- Mar 15, 2003
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It's been a very stressful few months at my job and I'm pretty much at the end of my rope, but being a dad 2 times over's confusing my decision. I'm the IT and web manager for a small non-profit and there's an obvious pattern going on - our COO becomes a total dick to his target by belligerently yelling at them in the hallways, writing very unfair emails, and just being a dick until they either quit on their own or they're eventually laid off. He did this to my now departed boss, her equal in another department, and at least 3 other people in the past 6 months.
Now I report under him and he stacked on 4 pretty big projects in a 2 months period (migrate to exchange in the cloud, totally replace our still working file server, upgrade every workstation, and replacing our conference room projectors with HD monitors).. Now, I'm not complaining about the workload but it's highly suspicious, especially since 2 of these projects should be quarterly goals, not monthly.
Last week, he demanded that I be at work the day after Labor Day an hour early. When my concern was that it would be impossible, (especially under such short notice) because I had to drop my children off at daycare and I live over an hour away, his retort was "I don't care." When I then told him that my wife needed to be at work (as a teacher for autistic children) for her first day of her new school year that day he again replied, "I don't care, it's not my problem. " He then implied that my work life should hold a equal or higher importance to my family life, which is unacceptable to me.
Now, after less than a week after completing a goal my predecessor slept on for 6 years, he's hounding me non-stop about the remainder of my tasks... I bet I'll be fired right after completing those .. Today I have an ominous meeting where he demanded firm timelines on everything remaining.... I'm thinking of just walking. It'll be hard without unemployment but.. Hm.. My rent was recently slashed so I think this is an opportunity to spent a few weeks with my 5 month old then hussle until I find a job that doesn't necessarily pay more but makes me a happier person.
Convince me that I'm being rash.
UPDATE
Now this is fun. Walked in today to our file server being down. Turns out, even with norton up to date, we got hit with ransomware that encrytped all files on our server. I'm guessing 8+ hours to recovery, if at all...
I'm guessing now's the day to walk..
Now I report under him and he stacked on 4 pretty big projects in a 2 months period (migrate to exchange in the cloud, totally replace our still working file server, upgrade every workstation, and replacing our conference room projectors with HD monitors).. Now, I'm not complaining about the workload but it's highly suspicious, especially since 2 of these projects should be quarterly goals, not monthly.
Last week, he demanded that I be at work the day after Labor Day an hour early. When my concern was that it would be impossible, (especially under such short notice) because I had to drop my children off at daycare and I live over an hour away, his retort was "I don't care." When I then told him that my wife needed to be at work (as a teacher for autistic children) for her first day of her new school year that day he again replied, "I don't care, it's not my problem. " He then implied that my work life should hold a equal or higher importance to my family life, which is unacceptable to me.
Now, after less than a week after completing a goal my predecessor slept on for 6 years, he's hounding me non-stop about the remainder of my tasks... I bet I'll be fired right after completing those .. Today I have an ominous meeting where he demanded firm timelines on everything remaining.... I'm thinking of just walking. It'll be hard without unemployment but.. Hm.. My rent was recently slashed so I think this is an opportunity to spent a few weeks with my 5 month old then hussle until I find a job that doesn't necessarily pay more but makes me a happier person.
Convince me that I'm being rash.
UPDATE
Now this is fun. Walked in today to our file server being down. Turns out, even with norton up to date, we got hit with ransomware that encrytped all files on our server. I'm guessing 8+ hours to recovery, if at all...
I'm guessing now's the day to walk..
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