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Dr. Zaus

Lifer
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well are we talking about gender roles or gender?
Just look at the example below your post - clearly you can have three genders.

To me, this means there is no "real" thing we can call gender, the only thing that's real are gender roles.

However, gender itself is experienced as real.
 

Dr. Zaus

Lifer
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urgh. nope. im staying out of this one. i said my piece.
I understand - it's like arguing about the existence of any other magical thing - like beauty or God.

What we seem to miss is that our authentic experience of self is interminable linked to our society.
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
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Just look at the example below your post - clearly you can have three genders.

To me, this means there is no "real" thing we can call gender, the only thing that's real are gender roles.

However, gender itself is experienced as real.
This is not a very scientific approach, you're essentially saying since we don't yet have a full understanding of gender (as used in this context), it isn't real.
 

Dr. Zaus

Lifer
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No. Beauty is subjective, and deities are not something that can be studied scientifically.
There will never be a science that can find physical evidence of Gender - the argument in favor of gender always boils down to soul/spirit/mind that is "of" a gender.

This is nonsensical - it is a spooky metaphysical argument.

Want science? Look to the biology of sex, the sociological of gender roles, the psychology of how we come to feel "authentic".

At no point do you see a soul/spirit/mind that is outside of the physical as it interacts with the socal.


If people feel they need to be mutilated to be authentic then there is a problem with biology or society. Since other societies accept people who would feel most authentic being embedded within a different gender, and allow them to without mutilation, we can see it is not the biology that is demanding the mutilation, but the social.
 

nakedfrog

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I disagree with your assessment, and it would appear you and I have nothing to discuss. You already know everything there is to be known on on the subject (or so you've decided) whereas I do not.
 

Dr. Zaus

Lifer
Oct 16, 2008
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I disagree with your assessment, and it would appear you and I have nothing to discuss. You already know everything there is to be known on on the subject (or so you've decided) whereas I do not.
I'm ready to change my views, I prefer to find that I am wrong. But why not speak to my faulty premise?

Try removing personal feelings from your assessment. Imagine why you might say "hmm... something is wrong with society" when you read these:

http://www.cracked.com/article_23006_ball-ironing-7-terrifying-unnecessary-plastic-surgeries.html
 

nakedfrog

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I'm ready to change my views, I prefer to find that I am wrong. But why not speak to my faulty premise?

Try removing personal feelings from your assessment. Imagine why you might say "hmm... something is wrong with society" when you read these:

http://www.cracked.com/article_23006_ball-ironing-7-terrifying-unnecessary-plastic-surgeries.html
Society has performed bodily modifications for longer than history has been recorded, as far as I'm aware. It does not mean there is anything inherently wrong with society, it simply speaks to the current mores of that society.
 

cbrunny

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I understand - it's like arguing about the existence of any other magical thing - like beauty or God.

What we seem to miss is that our authentic experience of self is interminable linked to our society.
well, not quite what I meant, but sort of. I mean that this issue is contentious, and my opinion is pretty cut & dry. There's no need for me to engage in semantics to try to encourage anyone to believe what I believe, because my opinion as stated basically precludes me from doing that.
 

who?

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They don't have the surgery to meet society's expectations, they have the surgery to feel that their body matches their mind.
 
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Dr. Zaus

Lifer
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They don't have the surgery to meet society's expectations, they have the surgery to feel that their body matches their mind.
And where does mind come from if not biology as it encounters the physical and social world?
 
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I agree with the hands off until 18 side. At that age i dont care what you choose to do to yourself. But before that you only think you know everything.
 

IEC

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If you are the ~ 1 in 20,000 who have a SRY-gene translocation or AIS or similar genetic condition then I will do the same as I would do for any other patient:

Explain the genetics
Present the options to the parents
Let them decide what to do

Where I personally draw the line is a parent trying to force their genotypically and phenotypically normal child to change genders for no good reason. That's child abuse.
 

