Throwing in the towel on dating

[OS]

I give up. I don't know what else to say. There is no one out there for me. I have to face up to this sooner or later. So make that now.

Every girl that I've ever found attractive has been basically unavailable to me. There are no exceptions to this.

This weekend was the final straw. I asked this girl out. She basically said no and stapled on some BS about how her life is too complicated. I hate it when people try to pad sh*t in a pathetic attempt to make things something it's not. They might as well go try and coat bullets with neosporin ointment.

I've always had this small calling to just give up everything and join a monestary. I think I'll start considering that more seriously now.

 

[Looney]

To really show your commitment to celibacy, you should hack off your penis like that Phillipino guy.

 

[b0mbrman]

Mmm...so are you "switching teams" on us?

 

[BrunoPuntzJones]

hi
gave up on that a long time ago as well (although ive never been on a date...). just dont bother thinking about it anymore. frees up lots of time for gaming and stuff. ive bought rental property, and currently have a 4.0 on my graduate work. you're way better off without someone to drag you down.

CS and operation flashpoint dont whine, nor do you have to cuddle with them after having fun

 

[OS]

<< To really show your commitment to celibacy, you should hack off your penis like that Phillipino guy. >>



Pass me the knife.

 

[Mustangrrl]

<< To really show your commitment to celibacy, you should hack off your penis like that Phillipino guy. >>

Rough answer.
You just have to keep trying guy, that's how it is.
~robyn

 

[geekybear]

*puts thumb and forefinger together*<----world's smallest violin playing a sad song for you

self pity will get you no where!
cheer up, so you're having some trouble with the ladies, keep you're head up and some day a hottie will want to talk to you.
believe it or not, every now and then, ladies have been known to approach the guys.

 

[gopunk]

you're better off joining a tech firm... at least you get money for that. and you don't have that whole celibacy thing, in case you ever do meet that person.

i hear ya though... sometimes i wonder if there's anybody for me... *sigh*

sure does seem hopeless though, doesn't it?

 

[OS]

<< self pity will get you no where! >>



It's not self pity. It's facing the situation and not deluding oneself anymore.

 

[gopunk]

maybe we should start an AT monestary...

 

[BoberFett]

Congratulations, you've entered a new level of enlightenment!

 

[weezergirl]

become a weezer fan. it's a surefire way to meet some cool chicks.

look at me! har har

but seriously, if i can get a bf. u all can get GF's. if u knew me u'd know it's true!

 

[HamSupLo]

maybe we should start an AT monestary...

with a lifetime supply of hand lotion...maybe i can be the abbot

 

[Looney]

but seriously, if i can get a bf. u all can get GF's. if u knew me u'd know it's true!


Ha, are you kidding? All a girl has to do is show a little nipple and she can pick up a guy.

 

[weezergirl]

<< but seriously, if i can get a bf. u all can get GF's. if u knew me u'd know it's true!


Ha, are you kidding? All a girl has to do is show a little nipple and she can pick up a guy. >>



ah ha! but i'm not that kinda girl....

(sorry to disappoint u guys!)

 

[Looney]

Yeah sure. We all know it's the ones that play innocents that are the worst ones.

 

[gopunk]

look at me! har har

i dunno why but that "har har" just cracked me up...

well i'm sure i'll find somebody, *someday*, i mean it is a little bit early to be throwing in the towel, but i doubt i'll find anybody anytime soon. then again, who knows. maybe over winter break i'll meet someone at a party and yea.

 

[amnesiac]

I have a similar problem, except I *can* find girls to date, and many of them are VERY hot, but they are all F*CKED IN THE HEAD. I'm not talking about the normal level of psychosis that all girls have; I'm more than willing to accept that, in fact a bit of zaniness is a plus in my book. But all the girls I know have one or more of the following traits:

- Sleeping with everything that has a penis (not attractive especially if you know EVERY GUY she's been with)
- Weekly NA meetings
- Dating married men
- Drug addiction
- No life (as in no social life or social skills whatsoever)
- Weak aspirations (i.e. struggling actor)

Am I setting my goals too high? Should I ask out one of these nutjobs anyway?

 

[gopunk]

amnesiac - no, your standards are just fine, those are some freaky chicks! where do you hang out... jeez...

 

[amnesiac]

Most of these girls are @ my work
Some are from school..

All the "normal" girls I know are either dating long-term or not attractive to me.

 

[hans007]

i've failed many times now. and i'm not giving up. wanna know why? probably because i'm stupid.

 

[Jfur]

aren't you still in college? I guarantee there are a lot of women out there thinking the same thing; eventually you will bump into "her" Until then, do things you enjoy, as that will make you more attractive to women. And gopunk, you CANNOT throw in the towel at age 17

 

[mztykal]

Sorry to break up your pity party, but...

STOP MOPING AROUND FEELING BAD FOR YOURSELF!

You don't get anywhere with women if you act like a pathetic mama's boy. You have to have some confidence. And try not to go for girls only on their looks, albeit is a good thing, it's not everything.

So quit your b*tching and go get you some!

 

[gopunk]

And gopunk, you CANNOT throw in the towel at age 17

well now that you put it *that* way...

no, as stated earlier, i haven't quite tossed in the towel yet

mztykal -

i don't have a problem with that, there are plenty of girls i could date. the hard part is finding one i really want to date...

 

[Kaieye]

Don't worry about it. The laws of average will take care of you guys and girls eventually. I read somewhere that there is almost 100 opposites in this world who can be your soul mate and make each other happy for the rest of your life. The question is when and how...

In the mean time, have fun and enjoy life. Do the things that make you happy first. If you don't like yourself its possible no one else would, too!


Just a personal thought.