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IndyColtsFan

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So despite everything I said above I think there are still good places to work. I like where I am now and get a lot of job satisfaction out of it. It did take a few jobs to get there though. IT also lends itself to working from anywhere with a good internet connection so there can be a lot of flexibility there. My current one doesn't allow a lot of that (yet) but I think working from a beach or mountain trailhead might make certain positions easier to deal with

The best job I ever had was as a contract consultant. I made insane money and worked from home. I’d kill for another job like that. Working as IT staff in a large company is terrible.
 

[DHT]Osiris

Lifer
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If you're planning on going into IT to get away from pedants and egotists, you're doing it wrong.

Find a better job, don't abandon your career. Also, don't move back in with your parents.
 
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Loop2kil

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....My suggestion is to get a hobby outside of work - to the point where you no longer care what actually occurs during work....

^This^
Once I discovered Mountain biking a couple of years ago, I float through my work day thinking about getting off work and getting to go and mash through the woods....work matters to me and I try to do a reasonably competent job but I don't really care about the BS anymore, it exists, I deal with it and move on. After being in a few different careers myself I've come to the realization that there's BS everywhere, you just have to put on your big boy pants and deal with it the best you can. If you truly just hate the work itself that's one thing and moving to a new career for that reason might be something to consider, but if you're just having trouble adjusting to 'other' people's BS, then you're still going to be miserable wherever you go.

At age 45 myself, I tell everyone who seems to be in your shoes thinking a 'change' in the workplace will make things drastically better...."It won't", The same BS at one workplace will be the same BS at the next, especially if you plan on staying in the same geographic location.
 

ultimatebob

Lifer
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You might want to read some of the horror stories from the /r/talesfromtechsupport and /r/sysadmin forums on Reddit before thinking about quitting your EE job and going into tech. Trust me... the shit you have to deal with in IT is probably worse than what you are dealing with now.

But, hey, don't just take my word for it. Take some classes, and try an IT consulting gig on the side once you know what you're doing. If anything, those skills will supplement your EE skillset. I recommend learning about AWS administration, Docker containerization, and VMWare VSphere. Those skills are hot right now.
 

DietDrThunder

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If you're planning on going into IT to get away from pedants and egotists, you're doing it wrong.

Find a better job, don't abandon your career. Also, don't move back in with your parents.
I agree. Don't quit your job until you've found another. Don't abandon EE for IT. You'll find that in the long run EE will out pay IT. It just depends on where you want to work and what type of company you want to work for. There are a lot of guys at my work that are EE that do CS work. They took extra classes at night and learned Object Oriented programming. So keep your day job, go take a courses at your local univerisity, and choose a language that will run on an embedded system, like C++. Then you will stand out as knowing hardware with being familiar with writing software.

But you have to look at your ultimate goal. Do you really want to do EE or CS type of work for the rest of your life? You'll have two paths in which you can follow. Purely technical, or managerial. If you go purely technical you will reach a point in your career that you will hit the max technical level, you're job will stagnate, and you'll get bored. If you want to go managerial with a technical background, you'll have the potential to move higher in a company. But this will most likely require you to get a masters degree in business management.

I've been with my current employer for 30+ years and hit my maximum career technical level 5 years ago. I get bored with my job quite often now, but I can't complain because I'm close to the top of the salary band and I live in a very inexpensive part of the country to live in with no state income tax. I will retire from my company in 21 months and my plan is to find work at another company and to immediately start drawing my pension. I'll work at the new company for two years to save up enough to cover health insurance premiums, then I'll retire at 58. I will then buy a small town in central Texas, appoint myself mayor, and run everything from the front porch of the town hall.
 

Fritzo

Lifer
Jan 3, 2001
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I did something similar 3 years ago. It stressed me out to no end, but I was withering away at my dead-end position I had for 17 years. It was the scariest and best thing I've ever done. Working for the best company ever doing something I actually love every day and am surrounded by the most skilled people imaginable. It's a great place to be in life

This is not to say there isn't a chance of failing, but if you put your heart into pursuing something you want, you almost always end up succeeding in the end.
 

Fritzo

Lifer
Jan 3, 2001
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You might want to read some of the horror stories from the /r/talesfromtechsupport and /r/sysadmin forums on Reddit before thinking about quitting your EE job and going into tech. Trust me... the shit you have to deal with in IT is probably worse than what you are dealing with now.

But, hey, don't just take my word for it. Take some classes, and try an IT consulting gig on the side once you know what you're doing. If anything, those skills will supplement your EE skillset. I recommend learning about AWS administration, Docker containerization, and VMWare VSphere. Those skills are hot right now.

This is true- getting into IT means going through years of pee-on work. Phone support, customer service, help desk...these are all positions where you get your chops.
 

sourceninja

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IT engineers are probably just as strange and share many similar qualities. They always like to be in command and right in any discussion. Nothing will be different. Trust me, I've been doing this for 20 years from answering phones to running teams it's never ego free.
 

SeductivePig

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I think a lot of people don’t understand what I am looking for - maybe I phrased it incorrectly. Im not looking for an IT career. I want to get into tech. Two different things, I believe.

