I get your point. But I am trying to show you how you are being more sensitive than the people this affects.
And I'm trying to get you to realize that by making a bigger deal out of it than it should be, you are actually being racist.
We are all equals but we are equals with different skin colors, native traditions and lots of other differences. I'm white. My buddy is black. My other buddy is half Indian. My other buddy is full blooded Indian. My two Indian buddies trace their heritage to different continents. ITS OK to talk about those differences, including the color of our skin.
well, that argument has always been invalid. For example: Affirmative Action is not about racism--it's about fairness. When it breaks, as it certainly does, it is not because it is being racist, it is because it is creating a lack of fairness.
disliking bigots for being bigots is
not being a bigot. I know you're not a simple person, so don't make a simple argument.
Further, I'm not sure why you can joke about racism with your friends, yet when I do it, I am somehow uptight and bring racist? This is odd, to me.
Again, approach a random Native American on the street, would you call them a beloved patriot? Would you call a Jew a beloved patriot? Would you expect strangers to accept this as an "lol, just being ironic!" type of joke?
I doubt it.
Simply because we may have come from different backgrounds, in your mind (actually, I grew up in a shithole southern town where I was very much the minority), doesn't give you or me any better insight into our racist tendencies.
This really is very simple: We know for a goddamn fact that "beloved patriot" is nothing more than a racist term. Are people offended by it? If the majority is not, OK. Is a majority of the community that is the supposed target of the offense, OK with this term? OK...
Second question: is the level of offense determined by majority the only argument to consider with this issue?
Are we really that petty--that the fact that we don't seem to be offended by the term, today, is the only thought to consider?
People are different, races are different. We all have stereotypes that lend themselves to humor and even a margin of truth. Reality check--this is a culture issue--not a skin color issue. Biology laughs when you think that people tend towards different stereotypes because of skin color. Joke all you want with your friends about our differences, as I certainly do, but the humor is only able to be humor because we accept, through our ability to laugh, that these people absolutely ARE NOT defined by their skin color.