The wife of the husband that was screwing my fiancee

[aboothman]

Hah nice. I agree with Eits above, tell your ex to go fvck herself. Typical woman bullshit. The funny thing is,
if you yell at her and don't cave in she will probably be attracted to you.

This reminds me of a Chris Rock standup in so many ways. She gave you a "get some new pu$$y for free" card.

Screw the "moral high ground" crap. If I compare the feeling of taking the moral high ground,
and the feeling of regret, regret is far stronger than keeping strong morals. And to talk of morals
after all this crap...forget it.

Hit the mom, be Mr Uncle to the kids (classic, lets you be close without being a true father figure)
get revenge and some good lovin, and tell the ex to get ALL of her sh|t so she has no reason to come
screw with your head. Seriously, I know you are probably trippin after 6 years with her, but is THAT
the kind of person you want to marry? And don't think about love again for a year or two, unless you really want
to get screwed over. ESPECIALLY when you just met someone. She could be a phycho.

 

[MustangSVT]

twisted story.

if its true, hope you dont get fvcked again .

I too am looking for some "evidence"... sigh...

 

[AznAnarchy99]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie
slow down

be careful

yea.. sounds like your still on the rebound

 

[DevilsAdvocate]

Originally posted by: DaTT

Originally posted by: KarenMarie
slow down

be careful

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie
slow down

be careful

Perfect first post to this thread.

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: MazerRackham
[neo]whoa[/neo]

Dude, that is super-creepy. There are eleventy-billion women out there. Do you REALLY have to get down with the one your ex has homewrecked? I feel that only bad can come of this situation... BAD.

more like 3 billion give or take

 

[huberm]

so a little update....

the ex still denies anything happened. She said his wife feels insecure about her living with them and she is trying to come between us. After being with her for 6 years, I thought I really knew her, and I don't think she would do something like that. I dunno maybe I'm wrong. The wifey though gives these details that she wouldn't know about me and her, which makes me think she is telling the truth? It has just completely confused me.

and the ex's story has changed. At first her explanation was they were watching a movie on the couch and fell asleep - when the wife came in she overreacted and for some reason though they were screwing. She said they were on opposite ends of the couch. She now says they were on the bed because the DVD player was broke in the living room, and they fell asleep.

neither side of the story completely matches up! AHHHHHHH!

 

[Peetoeng]

Think of the children. They already have a cheating dad, why do you want to add another jerk in their lives?

Just walk away...

 

[Choralone]

Originally posted by: huberm
so a little update....

the ex still denies anything happened. She said his wife feels insecure about her living with them and she is trying to come between us. After being with her for 6 years, I thought I really knew her, and I don't think she would do something like that. I dunno maybe I'm wrong. The wifey though gives these details that she wouldn't know about me and her, which makes me think she is telling the truth? It has just completely confused me.

and the ex's story has changed. At first her explanation was they were watching a movie on the couch and fell asleep - when the wife came in she overreacted and for some reason though they were screwing. She said they were on opposite ends of the couch. She now says they were on the bed because the DVD player was broke in the living room, and they fell asleep.

neither side of the story completely matches up! AHHHHHHH!

I would call that your sign to get the FvcK out of that situation for a while. What's to say that the wifey isn't also a real basket case behind closed doors, hence the changing stories. I hate to be negative, especially after going through a divorce where my spouse was cheating, but run NOW!

Get out of there and let things sort themselves out. If that wifey really wants to hook up with you she'll wait until her divorce is final and things have settled down for a while. I'd hate to think of what the kids are going through too...

 

[K1052]

Originally posted by: huberm
so a little update....

the ex still denies anything happened. She said his wife feels insecure about her living with them and she is trying to come between us. After being with her for 6 years, I thought I really knew her, and I don't think she would do something like that. I dunno maybe I'm wrong. The wifey though gives these details that she wouldn't know about me and her, which makes me think she is telling the truth? It has just completely confused me.

and the ex's story has changed. At first her explanation was they were watching a movie on the couch and fell asleep - when the wife came in she overreacted and for some reason though they were screwing. She said they were on opposite ends of the couch. She now says they were on the bed because the DVD player was broke in the living room, and they fell asleep.

neither side of the story completely matches up! AHHHHHHH!