As for the suggestion about hobbies - I have had plenty of hobbies over the past five years. Does nothing to keep my mind off work.

I look at the next 25-30 years of my career and think, there’s no way I want to be an EE the rest of my life. Or even someone that’s purely technical.

I want to pursue different fields - big data, artificial intelligence, finance, tech, etc. i just see programming as a basis for all of that. I don’t have an end goal in mind for my career. I see work as an experience/opportunity to learn - the money is not a major concern because I think I would be comfortable past $90-100k which isnt that difficult these days with some experience.

IT is far from what I want - I can see how many of you think my expectations are ridiculous in that sense.
 

Genx87

Lifer
Apr 8, 2002
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I don't necessarily see IT/software as an endgame. I see it as a stepping point for getting into other fields.

Tech consulting
Management consulting
Analytics
Big Data
Artificial Intelligence
Fintech
Algorithmic Trading
Quantitative Finance (this is a longshot)

Etc. I don't want to stay in a hardcore IT/software role forever. I want to move to the business side of things (also getting an MBA is not an option for me).

If you want to get into the business side of things. Why not use your EE to get into sales? I have a couple of friends with EE degrees that sell telecommunication, networking, and other electrical equipment. Make a crap load of money doing it as well. But it does require a lot of travel.

I am in the IT world and trying to move into management. Technology moves quickly. And you have to keep up or be left behind. That is the grind part of the job. And after 20 years of chasing the next technology. I want to get into the people managing\high level strategy side of things. Instead of knowing the ins and outs of the next technology and implementing said technology.
 
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Genx87

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Apr 8, 2002
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So the thing is - entry level in IT sucks for almost any field. Most people end up spending time as a helpdesk monkey or call center smuck dealing with people who are shockingly bad with computers. Like, whatever the worst thing you can think of x1000 bad. So bad you won't be able to troubleshoot problems well because you aren't capable of imagining the actions leading up to the issue. Like using a hacksaw to make a different version of ram work with the motherboard. Like using a wet paper towel to clean a motherboard and then immediately turning it on. Time in these positions crawls along so 1 year feels like 5.

But you climb the ranks and have to deal with "Users" less and less. Finally one day you can sigh in relief as you should rarely have to deal with them again. Its this day you realize that other IT people are almost as bad. You visit the tier 2 person making $80k per year because the build system isn't working for them. And you find out the switch they are using isn't plugged into the wall jack. The DBA decides to run his python job locally on the database server and quickly consumes all 48GB of ram bringing it to its knees. Meanwhile he is also saving the results of his query to the C drive instead of the data drive or mapped network drives and proceeds to use up every last byte of free space. Now its an emergency issue YOU have to fix. Someone leaves and you get handed their code to fix\maintain and, not only is it atrocious but the ahole didn't comment anything anywhere

So you move up again and have to deal with supporting tech less. Now you can do more big picture things and tell people how things should be run. This is when you realize that your voice is often drowned out because you are the only IT person in "Stakeholder" meetings and no one else apparently knows anything about IT. So you give your expert opinion about how the project needs to be run but you get out voted because maybe they should require people enter their full SS#. They only really need the last 4 but this way they'll have it in case they need it later. No one else cares there is no good plan to curate access to this data. It'll be fine. Stop worrying. (It wasn't fine and a lot of people ended up with access they had no business having).

Or you go into a consulting meeting with the people who hired your firm and say "We've done this x number of times. If you do A you will have issues. B works flawlessly. Here are all the cases where we've been involved in both A and B so we know what we are talking about."
Everyone else at the meeting: "We want to do A. We are smarter than everyone else that has tried it. We will succeed where they failed."
Hint: They don't succeed. It has been my experience that you need to get used to being ignored a lot and watch all the negative consequences you predicted come to light. Sometimes you can't even say "I told you so" because you are too busy proving they were warned. Lots of decision makers at the top like to think they are smarter than everyone else so if something fails it must be someone else's fault.

I would be cautious about the grass being greener on the IT side of the fence



So despite everything I said above I think there are still good places to work. I like where I am now and get a lot of job satisfaction out of it. It did take a few jobs to get there though. IT also lends itself to working from anywhere with a good internet connection so there can be a lot of flexibility there. My current one doesn't allow a lot of that (yet) but I think working from a beach or mountain trailhead might make certain positions easier to deal with

Hahaha this is so true.
 

sourceninja

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Mar 8, 2005
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I think a lot of people don’t understand what I am looking for - maybe I phrased it incorrectly. Im not looking for an IT career. I want to get into tech. Two different things, I believe.

As for the suggestion about hobbies - I have had plenty of hobbies over the past five years. Does nothing to keep my mind off work.

I look at the next 25-30 years of my career and think, there’s no way I want to be an EE the rest of my life. Or even someone that’s purely technical.

I want to pursue different fields - big data, artificial intelligence, finance, tech, etc. i just see programming as a basis for all of that. I don’t have an end goal in mind for my career. I see work as an experience/opportunity to learn - the money is not a major concern because I think I would be comfortable past $90-100k which isnt that difficult these days with some experience.

IT is far from what I want - I can see how many of you think my expectations are ridiculous in that sense.

