Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: blodhi74
today my 8 year old got his ass beat up (spanked hard ) by me for calling his mom a bitch. After crying for an hour he appologized to her and me..... But I am still pissed. I took his acess to PS2 and TV for 2 weeks.... Talked to mom who as a kid I used to get my behind whooped for misbehaving told me to give him a break. Should I give in or stick with the punisment ????
Stick to your word. Do what you said you would. And then shut up about it. Don't keep adding punishment upon punishment.
(I personally don't believe in spanking, tho.)
Originally posted by: Amol
Originally posted by: SWScorch
stick with it. Never give in. Kids are like predators; if they see a weakness they will exploit it. Evil little bastards.
Originally posted by: 79Blazer
The horses are high in this thread. And all the pimple-farmers giving advice when they don't have any children.... :thumbsdown::disgust:
Originally posted by: Psycho17
Originally posted by: OulOat
Stop being a Pussy... Beat your kids
rofl
lmfaoThis usually shuts them up because they see that the amount of crying is proportional to the amount of beatings.
HA my dad used to do that all the time!!The one-handed chauffeur reach around
Originally posted by: blodhi74
today my 8 year old got his ass beat up (spanked hard ) by me for calling his mom a bitch. After crying for an hour he appologized to her and me..... But I am still pissed. I took his acess to PS2 and TV for 2 weeks.... Talked to mom who as a kid I used to get my behind whooped for misbehaving told me to give him a break. Should I give in or stick with the punisment ????
Originally posted by: NOLOVE
Yeah, beat your children. Afterall... somebody has to be America's future.
Originally posted by: z0mb13
Originally posted by: NOLOVE
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: NOLOVE
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: NOLOVE
What separates spanking from beating? Open vs. closed fist?
This is your child. You're beating him because he learned how to use the word 'bitch'. I'm sure the little 8 year old went online and looked up the definition and context so that he could use it when he needed to. He probably heard it from you... or learned it through the net of your great parenting skills.
Beating a child would include any and all objects, a closed fist, and actually hurting the child.
So the kid is only bawling for hours because his butt was showing in front of his dad, right? Please.
Younger children cry. It happens. Especially after being spanked. And especially if they know they did something wrong. I guess you never cried as an 8 year old eh?
Nowhere did I ever state that beating a child was ok.
I don't know if the OP beat or spanked his child, but I'd guess his child would've probably been crying for a lot longer than an hour if he got beat.
The point is... SPANKING "ACTUALLY HURTS THE CHILD". It gets hurt being slapped in the palm of your hand, you don't think it might hurt a kid's bare ass?
yeah keep talking to ur kid and think they would pay an ounce of attention
Originally posted by: troytime
what do kids learn from physical punishment other than "dad doesn't like me doing that"
Originally posted by: TravisT
"He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes (diligently)."
"Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him."
"Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die."
I don't believe in hitting a child to teach him a lesson, and like I said, I have two boys (10 and 7).Originally posted by: SearchMaster
I have three boys, 6yo, 4yo, and a baby. The middle one probably gets spanked twice a year or so, and you better damn believe disrespecting his mother like that would add to the totals. The older one rarely gets spanked, probably not at all in the last couple of years, because the threat of a spanking is generally enough to keep him in line. He'll sometimes act up enough to earn a timeout to his room, but soon straightens up and apologizes.
It's easy to say you don't believe in spanking when you don't have kids.