This guy killed my friend...

WombatWoman

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This guy killed my friend.

My friend is dead, my wild, beautiful, funny friend, who was at my side through more dark days than I wish to remember, who shared with me her worst fears and her brightest hopes and everything in between, who would write a song or paint a portrait when she could not afford to get me a birthday present. Her birthday and mine are just six days apart, so we often had a single party to celebrate ourselves. She would play the piano, and we would get a little tipsy on Lambrusco and sing "Happy Birthday to Us" at the top of our lungs, laughing like looneybirds because we had managed to make it through another year of life on earth.

We won't be sharing any more birthday parties. Not here on earth, anyway.

Her name was Carol Ann. When I first met her we were both fourteen years old, and we thought we knew everything. That was when Carol first met this guy. I thought he was fun, too, for a while, but finally I knew he was no good, and I dumped him. Tried desperately to get Carol to stop hanging around with him, but she wouldn't listen. Obsession is like that, sometimes.

This guy is a killer. I'm posting this to get a few of you to think about your own friends. Some of them probably hang around with this guy. Maybe you can help your friend to break off this deadly relationship. Maybe there's hope for your friend, if you offer your help and support. If you care about your friends, you don't remain silent while they head toward trouble.

So, as I was saying, this guy killed my friend. Seduced her, strung her along, and killed her.

He goes by many names...

Willie Kool.

Joe Camel.

The Marlboro Man.

If someone you love is involved with him, have the courage to speak up. Don't let him kill your friend, too.
 

Kaervak

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Whoa, you're friend didn't live in LA did she? I know a Carol Ann from there, and I know it may be slim that they're the same person, but it definitely scared me a little.
 

Descartes

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Sorry about your loss, WW.



<< Whoa, you're friend didn't live in LA did she? I know a Carol Ann from there, and I know it may be slim that they're the same person, but it definitely scared me a little. >>



You're kidding, right?

 

GrumpyMan

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I kicked that guy out of my house for good 5 years ago. Sorry for your loss, he has killed some of my friends too.
 

Kaervak

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<< Sorry about your loss, WW.



<< Whoa, you're friend didn't live in LA did she? I know a Carol Ann from there, and I know it may be slim that they're the same person, but it definitely scared me a little. >>



You're kidding, right?
>>



No. Just when I saw the name, the panic reflex kicked in.
 

Theslowone

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My mom has been smoking since she was 13 and still smokes, now 42, we have tried to get her to stop by almost anyway we could think of. But she continues on and I don't think she ever will stop.

Sorry about your friend.
 

SWScorch

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I'm so sorry.... I just hope the majorirty of smokers quit before its too late....
 

SSP

Lifer
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Thanks god I haven't lost anyone to that bastard. My dad used to smoke, but me, my sisters and my mom bugged him over and over again to quit smoking. It took a while, but he finally did it 2 years ago (went cold turkey. so proud of him ). Me and couple of my friend did encourage a good buddy of mine to give up smoking (had to bug him too). I haven?t seen him smoke in a long time, so I think he?s off of it for good.

BTW. Sorry for your loss. I can't imagine loosing some one you care about, cause it never happened to me. Lucky me.
 

Descartes

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Both of my parents smoke, and my brother does as well. I've never so much as even puffed on a single cigarette. I hound them to quit, but they don't listen...
 

rubix

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my dad smokes and has since the age of 12. one day he will die from it. don't think for a second that cigarrettes killed him or the companies should be blamed. he will have killed himself. people are biased and like to place blame on others. it's an empty coping mechanism. nothing more.

still sucks though that people actually start in the first place. it's pointless.
 

bandXtrb

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Sorry to hear that

Apparently I'm slow, I thought you were talking about an ex-boyfriend or something along those lines.
 

vi edit

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Lost a Grandmother 8 years ago to a stroke that was in no small part due to smoking.

My Grandfather(husband of above Grandmother) has such terrible emphysema he can't walk up the stairs in his own house without huffing on the oxygen placed at the top of them. He weazes and huffs, and coughs and hacks, and yet still continues to smoke. His doctor is amazed he is still alive.

Amid all of this, my mother still continues to smoke.

I just don't understand.
 

eleutheria

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Powerful writing. You should send this to Ann Landers or Abby, it could make a big difference in someones life.

My dad was a tobacco victim too. People who say "well, it's their own fault" are forgetting that most smokers become addicted at a very young age. Once they mature and have better judgment, they are already hooked.
 

Renob

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Sorry for your loss, Im going through the same thing My dad passed away 11 days ago from Lung Cancer it sucks big time.

I myself have been with out a cig for almost 7 weeks, it starting to get easy now thank God.
 

OREOSpeedwagon

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<< Sorry to hear that

Apparently I'm slow, I thought you were talking about an ex-boyfriend or something along those lines.
>>



Hehe, I did too Sorry about your loss Luckily neither of my parents or my uncles or aunts or my grandparents smoke. I couldn't stand it if they did, it'd drive me nuts.
 
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