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Airsofter

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Yeah, I have a problem with rating girls. I can't describe them to well over the net, so I'll just rate them out of 10. I know it is stupid; it started as a joke on another forum.
 

lightweight

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Originally posted by: shortylickens
Originally posted by: savoyboy
Grow some balls.
As a way to offer further advice:
Women dont know the difference between confidence and a loud, dumb asshole.
Just act cool and you'll get lotsa chicks.

Women pick up on loud, dumb, assholes with pretty good accuracy. Maybe you think that all confident men you see are loud, dumb assholes?

Edit: To the OP, it doesn't matter what you talk to the girl about, it's how you talk about it. Just play it cool, and be comfortable in your own skin. Get rid of any bullshit thoughts in your head about "I can't do it". Instead of thinking about what she thinks about you, just think about what she sounds like in bed. Picture yourself already winning, and get a good mindset before you approach her. After that, just go up and shoot the breeze, but make sure that she knows that you're the prize, not her.
 

GuitarDaddy

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Originally posted by: Airsofter
Yo, you guys are seriously cracking me up. Alright, here is a pic. The girl I am really interested in who I made this thread about is on the right. Her best friend who i was thinking about asking out, but decided not to is on the left. The soph doesn't have a myspace. This pic is kind of old and she looks a little different now. I think they are like 15 there, but she just turned 17.

pic

I think I definately have a shot at her. I'll talk to her tommorrow again.


Forget them! The one in the middle with jeans and the long dark hair is hot!
 

Airsofter

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You really think so? I was pretty good friends with her my freshman year, but I wasn't really interested in her and I don't talk to her too much anymore.
 

Airsofter

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I like the other one better than the dark hair girl. Here is another pic. Obviously, they are both on the left.

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Airsofter

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Well, I still like the girl I started this thread about more. I did have some interesting experiences with the dark haired gril though.

In freshman year, we had most of the same classes. The first semester, I was kind of known as the new shy kid who was smart. Pretty much everyone in the school had a crush on her. Seniors would come to our classes to hit on her. Surprisingly, she kind of liked me. I began to feel pretty comfortable around her and we became friends.

The next semester, we really started to hit it off. I remember in biology class, there was this black kid who always tried to bust on everyone. Whenever we would go at it, she'd take my side and defend me. We were cool with each other, but I think she just liked me as a friend and she had a BF.

Now the story starts to get good. The first semester of my sophomore year, I sat at her table in lunch. It was a perfect setup. The table was a long rectangular one. I had all my friends on one side and some of the hottest girls in the grade on the other side. There were at least 10 gorgeous chicks there. Me and the dark haired girl sat next to each other in the middle.

I remember one incident where she called my name and had me lean over. I didn't know what was up, but I went along with it obviously. Then, she tells me that some girl at the table wants to show me her cl!t. I was like wtf at first, but started laughing. There were some other events too that I would rather not get into here.

Since then, I haven't had a lunch or any classes with her. I saw her once in the summer down the shore. I don't really talk to her much accept for the nod and smile in the hallway when I pass her.
 

HBalzer

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in the first pic the dark haired girl won by a landslide in the second I?m going to say the one on the far right is hottest the next 2 to her left are alright the 3rd is good and the fourth all the way on the left is the 2nd hottest. Of coarse that is just based on the 2nd pic.
 

shortylickens

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Originally posted by: lightweight
Originally posted by: shortylickens
Originally posted by: savoyboy
Grow some balls.
As a way to offer further advice:
Women dont know the difference between confidence and a loud, dumb asshole.
Just act cool and you'll get lotsa chicks.
Women pick up on loud, dumb, assholes with pretty good accuracy. Maybe you think that all confident men you see are loud, dumb assholes?
You're not any smarter than JL Gatsby.
http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview.aspx?catid=38&threadid=1785000
 
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Originally posted by: Airsofter
Maybe I'll tell her that I'll burn a cd for her or something.