IT is dead/dying, so that's good to hear. Do you like to code, because big data, AI, etc are mostly dev jobs. My comments should not be taken as anti-IT, but rather that the same kind of egos exist in any technical field. If you will find that technology jobs and EE jobs are going to attract the same kind of mentalities.
 

Oyeve

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Oct 18, 1999
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I was fortunate to have gotten into IT when IT was just getting going in the mid 80s. I am now an IT Director for a textile company. Money is great and all but getting to this point in 25+ years was hard. Lot of layoffs/hirings especially in the early 2000s really put a damper on my career. I am 51 and should think about retiring but having to go through so many jobs to land where I currently am was, IMO, not worth the hell. But, IT guys, even high level ones, have it so easy today. Installing 50 Netware 4 servers on Pentium!!! systems was a bitch back in the day. My specialty was global RADUIS systems using Shiva Access with worldwide implementation. Yeah, the struggle was real.
 
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Genx87

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Ahh Netware. Just a few years before my time. And thankfully so
I have had it easy. I got into this business right as Win2K and AD came out.
 

sourceninja

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I was fortunate to have gotten into IT when IT was just getting going in the mid 80s. I am now an IT Director for a textile company. Money is great and all but getting to this point in 25+ years was hard. Lot of layoffs/hirings especially in the early 2000s really put a damper on my career. I am 51 and should think about retiring but having to go through so many jobs to land where I currently am was, IMO, not worth the hell. But, IT guys, even high level ones, have it so easy today. Installing 50 Netware 4 servers on Pentium!!! systems was a bitch back in the day. My specialty was global RADUIS systems using Shiva Access with worldwide implementation. Yeah, the struggle was real.

It depends. Things change. I remember how hard it was to manage a handful of sun boxes and a HP 3000. It thought it could only get easier. I now build custom CI/CD pipelines and solve multi-regional availability problems. It never got any easier for me lol.
 

Oyeve

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It depends. Things change. I remember how hard it was to manage a handful of sun boxes and a HP 3000. It thought it could only get easier. I now build custom CI/CD pipelines and solve multi-regional availability problems. It never got any easier for me lol.
Maybe not easier, but definitely faster! Now I can whip out a server in hours instead of days!
 

sourceninja

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Maybe not easier, but definitely faster! Now I can whip out a server in hours instead of days!
Without a doubt. I can spin up entire environments in minutes. I've got a template for a customer that builds their entire production environment. Containers, databases, networking, etc. Takes about 22 minutes to run in completion.
 

ultimatebob

Lifer
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Maybe not easier, but definitely faster! Now I can whip out a server in hours instead of days!

Yeah... except now a single admin is expected to be able to manage 200 VM's or 500 containers instead of just 40 physical servers in the past.

If anything, the infrastructure is more complex than it was before. At least it's more automated, anyway.
 
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Oyeve

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Yeah... except now a single admin is expected to be able to manage 200 VM's or 500 containers instead of just 40 physical servers in the past.

If anything, the infrastructure is more complex than it was before. At least it's more automated, anyway.
Yeah, I'm managing around 60 VMs by myself. I'm the only IT guy at the company. On top of that I have to manage all the NAS backups, the website, the SQL servers, the shipping system and all proprietary SW that we use. At least my days (and sometimes nights) go by quickly!
 

madoka

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Or would I be better off keeping my job (in Chicago) and trying to do the same thing in my spare time?

If you decide to try a different field, I know a guy in the auto industry who lives around you. He makes bank. Let me know if you want me to hook you up with him. It would be best if you had very muscular legs and buttocks.
 
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Chess

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We are always hiring EE in the DC area, working alot of cool things..IT requires a security clearance, and I cant really talk much about it due to NDA's.

If you are dead set on staying in the midwest my suggestions wouldnt work.

Ask @purbeast0 he loves DMV LOL
 

Chess

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Yeah, I'm managing around 60 VMs by myself. I'm the only IT guy at the company. On top of that I have to manage all the NAS backups, the website, the SQL servers, the shipping system and all proprietary SW that we use. At least my days (and sometimes nights) go by quickly!

For everything you do @Oyeve hopefully they compensate you fairly well.... Seems like thats alot for a all in one person
 

SeductivePig

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We are always hiring EE in the DC area, working alot of cool things..IT requires a security clearance, and I cant really talk much about it due to NDA's.

If you are dead set on staying in the midwest my suggestions wouldnt work.

Ask @purbeast0 he loves DMV LOL

I am actually aching to get out of the midwest. Been here my whole life. Ideally want to move to NYC
 

Chess

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I am actually aching to get out of the midwest. Been here my whole life. Ideally want to move to NYC

Makes sense... Ive been to alot of cities in the Midwest... I wouldn't want to live there, but visiting is super cool.

NYC is fun, alot of stuff to do, but I personally can't justify the cost to live (in the city).
 

Oyeve

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Oct 18, 1999
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For everything you do @Oyeve hopefully they compensate you fairly well.... Seems like thats alot for a all in one person
Yeah, I work autonomously so I never have to report to anyone. Huge perk. As long as it all works they leave me alone.
 
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