Dr. Zaus

Lifer
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If you are the ~ 1 in 20,000 who have a SRY-gene translocation or AIS or similar genetic condition then I will do the same as I would do for any other patient:

Explain the genetics
Present the options to the parents
Let them decide what to do

Where I personally draw the line is a parent trying to force their genotypically and phenotypically normal child to change genders for no good reason. That's child abuse.
And for you good reason is >? No one is doing this thinking "ah, it'll be like an ear piercing"

But if you had a dual-gendered child, upon what ethical grounds could you justify mutilating the child to fit our social norms? It's not a cleft pallet, it's a different, legitimate, way of being a human that's just very rare.
 

yhelothar

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It's unfortunate that gender issues is a political issue. There is a tremendous wealth of knowledge that the common folk is not aware of that may give them a false premise of sex and gender that they should not be influencing policy on this front. It's easy to think gender is entirely a sociological concept and sex is a simple as the equipment between the legs, but reality is nowhere near that simple. There is a tremendous amount of biological influences between sexes that influences cognition and behavior. The obvious ones being the hormonal ones. Even still in utero, a male baby is exposed to a significantly higher amounts of testosterone in the mother's womb. This results in many measureable effects, not just on sex organs, but in structures in the brain. One such structure is the aptly named sexually dimorphic nucleus of the hypothalamus which is twice as large in straight men as it is in women and gay men. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_dimorphic_nucleus

The effects of testosterone on behavior is well studied. Even chimpanzees show gender preferences similar to ours in toys. Female chimps prefer dolls while male chimps trucks and cars. It's obvious that chimps would not have the same sociological constructs of gender as we do, yet they show similar gender behaviors. Further solidifying a causal link between the biology of gender and behavior is female monkeys with congenital adrenal hyperplasia that elevates their testosterone to levels of males show similar gender preferences as male chimps. They prefer the same toys and engage in the same rough and tumble play. Testosterone is known for masculinizing behavior - aggression, competitiveness, development of strength.

The effects of raising someone under the wrong gender than the masculinization processes during development can be devastating. One such case is the boy named Bruce who had a botched circumcision and the doctor decided to give him gender reassignment to a female and have him raised as a girl. This made a lot of sense given the dominant belief at the time is that gender is entirely sociological. Bruce never felt right as a female and often showed male interests and activities and always considered himself as a boy. He was not accepted as a girl by his peers. At the age of 14, he found out about his history and reverted back to being a male. However, the damage has been done. At the age of 38, he committed suicide. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1332396/Bruce-Reimer-Tragic-twin-boy-brought-girl.html
 
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Dr. Zaus

Lifer
Oct 16, 2008
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It's unfortunate that gender issues is a political issue. There is a tremendous wealth of knowledge that the common folk is not aware of that may give them a false premise of sex and gender that they should not be influencing policy on this front. It's easy to think gender is entirely a sociological concept and sex is a simple as the equipment between the legs, but reality is nowhere near that simple. There is a tremendous amount of biological influences between sexes that influences cognition and behavior. The obvious ones being the hormonal ones. Even still in utero, a male baby is exposed to a significantly higher amounts of testosterone in the mother's womb. This results in many measureable effects, not just on sex organs, but in structures in the brain. One such structure is the aptly named sexually dimorphic nucleus of the hypothalamus which is twice as large in straight men as it is in women and gay men. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_dimorphic_nucleus

The effects of testosterone on behavior is well studied. Even chimpanzees show gender preferences similar to ours in toys. Female chimps prefer dolls while male chimps trucks and cars. It's obvious that chimps would not have the same sociological constructs of gender as we do, yet they show similar gender behaviors. Further solidifying a causal link between the biology of gender and behavior is female monkeys with congenital adrenal hyperplasia that elevates their testosterone to levels of males show similar gender preferences as male chimps. They prefer the same toys and engage in the same rough and tumble play. Testosterone is known for masculinizing behavior - aggression, competitiveness, development of strength.

