Originally posted by: Wingznut
I have two boys, ages 7 and 10.Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: Wingznut
Where do you suppose he learned to call his mom such a thing?
(Btw, are you the bio-dad?... Married to his mom?)
You'd be suprised at the language kids these days use in school.
If he is learning this from his school, then a change is needed immediately. But I think you should look at this a bit closer... An 8 year-old doesn't learn to be agressive and disrespectful to his mother from school. At that age, they are basically mama's boy and want to do ANYTHING to please her.
I respect your opinion as a parent. And I respect your stance on the issue of not using physical means to discipline a child However, I have a different opinion as being an older brother and raised in a very strict household concerning cursing. I was spanked when I acted out when I was younger, yet I didn't have hand problems, or was overly aggressive growing up.
I actually had to deal with this with my younger brother when I was 12 (he was 8 at the time). No one in my family ever cursed at my parents. You simply did not use that kind of language in the house, and everyone knew that. If you did, you'd get a bar of soap in your mouth.
Yet one day, my brother came home, got angry, and called my mother a b!tch. You can bet my mom was mighty pissed at this. Open mouth, insert soap. No Nintendo for 3 weeks. There was no way he heard this language from my parents, and no reason he should've ever used it. He was probably trying to be cool like one of his friends who used it, and just didn't know any better.
That's my 2 cents as a brother, not a parent.