Well, I talked to someone I look up to in my personal life about all this (my big brother - we had a visit last night). He agrees with you guys (who think of some cars as appliances), but went a step further, he called Toyotas soulless. I see where all this comes from, they're decidedly not exciting, and I agree with that. It's all my sensitivity. When I plunk down some dough on a car, I never expect any compliments on it, and I didn't buy it looking for attention. Words like understated, practical, and sensible would never be used, and I totally grok that, words like boring, a refrigerator on wheels (it's a minivan after all, with a sliding, wide door, necessary to get my wheelchair in and out), an appliance are what's used. I understand what you guys are saying, that it's not meant to insult, yet also seeming not to compliment, just neutral, factual words.
My obvious problem is that I take it a little personally when it's about my buying decision, I guess I'm thin-skinned about it. It never occurred to me that cars could be anything less than at least interesting, but obviously I'm wrong about that. A man in another car started screaming at me in a tight parking lot where I swung the van a bit wide to negotiate a turn, but he wanted to use that lane, and I didn't know since he didn't signal. He had to wait for me, and I certainly deserved the vitriol since I shaved a full five seconds from his apparently quick to anger life, but now I'm starting to think after understanding the negative emotions that some cars inspire that he had at least disappointment with my choice of car as well. From now on I'll understand these feelings, and some here certainly enlightened me about that - thank you. My naive, happy-go-lucky nature, devoid of the awareness of how my car affects others has now been schooled. I understand the anger I get when people can't see around my behemoth - I call her Penelope - after all I can't see around big cars either, but not thinking about other people's cars in a judgmental way (unless I think they're cool or something) is my Achilles heel; I lacked empathy for that. I like to learn things, again, thank you.
[sorry for the long post; I have a new roommate (he had some financial problems), and I've lost my living room, and his cat wakes me up in the middle of the night now, so I don't have anything to do here but read or write in the wee hours.]