The effects of raising someone under the wrong gender than the masculinization processes during development can be devastating. One such case is the boy named Bruce who had a botched circumcision and the doctor decided to give him gender reassignment to a female and have him raised as a girl. This made a lot of sense given the dominant belief at the time is that gender is entirely sociological. Bruce never felt right as a female and often showed male interests and activities and never considered himself as a boy. He was not accepted as a girl by his peers. At the age of 14, he found out about his history and reverted back to being a male. However, the damage has been done. At the age of 38, he committed suicide. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1332396/Bruce-Reimer-Tragic-twin-boy-brought-girl.html
Indeed, I never denied that the embodied facts of sex differences. I did argue the sociological situation of gendered norms. Even if testosterone is higher here, and estrogen lower there, how society deals with those differences, the expectations and bounds of behavior it accepts and legitimates, is a function of gendered norms. The "mind" is nothing magical, it is a function of a brain in a vat encountering the physical and social world. There is nothing in the physical world that demands gendered mutilation, it is only the encounter with the social world that creates a feeling of 'wrongness'.

A desire to change that that vat based on encounters in the social world doesn't negate the authenticity of that desire; but if we do not properly situate the question of causation we will not get to an honest account of the bounds and causes.
 

yhelothar

Lifer
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Indeed, I never denied that the embodied facts of sex differences. I did argue the sociological situation of gendered norms. Even if testosterone is higher here, and estrogen lower there, how society deals with those differences, the expectations and bounds of behavior it accepts and legitimates, is a function of gendered norms. The "mind" is nothing magical, it is a function of a brain in a vat encountering the physical and social world. There is nothing in the physical world that demands gendered mutilation, it is only the encounter with the social world that creates a feeling of 'wrongness'.

A desire to change that that vat based on encounters in the social world doesn't negate the authenticity of that desire; but if we do not properly situate the question of causation we will not get to an honest account of the bounds and causes.

So with Bruce who was never accepted by his peers as Brenda, what would you suggest to his peers? It's difficult to get society to change on a large scale, especially as kids who are often ignorant and haven't developed the manners and politeness of adults. Should everyone be exposed to talks/classes on gender studies so they become more open on a range of behaviors for a gender? How should society deal with this if not by letting the child choose to be raised and treated as the gender s/he identifies with?
 

Dr. Zaus

Lifer
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Should everyone be exposed to talks/classes on gender studies so they become more open on a range of behaviors for a gender?
Yes.

Just like if society was almost all black or white and a kid was born Albino we shouldn't use poisonous paint to make the kid look pink or brown; we should educate people on the value of respecting differences.

Exactly how hard do you think it was to get white kids to accept black kids? It's the parents with the problem, it's the parents who teach kids to hate. It's not that kids are horrible, it's that they learn how to be horrible from their secretly horrible parents.
 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
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Indeed, I never denied that the embodied facts of sex differences. I did argue the sociological situation of gendered norms. Even if testosterone is higher here, and estrogen lower there, how society deals with those differences, the expectations and bounds of behavior it accepts and legitimates, is a function of gendered norms. The "mind" is nothing magical, it is a function of a brain in a vat encountering the physical and social world. There is nothing in the physical world that demands gendered mutilation, it is only the encounter with the social world that creates a feeling of 'wrongness'.
In extreme cases of gender dysphoria, the presence of the "wrong" genitals causes a lot of mental discomfort. I feel like you're attempting to speak from authority on a subject with which you're not all that familiar.
 
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piasabird

Lifer
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Well if you go to the restroom and pull down your panties and take a look you either have a Penis or a Vagina. That is a pretty simple way to perform an evaluation. Any other supposed genders are learned behaviour based on some kind of mental conditioning. Sure you may not be comfortable with your birth assigned state of sexuality, but a lot of that is just societal norms we learn or grow into. It is all in your head.
 
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