Topic: Females

[atomicbomberman]

lol or wash my hair! lol

Hmm.. I donno I have a hard time believing Vapor man.. there are pretty much mainly 3 types of people to post on this forum.. I mean.. really there are only 3...
1. Nerds that are single
2. Nerds that are married (OLD, 30+)
3. Women that are married to Nerds...

I'm not to say that there arn't exceptions, but lets' face it guys, most of us pretty much traded much of our sex life w/ something that's just as important... Computers! =)

People like Vapor who are in their 20s and get girls like that is too rare man. I mean, I want a Girl too man, but I just have a hard time talking to them for too long. and Bleh.. never really worked myself up to ask a girl out who is not my friend.

Plus, I'm like a freakin weirdo... I'm an Asian, but I don't act like one...
Hehe, I don't drive Japanese "rice rockets", I don't listen to hip hop rap music... but rather I listen to heavy Rock like Korn, and a bit of a Gothic too. (I own a black trenchcoat) =)

Guess that's why Asian girls doesn't like me, and white girls just usually don't like Asian guys anyway =(

Vapor.. u da pimp man if you're not lying.. hehe.. put it this way man.. it's your Teen years dude.. it's not like you're ever planning to marry that girl, at least u went out w/ hella chicks, unlike me.. =(I dont' need to say more)

 

[atomicbomberman]

lol or wash my hair! lol

Hmm.. I donno I have a hard time believing Vapor man.. there are pretty much mainly 3 types of people to post on this forum.. I mean.. really there are only 3...
1. Nerds that are single
2. Nerds that are married (OLD, 30+)
3. Women that are married to Nerds...

I'm not to say that there arn't exceptions, but lets' face it guys, most of us pretty much traded much of our sex life w/ something that's just as important... Computers! =)

People like Vapor who are in their 20s and get girls like that is too rare man. I mean, I want a Girl too man, but I just have a hard time talking to them for too long. and Bleh.. never really worked myself up to ask a girl out who is not my friend.

 

[Youareaweaklink]

Wow, parents must not teach their young anymore!

Rule #1. There is no such thing as a serious relationship in High School, or in college for that matter. There are very rare exceptions to that rule.

Rule #2. Hang out with your friends, because they are the ones you will not hang out with after you finish school.

Rule #3. If you "must" get "some" and girls (not women yet) intimidate you, or you can't figure out what women want for yourself, then you are not ready, and just go to a prostitute or buy Playboy and use your imagination.

Rule #4. Most people think they are "it" and strive for women out of there league. The best looking women are usually the most shallow, and the "relationship" is just for sex. That can be fun, but as long as you are willing to get STD's and possibly get her pregnant. Then that nice little package doesn't seem to look so good anymore when she has you in court for child support payments.

The best women have a brain, look good (not great looking, not fugly), values, morals, and commitment to complete what they start. Commitment is what young people don't develope until later in life. Some sooner than others, and some never.

Rule #5. Darwinism = survival of the fittest. Some will just finish last in relationships, jobs, and life. Some are meant to be losers.

For your best advice (not the best advice is not from most people on here) go ask your parents. They had to go through it all to have you.

Or you could start a poll here. Polls seem to cover very deep subjects and what the meaning of life is.:frown::disgust:

 

[Sgt.Speculum]

From my personal experiemce, I've found that women like a man with a good sense of humor. Being able to make them laugh is key, not by burping, expelling noxious gasses from various bodily orifices, or doing things that you may find humorous amongst your guy friends, but a sharp wit, and a slight touch of humorous sarcasm( be careful, theres a line that you can cross that can piss a woman off). But this isn't everything. Being honest and open is key! I recently started seeing someone(first since breaking up with the fiancee in January), and she initially thought that I was incapable of being serious because I was always joking around and making her laugh. But then certain issues came up and she realized that I can be serious, emotional, compassionate, and sincere. She appreciates my openess, and I don't feel like I should have to play BS games anymore, I don't have time for that crap. I told her this too, and when she asked what my intentions were towards her, I told her, in the beginning, I told her what I wanted/expected from her, and that if she had a problem with that, maybe she should re-evaluate how much time she was willing to spend with me. It wasn't an ultimatum, but I made my intentions quite clear.
I guess this post seems more like babbling than anything else, but the truth is nice guys don't finish last. You just have to wait for the one girl who will appreciate you for the nice guy that you are. I don't care what you say, but when you see the look she gives you after you've done something nice for her. And to hear her say "Nobody has ever done anything this nice for me" or "I've never met anyone like you before" its all worth it. Put yourself out there, take the risks, sure you'll get dumped countless times and who hasn't, but in the end, when you find the one.....that feeling is priceless. You'll see.

 

[dennilfloss]

Amen to that Sgt. Speculum.

You Might Think (The Cars)

 

[Yza]

Its all in the hips

 

[ultravox]

What really impresses women is when you can make the clock on the VCR stop flashing 12...12...12...12...

 

[chess9]

When I was a senior in high school, I was about 5'10" tall-hadn't finished growing. I'm now just under 6'1", and getting shorter by the second.

Anyway, for about 6 months I dated an absolutely ravishing Swedish girl who was 6'2" tall . One day she told me I was too short for her! I was crushed.

Twenty years later at our high school reunion I showed up with my wife who is, in my view, as pretty inside as she is outside. The girl was there and we sat at the same table. She had married a guy about 5'8" tall! Very nice guy though.

