The culpability for events such as these lands squarely at the feet of the perpetrators. Yet every time these things happen the "discussion" inevitably focuses on the wrong things. Most often, gun control becomes the topic of conversation, as it appears it will be this time as well. Fairly frequently though the media's role becomes a topic as well.
I find it interesting that in many cases, those most willing to condemn guns for the role they play are most willing to absolve the media for the role they play, and vice versa.
I have been involved in some untimely and tragic deaths in my youth. My senior year in high school two acquaintances were killed in an auto accident. A month or two later, a friend was killed in a separate auto accident. A month later my best friend committed suicide. Nine months later an acquaintance was killed in an auto accident.
The three friends and acquaintances killed in the first two auto accidents were honor in ceremonies during school hours. The fourth acquaintance, a football player, eventually had the football stadium named in his honor (even though he was killed in a singe-car accident with alcohol in his system). The fifth, my best friend, was effectively wiped from the school's records.
During our grief counseling we were repeatedly told that the school district would not recognize my friend for fear that other students, who were allegedly suicidal, would see that as an "honorable" way out. It was very difficult to handle, as a child, to have the adults act in a way that was so uncaring. Over the years, as I've healed on my own, I've come to realize that while the adults were grossly incompetent in how they handled things, the basic premise was sound.
Count me in the camp that believes the media needs to look itself in the mirror and ask if its' collective actions benefits society in these circumstances.
I can dial up cnn.com right now and find no less than 17 stories on the Newtown tragedy. Yahoo.com features 18 Newtown-related stories on their landing page. NBC cut away from Sunday Night Football to carry the President's address, then resumed coverage with a teaser for Monday's continued "all-day" coverage.
If suicide is treated with kid gloves, an act which typically takes one life, why is mass murder or mass-murder suicide not subject to the same treatment? Is it responsible journalism to give murderers hundreds of collective hours of airtime, to have their names and exploits discussed and compared like home run totals? Why does law enforcement fear copycat acts after nationally televised incidents such as this? Because overblown national media attention appears to those in need of help to be the solution to all of their problems.