OK GUYS... please read and respond. . i know its a little long but this is my life at stake here.
Ok, i need some advice if i should proceed with this girl that I might marry. BTW i'm 22yrs. and she is 19yrs
Last weekend my roommate's girlfriend(soon to be wife) bought her cousin out and they wanted to setup me and his GF's cousin together to meet and see if we want to proceed with a possible marriage.
I know what your thinking. . well we are Muslim and its culture to do things fast pase like that.
Well all four of us went out to dinner in the city. I would say I?m a good looking guy but my roommate (which is my cousin) is a much better looking and i guess he has this thing where he can seduce any girl he pleases. I guess being tall, dark and built really catches the girls. Well we went out and she was pretty but after sometime i noticed she wasn't paying to much attention on me to say. During dinner my CUz took her cherry from her plate than she made a wise remark saying (you popped my cherry!). .That kinda sent a brief hint but i let it slide and later in the night she made a remark to him saying (you have pretty eyes!). ." which he does--i guess thats what lurrs the girls to him. I dont' know but i wish i had it.." So than i'm now wondering WTF. . Your here to meet me not him...She didn't make any of those types of comments to me. We ended the night. later my cousin called his GF and she said she wants to go out again and meet me again . .
Today....I just got back from the date. . We went to the Museum. all four of us again..
This time We kinda split for about a half hour. me and her and my cousin and his GF. Me and her talked while walking around and got to know each other on a personal level...she is really nice and i think i could fall in love with her pretty easy... After we joined back i noticed she started talking with my Cuz but the conversation seemed as if she was more comfortable talking with him then me. . like she opened to him way more than she opened to me in the few moments. . Again she was making comments to him like "lets smell your colon you got on. . it smells good." Also in the car my cuz was getting ready to put a CD in the player and she told him .. "hurry up put it in, hurry stick it in there....". AT that point i was wondering if she is pretty much set to want him vs. me. So i'm home and posting this damn message...should i bother meeting her a few more times or just let her go since i dont' even think i can trust her already. I didn't feel that strong of a vibe but when i asked my Cuz he said he could feel a vibe from her when she talks to him. . .
Any suggestions, am i just being a little to paranoid. is she just mabe shy towards me because of the awkward situation of how we are meeting or is it she is already fantasizing about someone else besides me.
Ok, i need some advice if i should proceed with this girl that I might marry. BTW i'm 22yrs. and she is 19yrs
Last weekend my roommate's girlfriend(soon to be wife) bought her cousin out and they wanted to setup me and his GF's cousin together to meet and see if we want to proceed with a possible marriage.
I know what your thinking. . well we are Muslim and its culture to do things fast pase like that.
Well all four of us went out to dinner in the city. I would say I?m a good looking guy but my roommate (which is my cousin) is a much better looking and i guess he has this thing where he can seduce any girl he pleases. I guess being tall, dark and built really catches the girls. Well we went out and she was pretty but after sometime i noticed she wasn't paying to much attention on me to say. During dinner my CUz took her cherry from her plate than she made a wise remark saying (you popped my cherry!). .That kinda sent a brief hint but i let it slide and later in the night she made a remark to him saying (you have pretty eyes!). ." which he does--i guess thats what lurrs the girls to him. I dont' know but i wish i had it.." So than i'm now wondering WTF. . Your here to meet me not him...She didn't make any of those types of comments to me. We ended the night. later my cousin called his GF and she said she wants to go out again and meet me again . .
Today....I just got back from the date. . We went to the Museum. all four of us again..
This time We kinda split for about a half hour. me and her and my cousin and his GF. Me and her talked while walking around and got to know each other on a personal level...she is really nice and i think i could fall in love with her pretty easy... After we joined back i noticed she started talking with my Cuz but the conversation seemed as if she was more comfortable talking with him then me. . like she opened to him way more than she opened to me in the few moments. . Again she was making comments to him like "lets smell your colon you got on. . it smells good." Also in the car my cuz was getting ready to put a CD in the player and she told him .. "hurry up put it in, hurry stick it in there....". AT that point i was wondering if she is pretty much set to want him vs. me. So i'm home and posting this damn message...should i bother meeting her a few more times or just let her go since i dont' even think i can trust her already. I didn't feel that strong of a vibe but when i asked my Cuz he said he could feel a vibe from her when she talks to him. . .
Any suggestions, am i just being a little to paranoid. is she just mabe shy towards me because of the awkward situation of how we are meeting or is it she is already fantasizing about someone else besides me.