Now you're just sensationalizing. It has nothing to do with Steam fanbois. Steam is far from perfect, but when you can get AAA (by console standards) for $20+ under retail on PC before or somewhat soon after it's been released, it softens the blow considerably. Then you can get games that aren't even a year old at 50-90% off you can manage that tradeoff even more.
I've been in both scenes long enough to know that trend does not follow to console games. If they do it, more power to em, but it's more than just used games. It's the whole package. They are marketing it like a very locked down restricted PC. Really now, if you're paying that much for the console and games, wouldn't you want a bit more freedom to play it how you wish? On a PC (even in steam) you can mod your games, you can also not have your system connected every 24 hours just to play games because contrary to popular belief, Steam isn't where ALL the games are. Add to that if my internet is down, I might wanna play a console instead. Woops..can't do that.
For example: Your family can also play your games at your house! ..really? this is a plus that needed pointed out?
But but, you can't do that on the PC!!. No shit. That's why consoles are a different niche, except now you are "allowing" me to do that. Right.
The key to all of this is choice. They are taking that away.
I said it many years ago with the original Xbox that the whole "internet on consoles" thing was going to head down a bad path, and here we are. They want control and milking ability. Trying to compare what this is to Steam on a PC is just being blind. They are NOT the same thing.
On the plus side, if this goes like it sounds like it is, I have a feeling the hacks will be amazing.
Another thought is if it all backfires on MS, just some firmware/software updates can change it to something more positive...of course by that time the damage will have been done.