Yes, the blandness of not having homeless people everywhere. Or shit on the sidewalks. Or being able to afford a house. And having good schools for your kids. And services like supermarkets and hospitals close at hand. But hey if you New Yorkers want to pay an average of 65% or so of your income on rent, enjoy away!
Like I said, I’ve experienced both and I prefer the city. If you don’t, that’s fine too! You’re the one trying desperately to convince yourself that your way is better while I’m saying to each their own. (It is bizarre how you think hospitals and supermarkets wouldn’t be closer in the city though.)
As you mention, houses in the suburbs are usually way cheaper because there’s less demand. My apartment has appreciated enormously in value over the last five years thanks to people like you who don’t want to build more houses in desirable areas. If I wanted to I could sell my place and probably buy a house in the suburbs in cash with the proceeds. It should tell you just how attractive I find the suburbs that I don’t even want to live there for ‘free’.