-exams-date    | Passed-200-105-Tech-Exams    | Latest-Updated-200-310-Exam    | Download-300-070-Exam-PDF    | Hot-Sale-JN0-360-Exam    | 100%-Pass-JN0-360-Exams    | 100%-Pass-JN0-360-Real-Exam-Questions    | Dumps-JN0-360-exams-date    | Exam-Description-1Z0-876-dumps    | Latest-exam-1Z0-876-Dumps    | Dumps-HPE0-Y53-exams-date    | 2017-Latest-HPE0-Y53-Exam    | 100%-Pass-HPE0-Y53-Real-Exam-Questions    | Pass-4A0-100-Exam    | Latest-4A0-100-Questions    | Dumps-98-365-exams-date    | 2017-Latest-98-365-Exam    | 100%-Pass-VCS-254-Exams    | 2017-Latest-VCS-273-Exam    | Dumps-200-355-exams-date    | 2017-Latest-300-320-Exam    | Pass-300-101-Exam    | 100%-Pass-300-115-Exams    |
http://www.portvapes.co.uk/    | http://www.portvapes.co.uk/    |