People are constantly going there, what you said is just differently-branded "groomer" talk.
Yes to helping fix the issues, no to getting rid of no-fault divorce. UBI, universal pre-K, single-payer healthcare, etc.
People are constantly going there, what you said is just differently-branded "groomer" talk.Somebody has to go there once and a while. Some folks go a bit nuts on the sex positive stuff, IMHO.
Yes to helping fix the issues, no to getting rid of no-fault divorce. UBI, universal pre-K, single-payer healthcare, etc.It does suck for kids to be in some victims of some bad marriages (particularly verbally or physically abusive ones). But I’d rather we spend time and efforts as a culture to deal with that problem than live with the lie that the nuclear family isn’t the most optimal environment for raising children. No fault divorce is an experiment that failed and should be discarded as such.
I guarantee you have come across an openly gay person in your life.yes I know I personally made a mistake discussing trans causes a week or two ago which got me some scorn. tell you the truth I've never come across a person who was, much less a person who was openly homosexual. you don't see it many industries due to the work involved. the glamboyant ones exist but it doesn't bother me. I can't say I've ever worked with an lgbt person in my life.
He may have encountered a trans person too, because IDGAF what anyone thinks, you cannot "always tell". IMO even more so with trans men. Once a trans person goes stealth, they get the joy of people saying transphobic shit to them not realizing they're talking to a trans person, who just has to smile and nod because they don't want to out themselves.I guarantee you have come across an openly gay person in your life.
They may not have broadcasted it to you, because that just isn't something "normal" that people do. I mean when is the last time you broadcasted you are straight? That is, assuming you are.
Absolutely agree with the majority of problem beginning (and ending) at home. It’s like we forgotten how to raise children. Once a couple chooses to bring children into the world - they must be priority number one. Divorce is one of the most harmful of all psychological traumas that can be afflicted on children. Wonder why kids suffer emotional and mental health problems at ever increasing rates - look no further than divorced and/or absentee parents. I know I’m in the minority of propnents of the abolition of 'no fault' divorce laws. People used to have the good sense to stay married until their children reached adulthood. Did it suck for the couple, yes - but get the hell over yourselves, suck it up and do your damn job. Too many people have lost all sense of the need for sacrifice.
I don’t mean to make light of this, or pretend it’s easy - but we are clearly traveling down the wrong path when it comes to raising children today (though there are also improvements, for parents who had good examples and bother with educating themselves on best practices).
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I still remember the day my parents separated on their way to divorce very fondly. It was such an incredible feeling of relief for all that hatred and tension to be gone from the house. If my parents had followed his advice it would have been a nightmare.So there are no ill effects to a child of parents who constantly argue, possibly engage in verbal and/or physical abuse?
Yeah kindly and respectfully fuck right off.Somebody has to go there once and a while. Some folks go a bit nuts on the sex positive stuff, IMHO.
It does suck for kids to be in some victims of some bad marriages (particularly verbally or physically abusive ones). But I’d rather we spend time and efforts as a culture to deal with that problem than live with the lie that the nuclear family isn’t the most optimal environment for raising children. No fault divorce is an experiment that failed and should be discarded as such.
I still remember the day my parents separated on their way to divorce very fondly. It was such an incredible feeling of relief for all that hatred and tension to be gone from the house. If my parents had followed his advice it would have been a nightmare.
I'm sure in some cases 'staying together for the children' makes sense but people should also consider 'separating for the children'.
You are right. But it does matter if we have laws that damage society - particularly children. If if you don’t care about that - future generations are determining your future as well.It's none of your business why 2 adults would want a divorce.
LOL - I think you meant disrespectfully. I know it can be hard to write single sentences.Yeah kindly and respectfully fuck right off.
You make a good point there.I guarantee you have come across an openly gay person in your life.
They may not have broadcasted it to you, because that just isn't something "normal" that people do. I mean when is the last time you broadcasted you are straight? That is, assuming you are.
You're basically just making an argument against getting married, which I think probably is not your intent.You are right. But it does matter if we have laws that damage society - particularly children. If if you don’t care about that - future generations are determining your future as well.
Nope, that not what I was writing about at all. *Not at all.*People are constantly going there, what you said is just differently-branded "groomer" talk.
How do you tie something to "MBLA" and claim you're not talking about "grooming"?Nope, that not what I was writing about at all. *Not at all.*
What?? The current situation has led to couples not getting married. Geez, that is so freaking obvious.You're basically just making an argument against getting married, which I think probably is not your intent.
If no-fault divorces are removed, that provides incentive to not get married in the first place.What?? The current situation has led to couples not getting married. Geez, that is so freaking obvious.
"Cues" - meaning an extremist view point. MBLA is obviously an absurdly extreme view point - an immoral one. I don’t feel like going into the bizarre stuff I’ve seen in sex positivity - maybe I’ll post an example later. Seems I hit allot of nerves today.How do you tie something to "MBLA" and claim you're not talking about "grooming"?
You missed what I said - the marriage rate has been declining since the '70s. When no-fault-divorce laws were being implemented. There are other factors involved - that’s just a good starting point. Graph from the JEC.If no-fault divorces are removed, that provides incentive to not get married in the first place.
You know what else happened in the 1970s?You missed what I said - the marriage rate has been declining since the '70s. When no-fault-divorce laws were being implemented. There are other factors involved - that’s just a good starting point. Graph from the JEC.
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With disrespect now you can go fuck yourself you fucking religious whackadoodle.LOL - I think you meant disrespectfully. I know it can be hard to write single sentences.
Did you miss the sarcasm in this well-used phrase? Nothing about the "kindly" part? You're smarter than that.LOL - I think you meant disrespectfully. I know it can be hard to write single sentences.
So...are you claiming that no-fault is what CAUSED the drop? And you believe ditching it would increase marriage rates? I heartily disagree.You missed what I said - the marriage rate has been declining since the '70s. When no-fault-divorce laws were being implemented. There are other factors involved - that’s just a good starting point. Graph from the JEC.
Nice deflection. Blame it all on my religion. Everyone has a world view shaped, to a large extent, by our intellectual environment. I made my choice, as a convert, as an adult. Don’t know about you. In any case, we clearly have completely different ideas about what constitutes human dignity, love, responsibility and our place in society. Nothing new under the sun there.With disrespect now you can go fuck yourself you fucking religious whackadoodle.
In all seriousness just like your horseshit pro life stance you need to stay out of other people’s shit. Ultimately you’re just trying to apply the half assed morality of a 6000 year old work of fiction to the lives of others.
It’s not a deflection it’s a statement of fact. Also yes we ado have different ideals you seem to believe the route to human dignity is by controlling people instead of giving them the ability to live their lives without having your religious morality forced in them to constrain that freedom.Nice deflection. Blame it all on my religion. Everyone has a world view shaped, to a large extent, by our intellectual environment. I made my choice, as a convert, as an adult. Don’t know about you. In any case, we clearly have completely different ideas about what constitutes human dignity, love, responsibility and our place in society. Nothing new under the sun there.
have a nice night.