THINKING OF getting MARRIED !

[sixone]

Why not just wait for a girl who doesn't seem to have the hots for your cousin? Is this your only shot? Of course not.

You need some years and experience under your belt before you make this kind of decision.

 

[Miramonti]

This thread is just wrong.

You're not going to find too many people around here encouraging an engagement to someone you're not good friends with yet, particularly someone that doesn't sound too hot for you in the first place.

This sounds more like a thread about loneliness than love.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: helo7050
OK GUYS... please read and respond. . i know its a little long but this is my life at stake here.

Ok, i need some advice if i should proceed with this girl that I might marry. BTW i'm 22yrs. and she is 19yrs

i stopped reading right there. way too young to get married.

 

[gigapet]

wow. the professional help you need cannot be found on this forum.

 

[helo7050]

how did this thread get back to the top...grrrr.

well since its been almost 3weeks. . to update you guys.

We have been talking over the phone.

As of now she is waiting for me to get my parents to her house to ask for her hand. She wants to marry me .

i'm gonna wait for her to fall in deep love with me and after that dump her.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: helo7050

i'm gonna wait for her to fall in deep love with me and after that dump her.

You're gonna have a long wait. :disgust:

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: helo7050
how did this thread get back to the top...grrrr.

well since its been almost 3weeks. . to update you guys.

We have been talking over the phone.

As of now she is waiting for me to get my parents to her house to ask for her hand. She wants to marry me .

i'm gonna wait for her to fall in deep love with me and after that dump her.

OMGWTFBBQDIEINAFIREYOUHEARTLESSMANIPULATINGPRICKWHOWILLNEVERGETLAID!!!!!!!!!!1111!!!!

 

[helo7050]

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: helo7050

i'm gonna wait for her to fall in deep love with me and after that dump her.

You're gonna have a long wait. :disgust:

she already wants to marry me so i'm pretty sure i won't have to wait much longer for her to really fall deeply in love and slice her wrist

 

[yoda291]

sure...what's the worst that could happen?

 

[Sentinel]

Originally posted by: Fenixgoon
so you're asking if you should marry her and you just met her?
1) no because you don't know her well enough
2) no because she doesn't appear to display much interest in you

:thumbsup:

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: helo7050
how did this thread get back to the top...grrrr.

well since its been almost 3weeks. . to update you guys.

We have been talking over the phone.

As of now she is waiting for me to get my parents to her house to ask for her hand. She wants to marry me .

i'm gonna wait for her to fall in deep love with me and after that dump her.

is this what you are saying?

you are going to ask her to marry you, get her to fall deeply in love with you and fvck her and then dump her?

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: yoda291
sure...what's the worst that could happen?

Her brother beheads you?

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Nitemare

Originally posted by: yoda291
sure...what's the worst that could happen?

Her brother beheads you?

now that sounds like a plan

 

[jagec]

Originally posted by: white
at first i stopped at ages and said no. but then i read it and then said hell no. it doesn't sound like she likes you. and, she's 19.

 

[Ranger X]

What's the rush? There is nothing in it for you to get married and you two are too young to be getting married.

You can be an idiot and marry her or wait several years to make sure she's the one for you.

 

[yoda291]

Originally posted by: Nitemare

Originally posted by: yoda291
sure...what's the worst that could happen?

Her brother beheads you?

so she's the kinky type eh?

 

[tami]

Originally posted by: helo7050

i'm gonna wait for her to fall in deep love with me and after that dump her.

what in the world is WRONG with you? why would you do that?

 

[nycxandy]

Erm... I'll pass.

 

[slurmsmackenzie]

if she's hot, then fvck yeah...

a) it's like showing off a corvette.
b) cuz it's yours, you can drive it whenever you want
c) housekeepers ain't cheap
d) S-T-R-A-N-G-E

 

[Schadenfreude]

Briefly read it, much too long and I don't feel like paying attention; ergo a half-assed "advice"

Don't do it. Marriage at any age is painful.

 

[YHPats]

$hit man, don't go there.
Marry in haste, repent at leisure.
The only conceivable circumstances under which it's advisable to marry are when there's a strong and enduring bond, ie - you've seen the potential candidate more than twice ... ideally, have gone out for a year or more and have total trust.
Why ?
Because divorce is expensive and even if you get as far as kids, losing them is a big no-no.

 

[slurmsmackenzie]

petty arguments pile up.

you make someone feel loved, and appreciated (this takes effort, none of that token bullsh1t, real appreciation), then you're good to go. don't let 'em fvcking walk all over you though

you make a woman feel three things, you're a happy man

sexy
loved
appreciated

you got three squares, good sex, and a best friend. don't let all these pouty divorcees talk you out of what may be the best thing in your life: a good woman.

 

[tami]

Originally posted by: tami

Originally posted by: helo7050

i'm gonna wait for her to fall in deep love with me and after that dump her.

what in the world is WRONG with you? why would you do that?

i wanted to rephrase this to say:

what in allah's name is wrong with you? why would you do that?

UPDATE!

 

[Patt]

That had me in stitches too ...

 

[Doboji]

How is her family.... if she comes from a good family that is a plus. Also have a serious discussion about finances and child rearing. If all things match up, and the conversation goes well. Then go for the marriage.

-Max