THINKING OF getting MARRIED !

[spiderrasmon]

I've been happily married for 2.5 years so far....

my advice to OP is...

get out while you still can!

*runs away*

 

[jjoyner]

Originally posted by: Thin Lizzy

Originally posted by: dc

"lets smell your colon you got on. . it smells good."

sorry but that had me LOLing

Me too, It took me a while to get what he was talking about. lol

Would someone please smell my colon?

/me fartz and wafts

well we are Muslim and its culture to do things fast pase like that

eh? ...meh, too easy to make a comment here...

 

[CRXican]

Originally posted by: Scouzer
Saw the ages, all I can say is too young.

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: helo7050
OK GUYS... please read and respond. . i know its a little long but this is my life at stake here.

Ok, i need some advice if i should proceed with this girl that I might marry. BTW i'm 22yrs. and she is 19yrs

Last weekend my roommate's girlfriend(soon to be wife) bought her cousin out and they wanted to setup me and his GF's cousin together to meet and see if we want to proceed with a possible marriage.

I know what your thinking. . well we are Muslim and its culture to do things fast pase like that.

Well all four of us went out to dinner in the city. I would say I?m a good looking guy but my roommate (which is my cousin) is a much better looking and i guess he has this thing where he can seduce any girl he pleases. I guess being tall, dark and built really catches the girls. Well we went out and she was pretty but after sometime i noticed she wasn't paying to much attention on me to say. During dinner my CUz took her cherry from her plate than she made a wise remark saying (you popped my cherry!). .That kinda sent a brief hint but i let it slide and later in the night she made a remark to him saying (you have pretty eyes!). ." which he does--i guess thats what lurrs the girls to him. I dont' know but i wish i had it.." So than i'm now wondering WTF. . Your here to meet me not him...She didn't make any of those types of comments to me. We ended the night. later my cousin called his GF and she said she wants to go out again and meet me again . .

Today....I just got back from the date. . We went to the Museum. all four of us again..
This time We kinda split for about a half hour. me and her and my cousin and his GF. Me and her talked while walking around and got to know each other on a personal level...she is really nice and i think i could fall in love with her pretty easy... After we joined back i noticed she started talking with my Cuz but the conversation seemed as if she was more comfortable talking with him then me. . like she opened to him way more than she opened to me in the few moments. . Again she was making comments to him like "lets smell your colon you got on. . it smells good." Also in the car my cuz was getting ready to put a CD in the player and she told him .. "hurry up put it in, hurry stick it in there....". AT that point i was wondering if she is pretty much set to want him vs. me. So i'm home and posting this damn message...should i bother meeting her a few more times or just let her go since i dont' even think i can trust her already. I didn't feel that strong of a vibe but when i asked my Cuz he said he could feel a vibe from her when she talks to him. . .

Any suggestions, am i just being a little to paranoid. is she just mabe shy towards me because of the awkward situation of how we are meeting or is it she is already fantasizing about someone else besides me.

For those that can't fvcking read.... he is MUSLIM. Different culture, different ways of doing things.... He doesnt have to bother with the whole games we have to go through... he finds a girl he likes, he marries her, they work out everything else later. In a way it makes alot of sense.... less divorces.

-Max

 

[Lola]

i hope to god that you are pulling all of our legs.. if not... don't do it.

 

[isasir]

Originally posted by: helo7050

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: helo7050

i'm gonna wait for her to fall in deep love with me and after that dump her.

You're gonna have a long wait. :disgust:

she already wants to marry me so i'm pretty sure i won't have to wait much longer for her to really fall deeply in love and slice her wrist

Troll.

 

[Miramonti]

Originally posted by: isasir

Originally posted by: helo7050

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: helo7050

i'm gonna wait for her to fall in deep love with me and after that dump her.

You're gonna have a long wait. :disgust:

she already wants to marry me so i'm pretty sure i won't have to wait much longer for her to really fall deeply in love and slice her wrist

Troll.

 

[imported_Beavis]

Dont do it


It would be a mistake, and most american marriages end in divorce. Just be single man, and there's alot of hot 20 and 30s something chicks out there.

 

[StageLeft]

Far too long to read, but based upon how long it was, and the fact you made this thread, the answer is obvious.

 

[Cal166]

Hate the game.

 

[DougK62]

"lets smell your colon"

LOL!

 

[Gurck]

God no, don't ever get married. Marriage is for suckers. This is a rough approximation of it.

 

[Juno]

Originally posted by: Gurck
God no, don't ever get married. Marriage is for suckers. This is a rough approximation of it.

WTF, how old are you?

 

[imported_Beavis]

Originally posted by: Gurck
God no, don't ever get married. Marriage is for suckers. This is a rough approximation of it.

Bingo

You Nailed It.

 

[BriGy86]

get a prenup, and it seems a bit too young, live a little

 

[tami]

Originally posted by: Doboji

For those that can't fvcking read.... he is MUSLIM. Different culture, different ways of doing things.... He doesnt have to bother with the whole games we have to go through... he finds a girl he likes, he marries her, they work out everything else later. In a way it makes alot of sense.... less divorces.

-Max

max, you're jewish. you do know that religious marriages are not as flawless as you think, right? read my post above about it. i have plenty more stories to tell where that came from.

btw, at this point, this has GOTTA be a SHENS... gonna slice her wrist now? as is already quoted in this thread:

I see why the middle east is doing so well.

a fine example set by a muslim guy on this thread. and no, i am not a racist, but i am disgusted by what this idiot OP is posting.

 

[Gurck]

Originally posted by: jewno

Originally posted by: Gurck
God no, don't ever get married. Marriage is for suckers. This is a rough approximation of it.

WTF, how old are you?

Older than you

 

[skace]

I saved this thread to my D: drive. When you really become 22, I will send this to you and we can both have a good laugh at your expense. Cya in 10 years.

 

[Connoisseur]

Originally posted by: helo7050
I think you guys are misunderstanding. How it works in our culture is we get engaged. The method is my parents go to her parents house along with me.. they talk and me and her go into her bedroom for sometime and talk. Than if we are interested in proceeding my parents ask for her hand for me and if they say yes we are then engaged. I see this more like permission to date your daughter since that?s what it really is.

Then we will be allowed to go out together as long as we wish. . Usually a year then we set the wedding date. I'm kind of going a different route. If things work out then I?ll tell my parents who i meet and we will go over her house and do the whole thing. So its not like I?m setting the wedding date after the 3rd visit. During the engagement process you can back out at anytime. It happens all the time.

Dude you're posting in the wrong place. First of all, most people here are generally westernized so you're not gonna get much different responses than "you're too young". Second of all why are you asking strangers if you think it's obvious she digs your cousin?

 

[Doboji]

Holy crap that will teach me to read the whole thread before commenting.... the whole slicing of wrists, and dumping her when she falls in love crap. I'm with Tami.... shens.

-Max

 

[ragazzo]

i'm sure his colon isn't as smelly as yours, so your shouldn't have any trouble with the girls.

joking aside, i would just skip out on future dates. she's really into him and although it's possible that she'll fall in love with you in the future, she'll probably always wonder about your cousin. that's not for me.

go out and find your own muslim girl. after a few weeks of dating, introduce her to your cousin and if her eyes are still on your for months, she's a keeper