High school kids have no idea how immature they are. They are still in the "me" stage of life. Once past the "me" stage, we should all start to look for the qualities Isla mentions above. I would add a sense of humor, principally because mine often fails me and we ALL value someone who makes us laugh. Red, WW, Jhu, Russ, and PennState make me laugh, so I usually read their posts. (Isla, by the way, is ALWAYS right! It scares me how adept she is at giving just the right answer with a gentle touch! Let's hope she isn't a computer at Sandia Labs or UIUC! )

Boys have their peak testosterone levels in high school, so suggesting that they look for things other than sex is advice that will be ignored. If more high school boys could hook (no pun intended) up with 30+ year old women, then they'd both be happy, albeit for only one hour!

My two boys were in their 20's before they realized that T&A was less important than other qualites. I'm sure that's typical. Many men never learn that lesson. (ditto for women, by the way)

Since you seem to be out of high school, I'd start focusing on the qualities Isla mentions. You could do much worse.

 

[Viperoni]

Musta sucked Chess
There's this one girl (on my lunch) who's at least as tall as the girl in chess's story, intimidating almost :Q

 

[Isla]

<< Rule #2. Hang out with your friends, because they are the ones you will not hang out with after you finish school. >>




weaklink, LOL! The Truth Has Been Spoken!

 

[Viperoni]

LOL

 

[Isla]

Thank you, chess....

Now I don't feel half as bad about my compulsion to post at this board 25X's a day!

 

[SKiller]

<< Wow, parents must not teach their young anymore! >>


Yes, your post proved that point quite well.

 

[~zonker~]

A more important question, in my mind anyway, is what turns women off...

In other words, if you exhibited all the qualities that Isla mentioned, are there things that still could mess it up. I have noticed that 'not listening' is a big one. In other words, when a woman starts expressing a dilema or problem, offering an instant solution is almost always a bad idea.

It seems to me that women like to talk things through, to be acknowledged. Men just look at these things as a problem to be solved and have a tendancy to try and 'fix' them...

 

[Shudder]

Don't be full of crap.

After I broke up with my last gf (like 4 years ago) I didn't date for well over a year. By that time I got it all out of my system. You just have to be yourself because if you put on some BS show for a girl, eventually you'll revert back to who you really are and she'll drop your ass.

Some guy I worked with (who never really had a relationship btw, but 'hooked up' every once in a while) told me I didn't know girls. Guess my 2 1/2 year relationship is testament to that. He said that you can't take your girlfriend out with your other friends (because they're so different.. of course) and you can't act the way you normally do around girls. He basically gave me 2 reasons that made perfect sense why he doesn't have a gf.

Don't change the way you are, don't be afraid to say anything, and if girls don't like that, then that's not a girl who'd stick around you for a long time.

 

[denali]

See the movie &quot;The Tao of Steve&quot; to learn what a women wants.

 

[ratkil]

Hey, that looks like a cool movie!

 

[denali]

Yes, it was very good movie, sad thing is when I saw it only one other couple was in the theatre which seat about 500. Another good film is &quot;Woman On Top&quot;, this one had maybe ten people in the theatre when I saw it.

 

[atomicbomberman]

how the hell this post when from girls to movie?
Gosh...
And Guess is right, I never look at those extremely hot girls, mainly because they're blonds and have no brain, and can't really appericate how resourcful a man who is smart, funny, and very computer literate can be.
Don't get me wrong, I know a few girls that are smart and hot at the same time, but they are rare, and I guess I'm too stupid for them or somethin...
But really man, I never look at super hot girls anyway, proved time and again and again by numerious people that tell me they're a waste of time. I look for a girl that is good looking, sincere, truthful and can appericate me.

Am I asking too much?

Oh... ok.. I'll admit it, I didn't date at all in High School, but I pretty much look at it this way, I'll go to a good school, make 6 digit figures by the time i'm 30, and at my 10 years high school reunion, I can come back and laugh at all them hot shots and pimp in high school for they're all still working at Theaters or something! =)

 

[Eeks]

I think this was all summed up in the first post. It all boils down to avoiding this mentality on the part of guys:
&quot;Give me a break i did everything for that girl. I was getting tired of her anyways but I'm pissed i didnt get any &quot;

You did everything for her? Great, but its meaningless if the only reason you did it was to &quot;get some.&quot;

 

[Passions]

gorillas.

 

[randomlinh]

On the height thing, i'm 5'5&quot;.. grrr.. stupid asian short genes. My problem be starting conversation and keeping it.. big problem

 

[atomicbomberman]

What's with girls anyway? why the hell they all want to talk forever? I mean, I love to start a conversation and talk and all... but I just can like.. connect u know what I mean? and I feel so guilty when I'm just like going.. &quot;ya.. ya..&quot; and nodding through.. it's not that I don't want to listen deeply, and I do, it just that I can't say anything? What are u suppose to do if you're not suppose to off instant solution to problems? I mean... just listen in and nodding my head along made me feel so bad sometimes.

 

[~zonker~]

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus (John Gray)

&quot;In chapter 2 we will explore how men's and women's values are inherently different and try to understand the two biggest mistakes we make in relating to the opposite sex: men mistakenly offer solutions and invalidate feelings while women offer unsolicited advice and direction. Through understanding our Martian/Venusian background, it becomes obvious why men and women unknowingly make these mistakes. By remembering these differences, we can correct our mistakes and immediately respond to each other in more productive ways.&quot;

It's a good book... some of it I could throw out the window, but there is a great deal of truth in what he says..

 

[XL]

Seems to me women like a guy with confidence.They want you to pay attention to them and listen to what they have to say.They like a guy who compliments them every now and then and at least acts like he notices them.I think a little face every now and then helps .Remember...One good turn deserves another.