This has "run the fvck away as fast as humanly possible" written all over it.

Nothing good will come of this.

 

[Baked]

No wonder your ex dumped you, you don't like kids. You're a horrible man.

 

[m2kewl]

2 kids?!?!?

RUN!!!

RUN VERY FAST!!!

 

[Eli]

OMG, lol..

You should book an appointment with Jerry Springer now..

For the future, of course.

 

[George P Burdell]

This situation is way to complicated, especially with kids involved. Dude, you need to take time out from relationships for a while... you need to stop hurting. Somebody in this thread mentinoed 3 months, I feel that's appropriate time to give yourself. Also, talk to a few close friends and ask for their opinion.

******, this is too complicated. If this is important enough for you, it might help if you go talk to a counsellor/phychologist. One session, lay out your story and see what he says.

 

[TheSlamma]

Swap out and you get the one with the kids?

ripoff ripoff!!

 

[TheSlamma]

By the way.... how did she get your number?

 

[AlienCraft]

Originally posted by: K1052

Originally posted by: huberm
so a little update....

the ex still denies anything happened. She said his wife feels insecure about her living with them and she is trying to come between us. After being with her for 6 years, I thought I really knew her, and I don't think she would do something like that. I dunno maybe I'm wrong. The wifey though gives these details that she wouldn't know about me and her, which makes me think she is telling the truth? It has just completely confused me.

and the ex's story has changed. At first her explanation was they were watching a movie on the couch and fell asleep - when the wife came in she overreacted and for some reason though they were screwing. She said they were on opposite ends of the couch. She now says they were on the bed because the DVD player was broke in the living room, and they fell asleep.

neither side of the story completely matches up! AHHHHHHH!

This has "run the fvck away as fast as humanly possible" written all over it.

Nothing good will come of this.

QFT

 

[eits]

dude, honestly.... stop banging her right now. you'll get attached (because you're that kind of guy.... i know i haven't met you, but i KNOW you're that kind of guy)

roll off the bitch and run. seriously. laugh as you run, though, because the guy she's married to got his wife proper fvcked

 

[DeadByDawn]

"She now says they were on the bed because the DVD player was broke in the living room, and they fell asleep. "


LMAO Does she think you are stupid? She's prolly smoking his pole right now.

This guys going for the upgrade, for sure. And the reason your girl is still lying to you about what is going on it because she isn't in the clear with the new guy yet. He's got a wife and two kids that he could run back to at any minute, where would that leave your girl? Running back to you. That's why she won't tell you the truth because you are her backup plan.

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: MazerRackham
[neo]whoa[/neo]

Dude, that is super-creepy. There are eleventy-billion women out there. Do you REALLY have to get down with the one your ex has homewrecked? I feel that only bad can come of this situation... BAD.

On the other hand, if he keeps his expectations in check and goes into the situation with his eyes open, then it could be good for some great sex and some great stories to tell down the road. If, however, he's expecting something serious to come of this, then he's got a long road ahead.

:thumbsup:

 

[dopcombo]

Originally posted by: DeadByDawn
"She now says they were on the bed because the DVD player was broke in the living room, and they fell asleep. "


LMAO Does she think you are stupid? She's prolly smoking his pole right now.

This guys going for the upgrade, for sure. And the reason your girl is still lying to you about what is going on it because she isn't in the clear with the new guy yet. He's got a wife and two kids that he could run back to at any minute, where would that leave your girl? Running back to you. That's why she won't tell you the truth because you are her backup plan.

Exactly. Your ex is never going to tell you the truth because you are her backup plan.

 

[Megadeth]

Get away from both your ex and this guys wife. You will be better off.

 

[CalvinHobbs]

Originally posted by: m2kewl
2 kids?!?!?

RUN!!!

RUN VERY FAST!!!

From both of them

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie
slow down

be careful

Best advice ever.... Use your head, man. It doesn't seem that following your emotions has helped much in the past right?

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Originally posted by: ajayjuneja
umm... you sure you two weren't just lamenting about the same problems? Be very very careful for mistaking "same problems" with "love at first sight"

Think before you dive in.

 

[mountain71]

Did you run?
Any updates?