You've alrady lost.

Want to make an impression, jsut walk up to her and say "Hi, I've wanted to meet you for a while and now seemed liek a good time". "It's odd how we have no casses together" etc.

Jsut do it damn it. Quit thning and do it. But wait till you bump into her, don't just walk so that you are looking for her.
 

HBalzer

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Now that you have shared a pic I will share some very good advice. Grow some balls and say would you like to go (rock climbing) with me? Studies show you want your first date to be something that is a little scary rock climbing, roller coaster, stroll through the ghetto, etc. The second date candlelight dinner. It?s all in a topic I posted about a month ago.
 

alkemyst

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Just swung by...but ask around I am the expert here on the women [now I am not saying they were not psycho or anything, but that's another story] lol

Anyway, way too much info in the first post...

You are in high school, she is popular...find out the next party she will be hanging at or even some other event and be there. You are one new territory so just say something that relates..or even hi.

If she is interested you really can't blow this except by not saying anything. If she is not, you should be able to pick it up readily, don't take it personally and back out gracefully.

Now the worst case is mixed signals. This is touch and feel really...however, if at anything the chick touches you, it's a decent sign she wants to be your friend at the very least.

The friends with benefits angle may present itself at a later date if that's all you are left with.

I didn't really have any major social life in my high school until late junior/senior year. I had been hanging out with older kids in my freshman/sophomore years...it was fun but the older chicks were a bit hard to get and it didn't dawn on me I could get a girl my age and use my driving friends to go pick her up and take her out.

Long story short: find a place outside school you will both be at, get near her and wait for a conversation opening, .... , profit!

Å
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Trikat
PM me when you get those PICs posted. I want to see this 9.0 / 10 or 9.5 / 10 chick you mention.

Chances are she could be the hottest chick in the world, but if she isn't J. Alba, Eva, Britney, etc...dudes here will flame her anyway.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Airsofter
Yo, you guys are seriously cracking me up. Alright, here is a pic. The girl I am really interested in who I made this thread about is on the right. Her best friend who i was thinking about asking out, but decided not to is on the left. The soph doesn't have a myspace. This pic is kind of old and she looks a little different now. I think they are like 15 there, but she just turned 17.

pic

I think I definately have a shot at her. I'll talk to her tommorrow again.

any of those chicks are alright. There are going to be virgins here though stating they would absolutely not touch certain ones in that group.

One of the more attractive group shots I have seen none-the-less.
 

Airsofter

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Yeah, there is nice group of about 15 girls in my grade who are really hot. It makes class go by a little easier. Here is another pic of the girl I am interested in. She is on the right. There we go, 3 pics for you ATOTers, Happy?

pic

BTW, good attempt on trying to screw with me above. That is not her name, but I would be pretty nervous if you guessed right. I'll admit you made me laugh.

On that note though, she did have a senior BF for a while, but I think they are just friends now.
 

JDrake

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Originally posted by: ngvepforever2
first.- Angels and Airwaves suck, kids have horrible taste in music these days.
Second - You are only 16 , for god's sake , just ask her out and get it over with. Unless you want to end up like mjuszczak(believe me you don't wanna end up like him)
Third - Every time you talk about a girl, you rate her....STOP IT, unless you post pictures, we don't give a flying fvck about your rating standards (ie. IMO all the girls you mention are a 2 'cause they are 16 and still in hs).

That's it

Regards

ng
LOL. You DON'T wanna become mjuscak
 

ngvepforever2

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not a 9.5 . It figures, you are still in hs.

Regards

ng

PS: Also, as I mentioned before, just ask her out....what is the big deal...I don't understand the predicament here...
 

Airsofter

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First of all, I said she was probably a 9, maybe a 9.5 Lol, is there an official rating scale now. She looks awesome in those pics, but she is a lot hotter now that she is 17. There isn't really any predicament here. I talked to her today and might ask her out tommorrow.
 
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